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Womanize II: Questions And AnswersPublished by Stephane on Sunday, February 21, 2010 |
Womanize II is an e-book compilation of some of Stephane Hemon’s best forum posts, along with six hours of audio consultations as well as two hours of video. The topic is women, and how to succeed on every level with them. The information is advanced, and it is intended for spiritually-oriented students who want to deepen their understandings in the art of “Womanizing.”
To give the reader an idea of Stephane’s “tell it like it is” writing style, a students dating “field report”, along with Stephane’s reply to him, is provided:
***FORUM POST, FIELD REPORT***
I forget the details of the conversation, but we talk for a bit, I get her laughing, and I ask her out. She says, “That was quick. I don’t even know you.” I say, “Well that’s the point of going out isn’t it? To get to know each other.”
She seems a little nervous the whole time, so I say a few things like, “If I’m making you uncomfortable you can say no.” She says, “No I’m fine with it.” I say, “I realize I’m springing this on you, but you’re really pretty and-” she interrupts with “Oh thank you that’s really nice.”
Anyway, somewhere in the midst of the conversation she asks, “Did you tell another girl she’s pretty recently, and ask her out?”
Me: “Uhh…”
Her: “And her name was Melissa. At the Target shopping mall.”
Me: (remembering who she’s talking about) “Oh yeah! You know her?”
Her: “I’m her room mate.”
>>>Stephane’s Reply:
And then what happened? Girls LOVE to catch you in the act like this. It totally enthralls them to no end. 
You have to tell them, “Look, I’m not the cheesy pickup artist looking to
prove my desirability and coolness. I’m the sincere guy looking for a sincere
girl. It isn’t exactly easy to find this. Most women lack integrity, frankly,
and so you have to talk to hundreds of them before you find one that is halfway
decent. Are you one of these people who believes true love is just going to fall
in your lap one day, and you won’t need to do anything to make it happen, like
you’re just gonna find the special guy who can magically read your mind? Are
you one of those?”
At first glance, it might sound like I’m lecturing her, but I’m really not.
I’m not trying to change her, I’m just being what I am. Love doesn’t screw
around, and it doesn’t pretend like it needs to apologize for being what it
is. People often presume Love is passive or weak, but in the real world, love
looks almost like a Tsunami or a hurricane. Love handles women in the same way
Winston Churchill handled world war two. It cannot be defeated. It is enormously
powerful, and yet gentle.
The words I used are not so important, and in real life it would likely be less
wordy. What’s important is you must make the switch. She’s putting you on
the spot, and the best defense is an attack, so to speak. You put her on the
spot and make her dance. She better dance well. Don’t fall for any of this
“innocent questions” BS — a woman’s questions are rarely innocent. Women
are often very cynical in their views of men, and so you have to stop dancing
for them and start making them dance for you. Then you’ll find out what she’s
really made of.
You want to be kind and innocent, yes, but as soon as they start dragging their
feet like this, it’s time to put them on the spot a little. Here you were,
funny, charming, polite, courageous, resourceful, honest, integrous, agreeable,
innocent, etc., and you’re asking her out on a date and she’s just dragging
her feet, unwilling to decide yes or no, and asking stupid questions in order
to stall you. Women dream of this kind of approach all day long. They read
romance novels and watch sappy movies about it and complain to each other that
there are no true gentlemen in this world. And here you are, giving her exactly
what she needs, and she’s acting like she doesn’t want any of it. She’s
playing dumb and asking questions that are really designed to make you look
stupid. To large segments of the population, love is not only considered
stupid, but it is perceived as a huge threat. They want you to feel inferior
and they want you to explain yourself and apologize for being what you are.
This attitude has to be seen as totally unacceptable to you.
Don’t try to persuade her or change her or anything, but you need to represent.
You asked her a question, and she is answering your question with a question.
What, is she like four years old? There’s no need to be indignant about this,
instead you just visualize her being four years old. When women are acting this
way, just shrink them down in your mind, and see them as children. This makes
it easy to have compassion, and it is closer to actual spiritual discernment of
essence than anything else. The other visualization I recommended was to see her
as being pregnant, because it reminds you of her sacredness. It’s probably
better to see her pregnant before the approach, but then if she gives you a
hard time, see her as a child. These simple visualizations are damn powerful.
