Hey Everyone,

This post will be (somewhat) advanced; it is for customers who have familiarity with my products - the squirting orgasms DVD, the Chakra meditations, and most of all, the Girlfriend Training Program.

With the BGTP being almost completed, my inbox is getting flooded with GTP questions, which is great because people really want to start waking up and taking their love lives to the next level we call “Yin/Yang Polarity”. This is the level where your girlfriend regularly says crazy things like, “How may I serve you?” and “Thank you for helping me become a better woman”. And, she doesn’t say these things out of FEAR, she actually says these things because you have earned her respect on such a deep level that the appreciation just naturally overflows like a river of squirt juice..

A lot of you have the same exact problem:

You think that just LISTENING to the GTP while nodding your head is enough to make significant changes in your lives.

Ahem… it’s not nearly enough.

You have to actually USE what you’ve learned, over and over until it is MASTERED. Fortunately for you guys, I went through a lifetime of trial and error; I started dating an abundance of women at age 13, and now that I’m almost 32, I’m a seasoned pro. The fuckin’ GTP is seriously JAM_PACKED with frame-control and Heart.

So… USE IT.

Consider this email. Please read it fully -

> Hey Stephane,
>
> Do you think there are girls that are beyond training? That is, that
> they are so messed up that a loving GTP-enhanced boyfriend can’t do
> much good and they should rather be treated by, ahem… “professionals”?
>
> I recently got involved with a girl who turned out to be an occasional
> self-cutter (ex-suicidal, and self-hater too), usually as an aftermath
> to good experiences (go figure). What really got to me though, was that
> she would pick a fight right when we would get to the most blissful
> intimate moments.
>
> Last time that happened, I fired her. Now she’s all sad and sorry and
> wants another chance. What I am asking myself is: 1. How can I trust
> her not to do it again (it hurts man), 2. whether I can help her at
> all, and 3. even if I could, being a healthy, normal, loving, young
> man, am I not putting myself in a damaging environment by sticking
> around her?
>
> I’m seeing her tomorrow, so any thoughts (also short) are most welcome.
>
> Thanks, and good luck with the LA sessions,
> GUY

To anyone who isn’t familiar with The GTP, you’ll probably think, “He should dump her”, and if you’re REALLY stupid you’ll think, “He should prove his undying love and devotion to her, once she sees how loved she is, she will surely be healed”. AKA, ass-kissing.

If he just dumps her, he will always wonder, “What if?”

“What if I had handled her differently? What if I was the only guy who could have made a difference in her life? What if she is being used and mis-treated by some macho douchebag now that I’ve dumped her?”

Dumping a girl BEFORE one understands exactly what went wrong will cause anyone with a conscience to drive himself crazy with the “what if’s”.

Then, there is the other kind of guy, probably even MORE CLUELESS, who would overwhelm this girl with affection and love and gifts until she just eats him alive. He would kiss her ass, and therefore guarantee that she doesn’t trust him. Ass-kissing drives the nails into the relationship coffin.

Those approaches obviously won’t work.

A seasoned Girlfriend Trainer knows that he must first have 5D Compassion.

What does 5D Compassion do for you, when you actually use it?

Simple.

It allows you to know exactly what the fuck is going on with the girl. It gives you a higher perspective. It washes away the PARANOIA and PROJECTIONS, and it unveils the TRUTH. Notice that it is the very first thing taught in the GTP, in fact, the entire GTP is useless for people who do not actively use the simple 5DC. It allows my students to Be Their Own Gurus.

> Now let’s talk about this girl from a position of vulnerability, empathy, and compassion.

The first thing you mentioned was that she was a ‘cutter’, and suicidal. And, during your most intimate moments, she tends to pull back and self-sabotage.

Don’t you see? This describes MOST WOMEN, it’s just that most guys never become intimate enough to know the real truth about their girlfriends.

My COMPASSION-based intuition tells me that this girl was very controlled in her youth, she had very controlling parents.

And, she’s probably bisexual, in other words, she’s much more spiritually evolved than the average churchgoing sheep of today, and as usual with girls like this, IT SCARED THE SHIT OUT OF HER PARENTS. They saw a LIGHT in her eyes, from the day she was born, and since they do not have that much light in their eyes, it scared them in the same way that Jesus scared people to the point of getting nailed on the cross.

I was the same way, and I suspect that most of you who are drawn to me, and to ideaGasms, you also scared the crap out of your parents. I was the kid who would stand up in church and say, “If Jesus could turn stones into bread, why didn’t he turn the cross into bread? He could have easily walked away. Then he could have turned the nails into WINE and had a party. Fuck, if he could heal others, why didn’t he heal his wounds on the spot? Then he could have walked on water, and nobody would be able to catch him because they would all DROWN!”

