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“She Wants A Girlfriend… *gulp* …WITHOUT ME!”

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***QUESTION***

Stephane,

My girlfriend is bi and insists that she wants to experiment herself and possible date separately a woman and me at the same time. Also, she says she prefers to date other bisexual married women so that “neither one of them are tempted to leave or cheat on us men”.

This makes me feel really uncomfortable - especially with the idea of her having a separate relationship from me. It’s like a David D role reversal (she would be dating multiple people instead of me!) Also, she is insecure with me dating another woman while she has another girlfriend since she is bisexual and “I don’t understand and should only need her.” We have up until now gotten along reallly well and still have a great love life, but this is creating a lot of angst and drama in our relationship. She says says she wants to have an intimate relationship with a woman and that most woman won’t want to be a third wheel etc…

Any advice and does your program address these issues? How do I turn this into a circle instead of two rays in opposite directions?

I look forward to your response,

-Sincerely,

-AG

Dear friend, you’re mentally insane.

I will explain.

You are letting your insecurities get the best of you.

Deep down, you’re afraid that she might SWITCH TEAMS on you and never come home… like she might just become a “lesbian” and leave you.

Listen, if you suck with women, if your Heart is closed, if you’re an ass-kisser, etc. then YES… your fears are “correct”.

But if you know how to be a man… if your relationship is good and healthy, and POLARIZED… if your woman is trustworthy and she can trust you… there is *nothing* to worry about.

In fact, it is often best for you to let your girlfriend have girls on the side, especially at first, while getting her ready for Circles, because this is how she will learn how to be “the man” with other women.

She will come home with all kinds of questions about how to handle X, Y, and Z issues and little “tests” that girls will throw at her, and then you can teach and train her… she will appreciate learning this IMMENSELY.

Now, I KNOW that your girl is saying dumb shit like, “Men should only need one woman” and other nonsense like, “most women won’t want to be a third-wheel” and even, “I should just date bisexual women who are MARRIED!”

Haha, YES… she is sadly mistaken on all counts… but, she is just NAIVE.

She needs EXPERIENCE.

The reason my girls are happy to invite new girls into the relationship is simply because our relationship is SO GOOD that they would literally feel SELFISH for not sharing me with other women. If you have my products such as the GTP, BGTP, etc. then it becomes obvious that I know what I know about women and that’s that. Being good with women is actually EASY, so long as your Heart is TRULY open.

I can help get you there, but you’ll have to meet me half-way.

If you had my stuff, you would have reframed this girl in two seconds.

First you get them squirting, so they start BRAGGING about you to all their friends, and literally inviting girls over for some squirt trainings.

While this is going on, you fix their Chakras, you get their emotions back on track, so they are feeling good, healthy, and pretty soon they radiate… THEY GLOW.

With The GTP, you have all the frames for passing tests, stopping arguments, and getting to the core of all issues with EASE. And with the BGTP, you become a serious blackbelt.

HOW would I have handled this girls objections?

Standing on my head and laughing, that is how.

This stuff is sooooo easy once you know what I know.

Let’s look at her first silly objection:

“I only wanna date bisexual women who are MARRIED”.

My response: “Great, so now you’re encouraging women to lie cheat on their husbands… do you even know what bad karma MEANS, dum-dum? It means jealous husband chasing us down the street with sawed-off shotgun… NO THANK YOU.”

Next one…

She said she wants married women so that “Neither of us will be tempted to cheat on the men”.

So she just confirmed that YES, she is often tempted to cheat on you with other men.

At least now you know the truth.

Will you two be able to face this honestly and look at how you are BOTH screwing this relationship up? Because you are BOTH responsible for this.

Next, she doesn’t want YOU to be with other women because “you should only need her”.

Sounds logical and good on paper, except it’s pure insecurity getting the best of her. She is really just saying, “You’re a wussy-boy who gives his power away to me, so I KNOW that you can easily be controlled by another woman… and I can’t take that chance and risk losing you to someone who is hotter than me”.

When she sees that you have a SPINE and take NO CRAP FROM ANYONE, INCLUDING HER… she will trust you.

Also note that saying, “You should only want one woman” is like looking at the forest and saying, “You should only need ONE TREE!”

Abundance is something you can both share together, and no worries - women only want mutiple male parters when they cannot find real men who understand them fully and help them to blossom. When a woman finds her “oak tree”… she doesn’t care about, nor want, more men.

For real.

The fact that your girl is ‘’shopping” just shows me you don’t have (or you didn’t LIVE) the principals in the GTP program.

You’re so lost it’s overwhelming ;)

Next, she says “most women won’t want to be a third-wheel”, yet another FALSE way of looking at this.

When people view each other as equals, there is no “third-wheel” consciousness… NONE. The girls become BEST FRIENDS and it starts to feel like you have a FAMILY… that is what Circles are about.

My friend, I will easily “allow” my girlfriends to have “female side-dishes” because…

1. It teaches them how to be “da man” with other women, so it ups their game.
2. They will compare the girls to me, and I will invariably always always always come out on top.

I don’t say this to impress you, but to impress UPON YOU what can happen when you increase your consciousness -

Get the GTP, BGTP, Chakras, and Squirt Video.

SINK OR SWIM!

Blessings to you both,
Stephane






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12 Responses to ““She Wants A Girlfriend… *gulp* …WITHOUT ME!””


  1. 1 Alomonger Pete

    Another gem. IG is delivering more goods than Santa this Christmas.

  2. 2 jr

    nice one!
    you bring out the simplicty of it

  3. 3 Dusty

    “Also note that saying, “You should only want one woman” is like looking at the forest and saying, “You should only need ONE TREE!””

    Loved this. :D

  4. 4 FeNIX

    Honestly, these two past posts take the cake. Fucking awesome posts, thank you Steph for opening yourself to communicate these truths to us.

  5. 5 Enrique Alejo

    what are these guys thinking? good question, and even better response though. Always Steph with bomb answers.

  6. 6 Enrique Alejo

    what are these guys thinking? great question, and even better response though. Always Steph with sick answers.

  7. 7 Rocky

    “jealous husband chasing us down the street with a shotgun”

    Karma’s a bitch. Or in this case, a jealous husband and a sawed off shotgun.

  8. 8 Fred M

    Like a breath of fresh air when it’s not even apparent how bad the smell is, until that moment of clarity transforms everything.

  9. 9 Peter

    Another great post Stephane! Every single one of your posts ups my consciousness a little. Thank you.

  10. 10 Libra

    Great post !

  11. 11 anonymous

    “Dear friend, you’re mentally insane” is awesome

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