Volume Four
Cracking The Male/Female Code Volume Four: ‘Transcending Lust’ is a series of recorded consultations in which Stephane Hemon works with various men, assisting them to remove the blocks to experiencing Unconditional Love and true Bliss states.
Perhaps not surprisingly, Lust is the deep, core, driving issue which energizes all of the issues men have with respect to women, Love, and even life itself.
That is, lust is the “animal fuel” behind the dualities going on within the mind, including:
1. Approach Anxiety or Shyness. The mind is plagued by thought-movies of getting rejected and humiliated. Beneath those thoughts is one’s lust/desire. (As lust is healed, shyness dissolves.)
2. The “Madonna” versus “Whore” Complex. The mind of man is beset by a deep inner conflict or ‘duality’ between wanting a woman to be like his “mommy” and also like his “whore.” Thus, he tends to behave inappropriately around women as he is being driven by this deep inner conflict. In transcending the lust that is beneath this conflict, the conflict itself will gradually recede and disappear.
3. Monogamous Relationships versus Serial Dating. This common duality expresses itself as a conflict between wanting to be in a stable, secure, and loving relationship versus the desire to “play the field” and enjoy as many women as possible. Many men repress one side or the other (e.g., the happily married man is often plagued by fantasies of being with anyone other than his wife). This then creates significant amounts of unconscious guilt. Similarly, the “player” often complains of being lonely and wishes he had someone special in his life. Thus, men usually repress one or both sides of the conflict and as a result, there is much needless guilt and suffering. (This conflict is also energized by lust/desire.)
4. Approval/Validation-Seeking versus ‘Joe Cool’/Indifference. Although one truly wants approval, one desires for others to not know about it and thus pretends, postures, and ‘puffs up’ with prideful indifference. This duality or inner conflict expresses itself as a (rather transparent) expression of an, “I don’t care what others think about me” style, attitude, and demeanor. (It is fundamentally incongruous as this attitude is merely “put on” by a secret desire for approval). This common issue is also brought on by inner lust/desire.
5. Alcohol and Drugs. Men drink and do drugs due to an unresolved yin and yang issue. Drugs and alcohol are yin; to over-consume them suggests a deep dissatisfaction with the yin energy in one’s life. Moreover, although man believes alcohol or drugs to be the ’cause’ of the resulting Bliss, this is factually incorrect. The drug merely blocks off significant aspects of one’s ego, allowing the Spirit to shine forth and become deeply felt from within. This results in a high, which is not ’caused’ by anything but is concordant with spiritual energy. Although man’s Spirit is always there, the ego often precludes his awareness of it. (As lust/desire — and thus the very core of the ego — is overcome, it results in a permanent high.)
6. Sexual Problems. These include a host of issues such as promiscuity, frigidity, impotence, premature ejaculation, performance anxiety, porn addictions, confusion regarding sexual orientation, and more. Again, lust/desire is at the root of all these issues (without exception).
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Lust is not ‘bad’, ‘wrong’, or ‘immoral’ but merely limiting. It is simply a consequence of being born a human. It has, however, ensnared mankind over the course of thousands of years, and it resides at the very core of man’s needless suffering. (Rather astonishingly, this simple discernment has actually escaped the awareness of the great majority; the basic error is only discovered, correctly diagnosed, and fully transcended by approximately even less than 0.1% of humans.)
WHAT IS LUST?
Lust is often associated with sexuality; perhaps the word ‘desire’ can help the reader to understand its broader implications. Essentially, lust, greed, desire, need, craving, and want are all one and the same thing. That is, lust/desire is an energy field of context. Which ever content is placed within this contextual field (e.g., women, sex, food, alcohol, approval, products, money, social status, the latest fashion, et al.) subsequently becomes glamorized, highly prized, etc., and ends up having (a rather hypnotically attractive) allure to it.
For example, witness how many men enter a trance-like state as an especially beautiful woman enters a room. They are overcome with desire, and although they all naively assume the woman is the ’cause’ of their desire, in reality, all desire stems from within and has no external ’cause’ in the same way that gravity has no cause. (The cause of gravity remains illusive despite exhaustive mental effort applied to the subject.)
