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“The Madonna/Whore Complex, Part 1″
I’d like to share an interesting perspective with you
guys that absolutely changed my life a few years back.
As you read the following text, don’t be surprised if
you see yourself in there, as I did.
In fact, I’d go as far as to say that MOST MEN in our
society suffer from this to a certain extent.
The good news is that if you can simply drop this way
of thinking, your dating and relationship success will
skyrocket as a result, and women will really appreciate
your non-judgmental attitudes toward sex.
Here goes:
The Madonna/Whore Complex
For many men in our society, love and hot sex simply
don’t go together.
Men typically want to marry a “good” woman (just like Mom).
Or they want to marry a virgin.
Many men shudder at the thought that their girlfriend
or wife may have enjoyed the company of several sexual
partners in the past.
They think this means women are “bad” or “slutty” or
“dirty”.
The word “slut” is a JUDGMENT.
The hypocrisy is that men who sleep around are like
HEROES in our culture…
The example that comes to my mind is Ron Jeremy.
On the other hand, a woman who enjoys sex with several
partners is a SLUT…
What’s going on here??
When these insecure men marry, they will marry a
“good girl”, because this makes them feel sexually
superior.
Deep down, men who are afflicted by the Madonna/Whore
Complex feel that ANY woman who enjoys sex “too much”
is a whore.
They may be incredibly attracted to her physically,
but deep down they will silently judge her.
All you one-handed Internet surfers know what
I’m talking about…
FACT: Over 80 Million women in third-world countries
have had their clitorises forcibly removed in order
to reduce their sexual pleasure so they won’t cheat
on their husband.
Now that said, am I promoting sexual promiscuity?
Absolutely not.
What I am saying is that if we can learn to let go
of this idea that women who enjoy sex are “sluts”,
and instead of judging them, if we can just accept
them as they are, this puts us in the category of
“RARE MAN.”
I have SEVERAL friends who married virgins, by the way.
To be exact, three friends.
These guys thought they were “set for life”; that
they were “so lucky” to be able to marry virgins.
Guess what happened?
All three of these men are now divorced, and they
all got DUMPED for the same reason:
Their “good-girl” virgin wives couldn’t take it
anymore!
The CURIOSITY was too much for them to handle,
and they divorced these men so that they could
enjoy a little sexual variety.
> Note that there were also other problems, not
just sex. These guys didn’t understand Polarity,
leadership, attraction, etc. like I teach in The
Girlfriend Training Program -
http://www.ideagasms.net/girlfriend-training-program/
So anyway, it’s a FACT that most women LOVE SEX.
Many guys really need to come to terms with this.
In fact, accept and EMBRACE it.
Does this mean there are no loyal women to be
found?
Of course not.
But it DOES mean that as men, if we don’t get a
REAL sexual education and learn how to TRULY SATISFY
women physically, emotionally, and spiritually,
the chances of us getting dumped and/or cheated
on is HUGE.
Most men will never know the following:
ANY WOMAN can be TRAINED to have MULTIPLE,
WHOLE-BODY, EJACULATORY (SQUIRTING) ORGASMS,
OVER AND OVER, FOR HOURS ON END.
> SEE IT WITH YOUR OWN EYES -
http://www.ideagasms.net/how-to-squirt-video/
Funny, a woman called me a couple years ago when she
heard about this DVD to tell me that I’m just a liar
and a charlatan.
She said, “Oh please, Stephane, it’s just PEE and
you know it!”
Well she found out real quick that I don’t argue
when I said, “If you say so. I wish to honor your
right to remain ignorant and miserable” (and then
I hung up the phone).
That night, she tried and tried to make herself
squirt, and of course, she failed miserably.
When she called me the next day, as soon as I
recognized her voice I asked, “How many times?”
She said, “How many times WHAT?”
I responded, “How many times did you try to make
yourself squirt without succeeding?”
(You see, I’ve been through this before)
She laughed and said, “All night long!”
So she came over, paid me, and squirted for about
30 minutes straight.
So why did she fail miserably, and why was I able
to easily train her?
T-E-C-H-N-I-Q-U-E.
I know more about this than she does.
Knowledge is power.
When women learn this, they throw away their dildos,
lose the “pu5sy-power”, and become little
cuddle-bunnies.
When men learn it, they drop the tough act, they
lose the shyness and insecurity, and they develop
true sexual confidence.
Confidence is bred from COMPETENCE -
http://www.ideagasms.net/how-to-squirt-video/
How much is your woman’s pleasure worth to you?
Many Blessings And Thunderous Orgasms,
Stephane
http://www.ideagasms.net/
“Ah, yes, DIVORCE, from the Latin word meaning to rip
out a man’s genitals through his wallet.”
–Robin Williams
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we don’t want the women we marry to be sluts because we are wired to believed slut = has sex with multiple partners which = greater chance of raising a child that isn’t ours
Mother’s baby…father’s maybe
Evolution hasn’t yet realized we have DNA testing…should be a good time when it does…maybe the jealousy emotion will die out as well
You should include the evolutionary psych triggers for these emotions in your articles to give readers the full picture of what’s going on
Looking forward to your article on women being dominated
nice work, like the blog !
Madonna/Whore men get married because they want a family and kids. They don’t always end up having affairs. These days many turn to porn and masturbation on the internet in order to get their “whore” fix.
One thing that is seldom mentioned in these Madonna/Whore articles is that more often that not, the man involved has no idea what’s going on. He is fully aroused by his girlfriend and then after marriage he finds himself no longer attracted to her. This lack of attraction can manifest itself in sexual dysfunction such as the inability to get or hold an erection or being unable to have an orgasm with his wife. Sex becomes stressful and unfullfilling and it is at this point the man seeks sexual relief outside the marriage or with porn on the internet. All he knows is that with any sexual activity other than being with his wife, he has no sexual dysfuction.
Many cases of ED or Retarded Ejaculation are really the result of Madonna/Whore as is male Hyposexuality.
The best thing a man can do for most women is to treat her the way society expects during the day, opening the car door for her and letting her be a princess or whatever (according to her good behavior of course and not overdoing it) and then fucking the absolute living shit out of her in the bedroom at night in the most naughty and dirty way possible. That there is a winning combination.