The pregnant woman helps to undo desire/lust, and the child helps with
spiritual discernment and unconditional love. It’s easy to feel indignant when
women are bitchy, but only if you still see them as being adults. Most women
are definitely not adults. They’re still just like children, and it’s easy to have
compassion for them when you see them in this way. It’s not so easy to feel
compassion for a grown adult who is being a bitch, but if you shrink her down
into a child in your mind, compassion is much easier because you’re seeing them
as they probably actually are. It’s easy to hate bin Laden or Hitler, but then
if you see them in diapers, crawling across the kitchen floor, it helps you
remember what they are, in essence. They appear like adults but they are far
from that.
She behaved like a child, and so now you see her as a child. She earned it, and
now she has to earn your treating her as an adult. Find out if she’s capable
of behaving as an adult. This is really the critical essentials of what it is
to become ‘The Qualifier’. You start out treating her as an adult, she shows
you that she’s a child, you see her as a child, and now she better show you
that she can be an adult. You talk to her as you would speak to a child. You
have a smile in your eyes because children are cute, and you’re gentle with
her, and you’re kind, but you also need to put her on the spot and make her
dance a little. You do this with humor, and so you go, “Do I smell bad or
something? I just asked you out on a date. Do you hate me or what?”
Women, when you do this kind of thing, are often going to presume that you are a
total asshole. But you’re not an asshole, and so now you know what they are.
So they project their own ‘assholeness’ onto you. You’re asking her out on a
date, you’re not exactly asking her to join a cult and commit group suicide.
To have dinner with someone is not wrong, scary, or immoral. It is dinner, and
some pleasant conversation with someone who is attracted to you and wants to
make you feel good. So why do so many women push this away? They push it away
because they can’t handle love. They piss and moan all day about how life is
so unfair and how all the men are idiots, but then when a true gentleman shows
up, they freak out and run away. The cowardice of women, the lack of courage,
is very stunning. Just be happy you’re not [forum member] and you’re not in
Japan because apparently, the women in Japan are generally sleeping zombies who
only care about going to work and holding three jobs and eventually dying from
exhaustion. You’re in California, and the girls out here are generally going
to be more open than this.
True pickup is a total numbers game. You become as gentlemanly as you can, and
then you have to actually approach hundreds — if not thousands — of women
before you find one that can actually handle an honest man who will truly love
them. Romantic love is only a few hundred years old, which is very new. In the
old days, it was all about rich men and their whores. A woman would marry you
even if she didn’t like you. You had money, and her survival was all that
mattered. Realize that even today, in modern times, most women are still just
run by status and money. They are not different from actually being animals. To
find a woman who is Homo Spiritus on this planet is almost as difficult as
winning the lotto. This is something that many people don’t want to accept.
They presume that love will magically fall into their lap some day soon, but
with even just a little experience with women, you come to realize that unless
you’re out there, day after day, approaching thousands of women, your chances
of finding true love on this planet are exactly zilch. And so you have to
become willing to behave in ways that are going to elicit actual hatred.
Being hated ain’t so bad. Think of it as a sign of progress. Everyone who is
successful and happy in this world is hated by someone. What’s up with this?
The ego fears and actually hates love, because love is what undoes its illusion
that it is God. To find love in this world, you’re really just going around
and challenging every ego that you meet, and so you have to be quick and swift
about it. You’re not here to pass a woman’s tests, she is here to pass your
tests. And so you have to become a little bit tougher on them. You have to be,
“Look, I’m asking you out on a date here, it’s not a concentration camp.
DECIDE. What are you, like four years old? Can I get you some warm milk?” In
this way, you’ll find out very quickly what a woman is made of. They often
seem like adults, but they are actual children. This is true of most of
mankind. It’s true of your parents, your grandparents, your police officers,
your soldiers, your teachers, your world leaders, in MOST cases, are actually
about four years old. So, you better get busy and start throwing some grenades
around and making women dance, to find out what they’re made of.