It is important to become aware that one’s lust/desire can never be satiated, nor can it ever be fully satisfied inasmuch as it is actually an energy field similar to the field of gravity. (No matter how many apples fall from the tree, gravity never rests.) Thus, the only way to deal with lust is to transcend it by consciously evolving beyond it.
By analogy, the only way to avoid getting hit by oncoming traffic is to shift to a different lane. Similarly, at one level of the sea there are shrimp; should one decide they would prefer to swim with dolphins, there is no need to repress or wage war against shrimp — one simply rises on up to a higher level in the sea.
INSECURITY VERSUS ‘YANGHOOD’
Overcoming the iron chains of lust does not result in a “loss” of masculinity, virility, or Yangness. Instead, one joyfully learns what it means to truly become an authentic Man. The average man is not really a Man at all, but a teenager.
Teenagers are obsessed with approval, validation, shyness, ‘pickup’ and flirting, wantingness, inappropriate emotionality, competition, comparing one’s self to others, jealousy and possessiveness, fear of “losing the girl”, insecurity, envy and resentment, pseudo-confidence and pride, attention-seeking, the inability to focus or concentrate for long periods of time, indecision, complaining, restlessness, worries about one’s appearance, muscles, penis size, and more. These are not representative of Manhood but of childhood and teenager consciousness.
Many men behave, dress, and speak like adults on the outside, but are merely play-acting. They may even hold powerful positions in society, or be married with children; yet deep down they are not Men with a capitol ‘M’. (Perhaps women instinctively know it?)
Transcending lust does not, as the ego/mind would have one believe, result in a state of apathy or flatness but instead results in a deep inner joy that is truly beyond any particular ’cause’. Not unlike a higher gravitational field, deep joy is available to everyone always, however, it is usually “clouded” by many unconscious issues of which lust/desire is the central theme.
As lust progressively dissolves, one does not feel they have “lost” anything valuable at all (including one’s sexual appetite). Instead of any “loss”, there is an increase in energy, vitality, courage, and especially self-worth and self-esteem. To master one’s lust results not in pride, but in a deep inner gratitude, humility, confidence, and true happiness which are all the result of no longer being at the mercy of one’s ego/animal instinctual nature.
Without realizing it, the average male has really been a slave to his desires, perhaps since the very dawn of humankind. As desire recedes, it is replaced by Spiritual Love, Joy, Happiness, and thus a truly authentic Manhood.
PLEASURE VERSUS HAPPINESS
Happiness is really unknown to the great majority of mankind, which has been substituting true happiness with pleasure (i.e., food, drink, sex, entertainment, attention from peers, comforts and distractions, etc.). Although pleasures make one feel semi-decent in the moment, they do not last inasmuch as one has erroneously placed their “happiness” on something that is ‘out there’. Moreover, indulging in pleasure creates unconscious guilt, which in turn results in rapid aging, stress, sickness, and disease.
As lust is progressively overcome via the simple, time-honored, zen-based techniques and wisdom (all outlined in this program), it results in the recognition that all of the issues and limitations and frustrations one previously had with respect to women and Love really did all boil down to lust throughout one’s entire life. Every moment one spends on healing lust (using such simple practices that perhaps even a child could apply) leads to incredible success with “Woman And World” (not to mention one’s Spirit) in due time.
THE SINGLE ‘CRITICAL FACTOR’ WITHIN MAN
In any highly complex system such as a computer, or political system, or even a human being, there is often one Single Critical Factor where only a small amount of pressure can be applied in order to start, stop, move, change, or even destroy the entire system.
That is, even a great locomotive-train can be made to come to a complete halt if one can simply locate, and push, a tiny button. Similarly, under certain conditions, an interconnected series of computers located all over the globe can all be manipulated simultaneously by applying less than one ounce of pressure to the click of a mouse button.
In the infinitely complex system of man’s issues, failings, incompetence, fears, worries, broken-hearts, and frustrations with the opposite sex, that one Single Critical Factor is lust, truly. Again, the one button that needs to be pushed in order for man’s entire system of conscious and unconscious limitations and insecurities to come to a complete stop is lust!
“When lust/desire recedes, man’s unresolved issues and even his toughest challenges fall like a row of dominoes.”
