*Question:

Hi Steph!

I question that has been on my mind for a while: Why haven’t the enlightended masters and all the other people who spend all their time studying relationships and love realised the things you have? Like that for the relationship to be healthy one need to the dominant and the other the submissive, truly embracing yin and yang and so on?

I just realised that this is just my ego trying to tear down what you teach and take my power back, but I think the answer will clear up a few things for me.

Thanks,
Student

>>My Comments:

I disagree - I highly doubt you can attain true enlightenment unless you can understand and master relationships and sexuality. When you see someone who becomes a monk or something, someone who becomes enlightened, what we are not seeing is that they have already mastered sex & relationships in a PREVIOUS lifetime. So, there is no need to focus on tht anymore - all they do is meditate all day long to become enlightened.

Usually what happens with people is that the very LAST LESSONS they learn before becoming enlightened have to do with what I am teaching - yin/yang polarity, interdependence, advanced sexuality, heart chakra consciousness, compassion, etc.

Somehow, SEXUALITY is often the last big hurdle people must go through before reaching enlightenment, and I suspect this has a lot to do with the emotional difficulties surrounding the human sexuality (abuse karma, etc.).

“Relationships and Sexuality” is the most difficult thing a human being could ever master. Things like baseball, engineering, going to law school, building a business, etc. are all very easy things to learn compared to relationships & sex.

People who have good, healthy relationships are hard to find, which is why Ghita and I have become very popular overnight. People come from all corners of the world just to feel our energy.

I know for myself anyway, now that I’m getting this sexual area of my life handled in a big way, I’m now entering my true enlightement path. The only thing I ever read these days is all about buddhism, enlightenment, meditation, etc. because it’s the only thing that is of any interest to me anymore. Everything else just bores me to tears….

Since I am also into this “new energy” type of relationships I call “Interdependent Circles” (One man + 2 or 3 females), it would make sense for me to work very hard on becoming enlightened. You cannot be in a TRUE Circle unless all parties involved have achieved ego-transcendance. Otherwise, they will find that their Circles are filled with jealousy and other forms of darkness, fear, drama…

I suspect that when most of my own students are done learning from me and ideaGasms, they too will also go off to become enlightened. In fact, quite a few of them already have started on their path…

This is a very exciting lifetime indeed!

Blessings,
Stephane

PS - You also mentioned something a little disturbing… you said, “I just realised that this is just my ego trying to tear down what you teach and take my power back”.

Dear Friend, nobody has ever asked you to give away any of your power to me. What happens is that people often place their teachers on a pedestal, and after feeling too inferior for too long, they wish to retaliate and have their revenge…

So, then they set out to prove to me that I’m evil, wrong, twisted, insane, etc. so that they can prove to themselves that they really have been superior to me all along.

This is a VERY common jealousy pattern with many of my students, but I love you all anyway

The trick is to realize that comparing yourself to others is literal insanity. Competition and jealousy are ego-based ILLUSIONS, because the reality is that every human being is UNIQUE.

As you learn to value and appreciate all of your unique qualities, you will transcend all jealousy and competition consciousness. (If you have my Chakra program, this appreciation of uniqueness is in the solar-plexus level of consciousness) Namaste.