When this attitude is deeply internalized, it doesn’t lead to feeling superior
or indignant, believe it or not, because you start to see the innocence of the
child that is in everyone. And so every woman you meet becomes extremely
lovable. And your willingness to love women unconditionally is what makes you
so lovable. This is when everything starts to become funny. Everything women
say and do actually really does become very funny, and this is when
“rejection” no longer even phases you. It doesn’t faze you because you
realize that her lack of courage and her narcissism are really only expressions
of the infantile ego, which is very cute and funny. You’re asking her out on a
date and telling her that she’s very beautiful, and she’s treating you as if
you’re a “scary creepy guy.” When seen for what it actually is, this thing
we call “rejection” is actually adorable and cute. They’re actually just
rejecting love itself, because love is so foreign to most people. We sing songs
and make endless movies about love, but actually, in truth, most people don’t
know the first thing about love. And so you start to feel sorry for the women
who “reject” you, because you realize they are going to end up in a loveless
relationship. It’s pretty sad, but then as you reach a higher state within
yourself, it starts to seem like comedy. When “rejection” becomes sad and
funny to you, you’ve transcended approach anxiety. There is actually a point
where it is no longer even possible to feel approach anxiety, because you see
beyond the illusions and you come to realize that your worth is not a definable
variable which is dependent on external conditions, such as a woman liking you
or not liking you. To that end is what my life’s work is all about. It’s not
necessary to suffer while in the presence of beautiful women. No matter what
they say and do, it’s not necessary to ever suffer or feel pain about any of
it. It’s possible to wake up from the nightmare and to see Reality as it
actually is in truth.
“What Goodies Are Contained in Womanize II?”
There are three “goodies” in total: A 275-page e-book, along with six hours of audio consultation recordings, as well as a two-hour video.
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ideaGasms Price SlashPublished by Stephane on Sunday, January 10, 2010 |
I am overjoyed to finally be in a position to give what I am about to offer
here, which is to slash most of my prices way down. I’m now in a
financial position to be able to practically give most of my advanced
programs away.
I realize this may upset some clients who paid full price. Please don’t
hate me, and know that your contributions are what have enabled me to have
the time to focus so hard on Enlightenment (Over 10, 000 hours of deep
meditation this 1+ year alone) so that I can test out all of the Teachings
of Enlightenment and develop the kind of programs which ideaGasms offers
today. To be able to apply the Wisdom of Enlightened Masters onto the
world of Pickup, Dating, S E X, and Relationships took an extreme level of
focused concentration, and intense dedication. I could not have done
anything like this without your contributions, of that I am acutely aware.
Furthermore, ideaGasms has been under attack (malicious slander, libel) and
my wife and I even had to live in hiding for a while. The wolves of the
world do not appreciate what we’re doing here, and neither does the
majority of the so-called ‘dating community’. Thus, your contributions,
especially in the last year or so, have helped more than you might have
realized. Every dollar helped sustain my wife and I, so that we could
leave the world behind and pursue Enlightenment 24-7, as well as record
and write all about our findings, and the application of this information
to relationships has enriched the lives of a great many people. This
company, ideaGasms, is not really “mine” at all. It is a group effort, a
collective ‘Satsang’ in service to the relief of suffering in Pickup,
Dating, S E X, and Relationships. Every reader who opens a basic
newsletter and reads it has helped us all in unseen ways. To hold even one
kind or loving thought in mind cancels out something like several thousand
negative thoughts in the collective consciousness of mankind.
This has frankly been the most difficult year of my life, but 2009 is now
behind is, thank God; Amen.
As of yesterday, I’m now in the position of being able to not worry about
money, therefore, the price tags are going way, way, way down. Just enough
to cover server fees and things like that. Many are under the false
impression that I must be “rich”, however, I don’t even own a house or
car… so much for that rumor 
I’m particularly happy for those students who are still in school, or who
live in second or even third world countries.
Wow. What a feeling.
The volume series, Cracking The Male-Female Code, the prices are now
something like 75% less than they were, you can click here to browse the
various volumes in this series:
http://www.ideagasms.net/cracking-the-code/
I do need to keep PowerLetters and Womanize as they are (these come with
forum access which takes a lot of time and energy to run, and I am always
on top of things answering just about every possible question that is
posted there).
I was, however, also able to reduce the price of our meditation, The Silent
Witness, by about 50%:
http://www.ideagasms.net/into-the-field-of-consciousness/
It’s a great feeling to not have to think and worry about money all the
time. While I didn’t win the lotto or anything like that, I’m just in a
better position than ever before, and that’s all that needs to be known
Thanks for a great five years everyone.