–Stephane Hemon
WHY WOMEN RESIST MEN
Lust/desire creates an automatic and unconscious aversion in women. Even if the lust is repressed, denied, resisted, kept under control, etc., and even though one is perfectly capable of pretending as if one’s lust really isn’t a problem (by learning to “play it cool” or even by using semi-clever “pickup techniques”), one’s lust is still playing a highly active role and thereby continually creating an unconscious aversion in women and in the world (irrespective of whether or not one is conscious of this).
Lust is based on the energy of force, and in physics it is well-understood that force always results in equal or greater counter-force. (Lust/desire indeed makes life much more difficult than it really needs to be.)
As a man approaches a woman with repressed lust, it sets off an unconscious “alarm bell” inside her. (Women are very intuitive indeed.) She then resists him in a myriad of (often undetected) ways, and both the man and the woman are largely unconscious as to even why. She may tell her girlfriends, “I don’t know why I was so cold with him. He was cute and charming! Why did I push that guy away? What’s the matter with me?”
Of course, men walk around feeling hurt all the time and are often confused as to why communicating with women can be so difficult, frustrating, and fruitless. Many men even develop a “Why bother?” attitude and live out the rest of their lives in a loveless, joyless state of depression and hopelessness.
“As you heal and overcome your lust/desire to a significant degree, there is nothing for the woman to resist about you anymore! Only Love remains.”
–Stephane Hemon
LOVE IS NOT A VERB, ACTION, OR EMOTION
One’s Love soon becomes akin to a gravity field which naturally and effortlessly attracts women. One’s conversational ability becomes smooth and flawless. Emotion is replaced by Stillness. The sense of humor becomes automatic. Even life itself becomes easy.
Moreover, there is often little or nothing that needs to be thought over in one’s mind, much less verbally spoken.
One can often approach a woman in a state of inner silence, simply look her in the eye, and her intuition reveals to her that, “This man is not like all the others.”
Resistance, non-acceptance, discomfort, and rejection are soon replaced by openness, safety, trust, and fluidity. Upon approaching her, the woman softens her gaze and opens up like a flower.
Eventually a deep inner Bliss develops in the man. As one approaches a woman from the state of ‘zen-like’, rock-solid, unwavering Silent Bliss, one’s energy field is infectious. Bliss often overtakes the whole interaction and ‘runs the show’, so to speak. (Bliss comes about not as an emotion, but as a deep inner Stillness. Notable is that Silence, Stillness, Bliss, and Love are all one and the same thing.)
Perhaps it can be said that lust is the repellent, and Bliss is the magnet.
LUST AND EGO VERSUS ‘THE NOW’
In overcoming lust, one is simultaneously overcoming the very core driving force behind the ego itself, and thus, the mind automatically becomes more silent and peaceful in all contexts, and not just in the context of being with a woman.
Emotions such as worry, guilt, regret, anger, frustration, and stress progressively dissolve.
The ability to easily live in ‘The Now’ soon follows.
Peaceful states then emerge automatically and are continuous, irrespective of what is ‘happening out there’ in one’s surroundings. It is then discovered that Stillness, Bliss, Peace, Love, and rock-like self-confidence do not come from the ego or mind but from the infinite field of consciousness (i.e., the Spirit).