I was the kid who looked at his mother at age 5 and said, “NOBODY FUCKIN’ TELLS ME WHAT TO DO, NOBODY!”

I was the kid in school who crossed his arms and said, “Fuck learning math, I have a calculator right here, teach me something interesting, teach me about SEX! Why do my balls swell up everytime you write on the chalkboard, and why do I keep staring at your ass?”

I remember this one math teacher i had, her ass was so fine… i remember how it jiggled each time she turned to write formulas on the blackboard. Why did she wear those tight WHITE PANTS?? To this day, I suck in math, and I blame those pants.

I was smarter than my parents, my priests, my teachers, and they hated me because they knew I was RIGHT. It’s called evolution - our children are SUPPOSED to surpass us.

You know what they did with me? They locked me up, I grew up surrounded by psychiatrists. And, the more they controlled me, the more I rebelled, and finally, once I had no freedom at all, I turned to drugs, attempted suicide, booze, and a SERIOUS goddamn addiction to sex.

This girl you are dating, if she could hear me talking, I bet she would light up like a fucking christmas tree. My words will speak to her very soul, she’s “my kind of people”. She was controlled to the point where the only freedom she had left was to cut herself.

The only freedom left was to commit suicide. Because if you think about it, suicide is the single most personal act you could ever engage in… it is, in a sense, the last human freedom. Actually, MEDITATION is the last human freedom, but you get my point

You mentioned that she pulls back whenever you become too close, and this is very, very common. She pulls back because intimacy is scary… it’s scary because during our most intimate moments, we lose the “I” to merge with another soul and become “WE”.

Intimacy is very frightening because we become afraid that we will lose control over ourselves. In the past, look at how women gave away their power! They were utterly controlled by men. And this wound runs very, very deep. Some have called it “The Wound Of Isis” because it is as old as the feminine herself.

And women today still give away their power - they often shrink themselves because they don’t want to piss us off. They want to keep the peace. Men are WAR-MONGERS.

And women are sexually repressed - In certain religions, a woman is told that sex is a sin and will lead her to hell, then she is told that her husband is her God, that she must follow him. So her “God” of a husband then has sex with her, which brings her to hell.

In some religions, they actually CUT OFF A WOMAN’S CLITORIS.

Over 100 MILLION clits have been sliced off by now, with only ONE CASE of “Lorena Bobbit” to make up for it

This is how STUPID religions are, and nobody is exempt from any of this ‘unconscious programming’.

Only meditators know what true love is, only MEDITATORS are able to let go and love.

Want a relationship? Well, you can FORGET IT if you don’t know meditation, because relationships force many issues to rise to the surface, so in the midst of chaos, only meditators will remain detached enough that they won’t drown. In this society, every relationship seems to last for only a few weeks before the shit hits the fan and both partners start cheating, either mentally or physically, because only new relationsips have the bliss of meditation, new relationships are like a fake meditation brought on by chemicals and hormones. (WHORE MOANS)

Have you taught her meditation? Have you healed her sexuality by using the “squirt training’ orgasms DVD? Have you healed her past by using the abuse stuff in the GTP manual with her? Have you taught her the 5D Compassion?

You say that when she pulls back, that it “hurts” you.

How many times have I said that only the EGO can ever be hurt?? You have not USED the 5D Compassion model, you haven’t trained her to squirt, and you don’t fuckin’ meditate, that’s for sure.

You’re not behaving like a SPIRITUAL WARRIOR, you’re behaving like the typical SHEEP who settles for mediocrity. This girl, I would have had her recruting other girls by now FOR SURE

You need a good spanking -

I’m an asshole, but only because I’m realizing that you really need to SHOCK PEOPLE if they are to learn anything. People only learn when they become EMOTIONAL, so let’s just say I love you guys ENOUGH to beat the shit out of you. You know, I COULD water-down my teachings to become more marketable…

You say that you “fired her” the last time she “hurt” your ego, but you should never fire a girl in this way. You are merely being REACTIVE, so you fired her from FEAR, instead of from Compassion, which is the highest form of love. The lowest, ‘humble beginnings’ of love is sexual energy, and the highest level of love is compassion.

And when you combine those two together, sparks fly, girls raise their consciousness to the level where they naturally blossom to become bisexual, and THEN they start recruiting more and more girls for you because they would feel too selfish to not share the wealth with other fellow females. They know that what you have to offer is profound, life-changing, and so awesome that they begin overflowing with so much love and compassion that the jealousy and catty bullshit melts away and turns into bisexuality, which is nothing but a deep appreciation for Yin. Self-love creates bisexuality in women, and in men it creates a spiritual warrior.

Of course, over 90% of those reading this will think I’ve gone off the deep end… haa, just wait for the BGTP

Thanks for your question!

Blessings all around,
Stephane