Many Blessings,
Stephane Hemon
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WomanizePublished by Stephane on Thursday, October 15, 2009 |
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30-Day Intensive Step-by-Step Training in the Art of Pickup, Dating, “Getting Physical”, and Living the Dream…
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Unlike Anything Else on the Market… this is Guaranteed to Blow the Mind’s of Students at All Levels (and even the World’s Best Pickup Instructors) Because it is so Simple…
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A Complete Paradigm Shift in Dating Technologies.
Date: October 2009
Dear Reader,
Today we shall focus on letting the greedy inner ‘pickup artist’ take a well-deserved, long, long sleep… forever. It is the inner ‘rock star’, the smooth-talking inner ‘PUA’, the socially clever ninja who is able to accomplish any magical pickup of the hottest “tens”… in fact, he doesn’t even bother with “tens” anymore; he only does 12’s and up!
He represents, of course, not the real ‘you’, but the ‘you’ that hypothetically could, would, and should have been. He is the guy you were supposed to become when you discovered the Internet and learned that there were lines and tactics and strategies that could be used to make women think you’re just wonderful. Marvelous, really. God’s Gift to women.
The ego, despite all of its claims of humility, thinks that you, Dear Reader, are just wonderful. Absolutely incredible. Even the man who claims to hate, loathe, and despise himself is actually secretly ‘in love’ with himself.
That is, there is a tiny invisible layer of consciousness which envelops the body-mind… it is right between the ego and the Silent Witness. It represents narcissism, and it is a quality of consciousness you could call “self-love.” It is so enamored and ‘in love’ with the body-mind that it has invented all kinds of wonderful archetypes, identities, self-images, and personality aspects.
One such aspect of the male ego is the inner ‘god of women’. Even if women don’t really respond all that well to him in the real world, that’s quite alright… he loves to imagine that they do. He loves to fantasize and romanticize, and he dreams big.
“Let Your Pride Die For Women”
It is time to let him rest. He is, after all, a very hardworking imaginary friend and he got you this far. He is the one who helped you practice seducing women in your mind (and furiously masturbating to them and enjoying them as fully as possible and in every direction). Although the average male sleeps with about seven women, in his mind, he f-cks the whole world. And, he does them sooo well that they never had a better lover; he leaves women stunned and shocked, forever catching their breaths… he silences their mind’s with his mighty cock and heart of gold. No man will ever hope to compete with the inner PUA, that is a fact!
The reason he has to go to sleep for a long time (i.e., for eternity) is simple. It is because he is the one responsible for all of that performance anxiety. Performance in bed, performance in pickup, performance during dates, and performance in love relationships… he is definitely a performer, and where we’re going, Dear Reader, there will be no more need to “perform.”
FREEDOM
In the Land of the Truly Free, performance is a childish notion that actually repels women, rather than attracting them. Where we’re headed, less is more. Nothing is needed… Not even a winning personality. Not even high caliber social skills. Not even a massive tree trunk of a hard-on.
Pickup, dating, kissing, sex, relationships… it’s all the same.
The inner PUA who fancies himself “king of the jungle” tends to view everything as a performance, rather than as a Beingness. A performance involves you, of course, doing all the work, cracking all of the jokes, telling all of the “cool stories that’ll keep her interested”, making all of the right moves, and doing all of the sex. What the performance paradigm is lacking is that it blocks one’s simple Beingness, which is actually the most important and attractive aspect a man can have.
The performance paradigm is so narcissistically self-involved that it often actually forgets the woman.
It is so concerned about the Me and the My Performance (or lack thereof) that it ends up generating a million thoughts in the space of only one single moment, and when there are too many thoughts going on, they tend to bottleneck. It is like a traffic jam occurs within the mind, and the body simply doesn’t know what to do. So, it freezes. It jams up with emotion, stress, excitement, hesitation, desire, and restlessness.
The mouth either stops talking, or it talks way too much and says stupid and unnecessary things. The body becomes tense and rigid; it either puffs up with pride when the woman responds well, or shrinks down in shame when she loses attraction… and there is so much blood in the brain due to all those thoughts… that there isn’t enough blood left over for running the penis.
It is time to let the inner PUA dreams of socially-clever perfection go to sleep, forever. The dreams all served you up to this point, but like I said, where we’re going today, no dreams and no performances of any kind are required. Women can be picked up in a state of Silence. Surprised? Well, in the Land of the Truly Free, only Beingness exists. Perfect, harmonious, joyful, innocent, blissful Beingness… in the Land of the Truly Free, attraction and love happen spontaneously of their own when conditions are favorable.