ABOUT CRACKING THE MALE/FEMALE CODE, VOLUME FOUR: ‘TRANSCENDING LUST’ POWERFUL ZEN-BASED PROGRAM
A few of the topics discussed in this program include:
▪ How to handle your girlfriend becoming progressively more Aloof or distant;
▪ What do to when you feel insecure or upset in the relationship;
▪ How to break free from blaming yourself over and over again;
▪ The whole truth about “Sex and the City”;
▪ How to react when your girlfriend actively misinterprets everything you do or say;
▪ Why everyone is so afraid of disapproval;
▪ How to deal with fear via radical honesty;
▪ How to quickly deal with intense paranoia in relationships;
▪ The true reason why women are attracted to “Bad Boys”;
▪ Surprising signs that your girlfriend might be cheating on you;
▪ How to differentiate being paranoid with your valid intuition;
▪ The truth behind Bondage (i.e., sex games);
▪ The truth behind Sacral Chakra issues;
▪ The “Bitch” Archetype;
▪ How to cope with self-rejection;
▪ The history of Love on this planet: Love is a NEW emergence;
▪ How to see past the dilemma that Love is a weakness;
▪ What attracts “Whores” in our lives and how to attract higher quality women;
▪ The whole use of Polarity in our relationships with women;
▪ One crucial mistake nearly all men make psychologically;
▪ The major difference between being nice and ‘coming from the Heart’;
▪ The 3 levels of “Relationship Maturity”;
▪ One simple and powerful technique to transcend Fear of Rejection;
▪ The true nature of the “People of the Lie”;
▪ The qualities of Spirit contrasted with the qualities of ego;
▪ The untold truth about “Cocky & Funny”;
▪ One quality of the ego learned from hypnosis;
▪ The “truth inversion” of the Levels of Consciousness;
▪ What attraction is all about;
▪ Re-contextualization of the seduction community (so you can love it instead of condemning it);
▪ How to resolve blaming yourself when “the shit hits the fan” with girls;
▪ “Do I need to go through ‘the community’ before learning Love?”;
▪ The Pattern of Cowardice;
▪ The integrous way to approach a woman;
▪ How to handle “Giving your power away”;
▪ A simple way to see people for who they truly are;
▪ A great way to handle your Anger and resolve it forever;
▪ The different types of anger and their characteristics;
▪ The dangers of pride;
▪ How to adopt a way of life that will make you “un-hurtable”;
▪ How to know if your girlfriend is trust-worthy (when you’re still insecure);
▪ How the Madonna-Whore complex is linked with an ego fundamental structure;
▪ How to deal with poor parenting so you can move on with your life;
▪ A simple understanding of Karma that guarantees you’ll be able to forgive anyone;
▪ A short affirmation to heal the Madonna-Whore complex (you can use this one anytime and anywhere);
▪ A simple technique to transcend jealousy and upsets;
▪ How to transcend our judgment about women;
▪ The shocking ways most people perceive Love;
▪ How to simply tell if others are trustworthy;
▪ “What does it mean when we are disgusted by someone or something?”;
▪ How to turn judgment for “whores” into Love;
▪ A rock-solid way to transcend ANY issue;
▪ The difference in between Love and “reframing”;
▪ How to deal with upsetting thoughts;
▪ How to discover your mission in life;
▪ “What about the ‘highest good?’”;
▪ What to do when people owe you money;
▪ How to make decisions *while* ‘zen surrendering’ your emotions;
▪ A simple way to make love that will automatically differentiate you from all other lovers;
▪ The true essence of prayer and how to pray much more effectively;
▪ Why people denounce God and become atheists;
▪ Manipulating God: “What is the ego pattern behind guilt?”;
▪ The reasons behind being ‘in shape’ contrasted with the reasons behind ‘bodybuilding ‘;
▪ A simple way to let go of Pridefulness;
▪ A comprehensive explanation of the Ego;
▪ An easy to understand explanation of the state of Enlightenment;
▪ A mistake men make when they’re helping others;
▪ How Guilt will attract the wrong people into your life;
▪ The shocking truth behind Fuck Friends (you’ll never want to have FF’s ever again);
▪ 2 fast and simple ways to get out of lust so you don’t have to watch porn anymore;
▪ Everything you always wanted to know about Porn and how it programs you;
▪ A core way of how the Ego works and how it is reflected in the Media;
▪ What the mistake of denouncing God could lead to;
▪ How porn can affect your relationship with women, including sex;
▪ The way porn invites all of the Seven Deadly Sins into your life simultaneously;
▪ A very simple way to get off of porn;
▪ The psychology behind porn stars and “whores”;
▪ The spiritual truth behind porn and Lust;
▪ The real, unspoken reason most men joined the “seduction community”;
▪ A simple explanation that will make you see Low Self-Esteem and High Self-Esteem differently;
▪ How to know if you’re projecting, or seeing somebody’s true essence;
