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“HOW To Get CLOSE To A Woman FAST”
 
Hey Everyone,
 
I don’t really “game” girls, my style is different than
most of what seems to be taught on the Internet.

I use tools that are much more effective and tend to “work
better” on women with high self-esteem.
 
It’s called being honest and upfront.

Now, the PROBLEM with honesty is that you can actually hurt,
or SCARE people with it.

When I see a beautiful woman walking down the street,
sometimes the TRUTH is that I’d like to tear off her
clothes and make passionate love to her for weeks on end.
 
Do you think it would be wise for me to just walk up and SAY
THAT TO HER???

Um, no.

She could actually have me ARRESTED for saying something
like that.

But DAMMIT! She looks so FINE!

And I certainly don’t want to LIE to her.

Now, as I mentioned above, the PROBLEM with honesty is that
it often scares and offends people, and I’m definitely not
saying that we should all go out and scare the hell out of
women by blatantly telling them that we’d like to sleep
with them (Even if we DO).

For me, the solution is to CUSHION the honesty.
 
It’s important to have the COURAGE to express our desires,
but if that courage is not balanced with CONSIDERATION for
the woman’s feelings, then that’s pretty immature, not to
mention DANGEROUS.
 
It’s called sexual harassment, or sexual imposition.

Definitely not cool.

I suggest being POLITE.

CUSHION your honesty.

First, you want to open her with a little “too much”
politeness.

Don’t confuse politeness with supplication. When I’m “a
little too polite”, the energy behind it is NOT one of
actually being afraid of someone’s reaction. Instead, the
energy behind my politeness is one of chivalry.

chiv-al-ry (shvl-r) Pronunciation Key  
n. pl. chiv-al-ries

1.The medieval system, principles, and customs of
knighthood.
 
2.a.The qualities idealized by knighthood, such as bravery,
courtesy, honor, and gallantry toward women. b.A
manifestation of any of these qualities.

Being polite and chivalrous will not only open her up and
make her much more receptive, but it can actually get HER
chasing YOU.

For example, let’s say I want to tell a woman who’s a
complete stranger that I’d like to sleep with her, but in
such a way that she will feel comfortable and not get
offended:
 
Stephane: “Excuse me, I really don’t want to impose, but
I’d like to ask you a question if that’s okay.”

Woman: “Okay”

Stephane: “If you want to tell me to go away, then just
tell me to go away and I will. I’m serious about that. Tell
me to buzz off if this offends you in any way.”
 
Woman: (Usually they giggle when you say this) “Haha! No,
it’s okay.”

Stephane: “Because the last thing I want to do is make you
feel uncomfortable. That’s not my intention at all.”
 
Woman: “It’s alright. Go for it, I’ll be okay.”
 
At THIS point, I simply move in CLOSE to her, and get to
know her.

I’ve pre-empted rejection - very few women will blow
someone off if he’s polite and chivalrous like this.
 
And guess what?

And for the rest of the interaction, I’ll KEEP IT UP. I’ll
keep getting to know her, and I’ll keep checking to make
absolutely sure that she is not uncomfortable before asking
her anything that would be considered “too personal”.

By being “a little too polite” I can get women to talk
about ANYTHING - age, sexual orientation, breast size,
income… it doesn’t matter.
 
I call this “Gentleman’s Game”.

Usually, WITHIN MINUTES, I’ll have “green light” to take
her number, or go have a coffee with her, or even kiss her.
 
When you communicate in this way with women, they truly
appreciate it. Using this simple technique will allow you to
get extremely close to women in minutes.
 
Seriously guys, it’s one of the most powerful
“escalation” tools I know of.

By saying things like, “Hey, I want to ask you something,
but if this offends you, just give me the finger and I’m
out of here”. I get full permission to ask any “risque”
questions I want!

As soon as she assures me, “Yeah, it’s cool, you can ask
me and I won’t get offended”, she has sort of given me
permission to take the interaction to the next level.

I use this for all kinds of things, even getting her to come
for a coffee or whatever. Any time I want to escalate the
pickup to the next level, I pepper this stuff in and it
works like a charm.

Try it, you’ll see.

Many Blessings,

Stephane
http://www.ideagasms.net/
 
 
PS - AGAIN - If you want to start getting a ROCK-SOLID
education in how to turn your hit-and-miss success with
women into consistent, repeatable, HEART-CENTERED success on
EVERY LEVEL of the game, go here and take a look at ALL my
programs for yourself right now:
http://www.ideagasms.net/ideagasms-products/