I’d like to take you on a 30-day journey into the unknown. After many, MANY years of seeking… and searching… and dating… and picking women up… and relationships… I’ve not only found the Keys to the Kingdom, but I’ve discovered how to actually TEACH MEN how to find their own Keys in a very short period of time.
The only requirement is humility.
What I’m talking about has nothing to do with fancy tricks, nor is it particularly difficult to learn because there is only un-learning. Anyone ranging from the 27-year-old virgin, to the world’s genius-level pickup artists… to the relationship guy… to the spiritual guy who loves women but can’t quite figure ‘em out… literally ALL MEN shall be stunned by what I’ve gradually discovered and laid out in this program.
Over the next 30-days, every day will feel like Christmas morning as you discover brand-new and exciting inner and outer game “Womanizing” tools which are so counter-intuitive that NOBODY in the “seduction and dating community” has figured them out yet, nor are they likely to any time soon. This is because what is shared in this new program is of a different paradigm altogether.
Success is Dangerous
Success is “dangerous” in that it often leads to the presumption of “I know the truth about women because I’ve slept with so many of them.” Thus, men often stop seeking, stop searching, and stop evolving because they are successful.
Whether you’re a long time student of mine, a complete newbie, or just a guy who reads the free newsletters but hasn’t decided to buy anything, this program is for you. If you want to learn the art of Womanizing to a stunningly successful and fulfilling degree — so much that it makes you cry tears of joy — this is it.
If you’re low on cash or can’t afford this program, just sell your car. Re-mortgage your home. Borrow the money. Do whatever it takes. Pray to the good Lord and your dreams of effortless Womanizing will come true.
* I don’t like to offer “money back guarantees” because I like having clients who know what they want. I have mixed feelings about “marketing” and overly “promoting” things. I’m not “Mr. Marketing Guy”, I’m the man who has been here — available and real, open and vulnerable, hated, slandered, and absolutely adored — for many years… and working damn hard around-the-clock to crack the male/female code in such a way that makes it easy for guys to “get it” and start to live it.
Over the years I’ve written newsletters… hundreds of solid newsletters… I don’t tease you, I don’t promise things in an exaggerated fashion, and I don’t make you think my newsletter is going to contain something, only to have you realize it is just another typical sales pitch with nothing but sales-fluff… No, no, no, I have fed you with some pretty tasty treats over the years, but still, I’ve given you NOTHING like what is in this 30-day home study program.
Over the years I have brought you squirting orgasm girlfriends and shown you some rather intimate and vulnerable stuff, to say the least. I’ve introduced you to my girlfriends, my ‘circle girls’, and even my wife… I’ve been on the forums with you guys and I’ve shown you that I care deeply about ideaGasms’ students and their results in the real world. Through thick and thin, with the Lord’s help, I’ve stood the test of time and weathered some pretty crazy storms over the years. I’m asking you for just a little trust here…
If you want to get this product or not, that is your decision and I respect you. It’s just that… I know what I’ve just created here, God help me, thank you, Oh Lord, and it is SOLID GOLD. I don’t mean to be pushy… I feel like I just won the “female lotto” and all I want to do is share it and party with everyone forever.
A Brand-New Paradigm for Pickup and Dating
Today’s Internet pickup and dating materials do contain wisdom and practical advice, but what I am offering you here is of a totally different paradigm. In a sense, it is nearly the complete opposite of what the whole world teaches about succeeding with women. I’m not “against” that other stuff, but in Reality, there is a much Higher Way.
Although many of the Internet pickup gurus are indeed social engineering geniuses, a whole new world has just opened up for ALL of us to enjoy.
Moreover, I’ve found ways of explaining all of this to make it easy to follow and absorb for anyone who understands basic logic and reason.
What Could Possibly Be More Fulfilling In Life Than Womanizing??
To me, nothing is more important than learning how to Womanize to a severe degree. Everything else in life is a distant second. Personally, I can be happy without fame, success, money, cars… I could even be happy working at McDonald’s… as long as I am satisfied with my level of “Womanize” where every-other-girl that I talk to shines Attraction-Joy through her eyes when I speak with her, I feel happy and fulfilled. Therefore, I have spent this entire lifetime focused on this one topic.
