**Question From A Young Woman:

Hi Stephane

I’m a girl, so I don’t know if you would answer my
question. I just thought you could give me a more
accurate and honest answer than another girl.

I am 4 months pregnant and although my boyfriend is
extremely loving and supportive (and I really enjoy
this part of him), he seems to have lose complete
interest in having sex with me. I have no clue why -
he is very vague in answering my questions.

Although my body has changed and I have a bit of preggy belly
etc, I still look hot and I feel extremely sensual and
sexy. And as people know, pregnant woman are also
really really horny! My frustration isn’t only sexual
(I please myself frequently) but I feel like my
boyfriend isn’t honest to me about something.

Also, my self esteem is taking a deep dive when I’m with him. I
really feel rejected and am becoming more and more shy
and distant from him. This obviously also spills over
to other areas of our relationship. I don’t want to
become resentful and damage the tender love that we’ve
managed to establish between us. I’m willing to work
at this, and do just about anything to resque and
treasure this relationship - for the sake of our baby
etc.

Please help me!!! I’m at wit’s end with this issue!

Thanks,
Yin

>>MY COMMENTS:

Hey “Yin”, I decided to let Alex answer you, he is a new guy I’m training to answer questions, etc. for me while I’m away.

This is what Alex replied:

“If I were you I would pay attention to the solar plexus and notice if you are getting hits in that area. Also pay attention to the thoughts, emotions around those hits.

Pregnancy can for some guys feel like a trap, like they feel that they are forced to be with the girl. He feels as though his freedom is going away. He feels the “together forever” that people often feel when they are about to get married.

This precieved lack of freedom will cause panic inside of him. He will feel suffocated regardless of how you look physically. This might lead him to stray from loyalty.

It could also be paranoia on your part but its hard to tell because I do not have all the facts. Run the 5D Compassion formula on this and figure out if you are being paranoid or you feel real, serious solar plexus hits.

If its paranoia, talk to him about how you are feeling in a calm, relaxed non-judemental, non-blaming way.

If its solar plexus hits, also confront him in a calm relaxed, non accusing way. If he gets defensive, angry or calls you paranoid there’s your answer.”

-Alex

>Stephane continues:

I agree w/Alex on this one, it’s probably a bit of both. He’s feeling trapped, and this in turn causes you to feel insecure, which only makes you less attractive. So it turns into a downward spiral.

This is why I have said, over and over, that during the hard times we need to remember that we are truly loved. By holding this frame, “I Am Truly Loved” and acting in accordance to that “Heart Law”, you will automatically start doing everything right. You will BE attractive.

Give him a little space right now, because if he feels any pressure to have sex with you (because it will validate you), that will shut his plumbing off. Just like it would shut YOUR plumbing off for him if he needed sex to feel good about himself.

So it always comes back to Heart Chakra, “I Am Truly Loved”. When we live in accordance to that truth, we treat our lovers in such a way that they can’t help but be attracted to us.

Thanks for your question.

Blessings,
Stephane

PS - If you want a little trick to speed this up, tell him that you want him to blindfold you and fuck you. Or blindfold him, whatever. This will eliminate many of the inner game issues going on right now, like ten different little problems will be taken care of instantly.