***QUESTION***

Stephane,

What is the difference between bisexual women, and lesbians? I realize that lesbians choose only men, and bisexual women choose both teams. But I’m getting some confusion on this: what is the difference in mindset between lesbian and bi?

Thanks,
R.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

When girls balance the yin/yang energies within, and open the heart, what results is “bisexuality”. (At least, this is how the world seems to me, after some pretty extensive research.)

Bisexual girls prefer men, but they tend to appreciate the female form as much as we do. Let’s face it, women are beautiful. These chicks are COOL, and you can actually check out other girls together, and they won’t get insecure about it.

Lesbians, on the other hand, usually seem to hate men.

Ironically, they also BEHAVE like men.

I have interviewed quite a few lesbians, and found they were often abused by their fathers, usually sexual abuse. (Or a teacher, or whatever.)

On a spiritual level, they are often seen as rejecting yin energy, as well as rejecting their own bodies, because they were (perhaps) so used to being men in past lives. So imagine you’re a man in 22 lifetimes in a row, then suddenly you’re a woman.

Who knows, this cannot be “proven” but it feels right to me. An extreme example of this is when you see transvestites and sex change operations. When interviewed, these people will often tell you “I am a man trapped in a female body” or vice versa.

(According to many spiritual groups, this is the whole point. We are supposed to learn lessons as a man, and learn lessons as a woman. So people who get sex changes are seen as to be resisting their own spiritual and karmic inheritance. This also feels “right” to me, but who knows.)

Lesbians mostly just seem have tons of ISSUES. It is rare for women to be “pure lesbian”, they often bounce back and forth, and most have been with men and women. So there seems to be a lot of indecision.

It seems they feel as though they need to “pick a team”. In fact, lesbians often accuse bisexual women as being wishy-washy, too horny, traitors, and urge them to “pick a side, already!”

So there tends to be a lot of this “battle of the sexes” energy as well. Of course there are probably plenty of exceptions; I just did not encounter any during my interviews. (I know there are quite a few lesbians who read my stuff, so feel free to hit reply and tell us your views.)

Also note that lesbians are rarely considered “hot” or sexy.

This means that unfortunately, the only males they can choose from are the ignorant, ugly, beta-males.

So, it would seem that the experiences they have had with sooo many clueless men has turned them off to the point of just rejecting men altogether and choosing women instead, who at least make them feel understood.

I could go on and on about this, and I have written extensively about this in the past, so feel free to browse through some old forum posts of mine.

Blessings,
Stephane

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