The average man never gets to feel satisfied on this level.
Moreover, men usually think they need to develop “ninja level” social skills to pull it off. But in Truth, the less you speak, say, and do, the greater your success will be.
Womanizing means a lot to me and hope my enthusiasm has come through. This is your life we are talking about so I don’t want to leave anything out. This is perhaps the most important skill a man could ever develop, and it is a great honor and privilege to be able to share the kind of information that makes your lifestyle with women so easy and effortless that you stand in a state of awe… and wonder how the whole world has missed the mark and not already discovered how stupidly easy it is to live the dream.
Forum Access
This particular program will grant you access to the ideaGasms Forum, but it is a strict forum in the sense that we absolutely require kindness at all times, no condescending exceptions. We fancy our forums as one of the Internet’s “higher vibing” forums, in that everyone contributes a little something and “plays well with others.” We keep a good vibe on there so that everyone can feel safe enough to just be what they are (at any level of consciousness) and post what is truly going on inside them; this way, students are unafraid to open up and gain true, sincere, life-long friends in the process. The forum is also a nice resource for deeper clarifications and understanding. I put a lot of time and energy on there answering as many questions as I can, and we encourage guys to post their “field reports”, personal inner blocks, dating questions, etc., to get real answers from someone who has traversed all of the possible terrains. (NOTE: If you prefer to just get this program without having any forum access, the price of Womanize is significantly lower. See below for details.)
Six Hours of Video
Every few weeks, students from our forum gather together online and take turns asking questions, and these sessions are recorded. The Womanize eCourse also includes six hours of video footage in which I provide answers to some of the following questions, issues, challenges, etc., such as:
When you’re with a group of women, how do you dispense the eye contact?
Does it matter if I focus on the girl I like until she breaks eye contact first?
Do you still recommend triangular gazing where you switch between looking at their lips and their eyes?
You say that a man should not approach unless he is completely stunned by a woman’s beauty, but that rarely happens with me. Should I just wait for it to happen?
How do you prepare for ‘the final run’? What about bodily needs while you do this?
You talk about being a ‘real man’ while with a woman, but I’m not there financially.
When I practice being silent with people they think I’m bored or boring.
When I speak, I’m not fully standing by my words; any suggestions?
How do I deal with my ‘inner punisher’?
Why do I tend to get vulgar when around girls I don’t know? My intention seems to be to show them that I don’t care what they think.
Is it best to say hi, hey, hello, or some other word during a cold approach?
When do I draw the line and stop pursuing and thinking about a girl all together?
Apart from fashion and interior design, is there any way men could respect beauty more? Are there any sources such as magazines or websites that can help?
You talk about not checking girls out but I can’t help myself.
Does the Womanize style work on girls you already know or is it best to just stick with the first minute?
What can help me make it through the 30 day no lust challenge? When these 30 days are over, how am I going to behave myself?
What’s the deal with shy girls?
Why do Asian women seem so shy? Why are they so aloof? Should I be more dominating with them? Will these problems not exist with integrous girls? I understand the intention behind domination, but even when some girls let me know they want me they still don’t make things much easier.
What about the concept of ‘two steps forward one step back’?
What is a good way to bring pride up, and heal it?
Can you talk more about Periphery Vision Meditation/Silent Witness?
How to deal with aversions and attractions? How can I heal judgment?
Whats the difference between personal love and Spiritual Love?
How to deal with dating multiple women at the same time?
How to help my friends who are going thru struggles?
What do you mean by “people cant be different then they are?”
How to love myself?
How to love the ego?
How to become more playful in my approaches?
Whats the Truth about clubs and negative places?
I still live with my parents, how does that affect my dating life?
What do you mean by “Just Love Women”?
Anything about voice tonality in Womanizing?
What kinds of women are the best fit for me?
How to balance being laid back and being silly around women?
I am very self-conscious during my pick-ups, what do you suggest?
Should I go out of myself to make people happy? How?
What is Divine Stupidity? Can you talk more about it?
How do I serve women?
How much should I sacrifice myself in a relationship?
How to cope with stress in all areas of life?
My friends want so much from me, what do I deal with this?
Why bother getting involved with a women, if I know she is not on my level? Why bring so much pain to women, if break-ups are the probable end of it?
How do I deal with negative emotions accompanying a couple’s argument/fight?
What to do when your friends suck with women? Do you help them, or…?
I’ve found an integrous girl, but I’m not attracted to her physically. Should I be with her anyway?
Is attraction based solely on lust, or is there more to it?
Can attraction grow later on in the relationship?
What are ways to protect women? Is my intention enough?
Where the thinking stops and the Witnessing starts: an in-depth explanation of Witnessing and the way it works.
Lacking dedication to do the spiritual work. How to turn your spiritual spark into a full-fledged “fire in the belly”?
Paying attention to the peripheral vision while walking on the street feels like being arrogant/aloof, as I am not acknowledging the people passing by. Is this normal?
What to do when your ex-girlfriend tries to get back together with you, but you don’t want her anymore?
What to do when your mind keeps making up romantic fantasies about a woman?
What to do when you have trouble crying?
Being yang/manly without being lustful. Sexual attraction vs lust(Is lust the same thing as sexual attraction?)
How can I purify my intention so that it is purely selfless? Is selfishness ever ok?
Cutting out all negativity: the challenges brought by being actively involved in the world (having to get a job, pay the bills etc.) decrease my bliss states. Should I be passive and disengage from the world in order to work on my spiritual path?
I fell like not going to nightclubs is a cop-out. Why does a spiritual aspirant need to stay away from negative energy fields such as clubs?
When is pride right, or OK?
Is it possible to be immune to negativity?
Is it alright to ignore girls that you’ve approached unsuccessfully? (the interaction did not lead to a date)
When I see a girl that I recognize but don’t actually know (i.e., we go to the same school, but we almost never talk), how should I greet her?
I feel I am offending people through my periphery gazing (as I am not acknowledging them through looking directly at them). What do I do?
Why do I feel the need to please everybody?
What is a quick way to lessen fear and worry?
I have switched from long, talk-a-lot pickup to quick escalation pickup. This has brought the fear that the girl won’t call me because she doesn’t know me well enough.
Do I need to worry about what the girl will think after the interaction?
Are there ways to decrease flakes?
How to make eye contact and stay present with multiple women?
How to close a woman in a group of women?
How to find out what to let go during meditation?
How to escape the trap of wanting to succeed with women?
How to stay in witnessing state with a woman?
Meditation technique for letting go of neediness with beautiful women.
How to escalate and close a girl fast?
How to be in constant meditation in the world?
Meditation Technique to let go of thinking addiction.
Technique to let go of pride.
How to get out of the mind?
How to relax and get into a bliss state?
How to get out of sloth?
How to be humble with a woman?
Essence of womanizing.
Demonstration of approaching and closing a girl.
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Caveat
Just one caveat. This program is intensive and could be emotionally disturbing. (Especially the first 15 days are intensely focused on ‘inner game’ before getting into the advanced ‘outer game’ materials.) This information is confrontive to the ego and especially to Pride. Many people take themselves too seriously and don’t like to have their belief systems questioned or challenged. (Secretly, most men believe their way with women is the “right” way, even when they are utterly unsuccessful.) This program is not for the faint of heart, the spiritually timid, or the easily offended.
Opinions and belief systems are essentially worthless. On one’s death bed, what good are opinions? To effectively Womanize, there must be a sincere willingness to let one’s pride essentially ‘die’ to a significant degree. Opinions and fear become replaced by a silent Knowingness and effortless competence with women and even with life itself.
Therefore, take a moment to visualize women responding to you in ways that are downright incredible, and ask yourself if this is what you truly want. Do you WANT to live the dream? Most men secretly love pain & failure with women. You should really want Love in your life and already have a “fire in the belly” before we get started.
The decision to Womanize has to come with the declaration, “No matter what.” Again, this is your life we are talking about, and I don’t want us to waste each others time. The daily lessons (and 6 hours of video) I will be sharing with you over the next thirty days are not a joke. It is the fruit of a lifetime of incredibly agonizing research, “blood, sweat, and tears”, and the un-learning of that which stands in the way of absolutely effortless (as unbelievable as it sounds) Pickup, Dating, Escalation/Sex, Relationships, Marriage, and thus true Womanizing.
OK, thanks for reading, and God bless you.
Many Blessings,
Stephane Hemon
ideaGasms inc.
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