▪ A sign that tells you you’re getting advanced on the pathway to Unconditional Love;
▪ A sign that will show that you’ve finally reached Unconditional Love;
▪ Some personal experiences and advice with muscle testing;
▪ What circles are all about;
▪ “What’s up with bi-sexual women?”;
▪ Female dynamics in a circle;
▪ An unrecognized addiction most men have and why they have it;
▪ A 30-day challenge to handle lust;
▪ A deeper understanding of what adultery is;
▪ How the Ego and suffering are connected and how to stop suffering right now;
▪ A new brand of cigarettes you’ll want to try if you’re a smoker!;
▪ How the three levels “Physical, Emotional and Spiritual” applies to relationships;
▪ How erectile difficulties can be linked to porn/lust;
▪ “Is there Heart-Centered Porn out there?”;
▪ An effective way to speed up the healing of Lust;
▪ The benefits of letting go of porn and lust;
▪ The “dangers” of Unconditional Love;
▪ How to resolve a question that many men ask themselves in their lives : “Am I a homosexual?”;
▪ A common trait that many homosexuals have;
▪ “Is it okay to notice that other guys are attractive?”;
▪ The reason most men go through of a phase of wondering if they’re homosexual;
▪ A simple way to respond when your girlfriend asks you “Are you attracted to guys?”;
▪ An habit most men have that leads to confusion about their sexual orientation;
▪ An accurate way your body will tell you you’re in the presence of falsehood;
▪ How to let go of racist thoughts;
▪ An obstacle you’ll encounter when you get on the spiritual path;
▪ A re-contextualization of The Secret, the truth and the “dark side”;
▪ The main problem with having abundance in your life;
▪ One thing that precludes Love from entering relationships;
▪ The secret of a true spiritual life;
▪ A simple thing you can ask yourself to discover if someone is integrous;
▪ A simple spiritual alternative to arguing with others and showing them that they are wrong;
▪ What fear or disapproval boils down to and how to handle that fear;
▪ A “no-effort required” way to transcend Shame;
▪ The pathway you need to follow if you want to know if someone is integrous or not;
▪ How learning from the seduction community can be good for some and yet very detrimental for others;
▪ “The big disease” most men have (but nobody talks about it);
▪ A whole step-by-step outline designed to transcend lust and addiction to porn;
▪ The biologic reason for Lust;
▪ A simple thing you can do that will prevent the Ego from making excuses and undermining your progress;
▪ A technique that will help you in your 30-day challenge;
▪ A thing you can tell your girlfriend when you can’t let go of lust;
▪ “How do you have heart-centered sex with your girlfriend?” (and what mindsets to adopt);
▪ The physical relationship with anger and sex;
▪ A symptom that shows you’re healing lust successfully;
▪ A simple solution to anyone who wants to stop smoking weed (or any other habits);
▪ How weed affects your connection with Consciousness/Awareness;
▪ “What is Hell? Is it real?”;
▪ The clear pathway to being able to meditate with Joy;
▪ “What about telling the truth all the time?”;
▪ A great life lesson from Star Trek;
▪ What to do when you’re confused on how to act in a particular situation;
▪ An ego pattern that express itself in writing;
▪ What to do when you notice you’re too selfish, and something you must *never* do unless you want to reinforce the ego and suffering;
▪ A belief the ego holds which explains resentment and anger;
▪ A misconception everyone has about Unconditional Love;
▪ How to act when people think you’re ‘evil’;
▪ Why Stephane uses the word “Evil” and what it means, essentially;
▪ “Why don’t I feel like approaching women?”;
▪ A phase one goes through when one starts transcending Lust;
▪ A normal symptom people have when adjusting to a new level of consciousness;
▪ “Is this compliment from the Ego or from the Heart?”;
▪ “Am I too romantic?”;
▪ “Why do I feel fear when I try helping others?”;
▪ A Fun way to lessen pride/shame in the context of women;
▪ The reason men are nervous around women;
▪ What to talk about when you’re with women that will make them laugh the whole time;
▪ How to handle a family that doesn’t understand you;
▪ “What do you tell her relatives?”;
▪ “How does pity come into place when interacting with women?”;
▪ A way to see others with compassion;
▪ What happens when you approach a girl with pity;
▪ What happens in your head when you get rejected by a woman (unconscious structures);
▪ “I seem angry at women and society and it seems to slow down my progress, how do I transcend this?”;
▪ What you’re truly angry at, deep down;
▪ “Can my lack of sexual experience hurt my relationships?”;
▪ The karmic cost of the “sleep around” lifestyle;
▪ The contrast between an integrous girl and a non-integrous one;
▪ The difference between speaking your mind and speaking your heart;
▪ The consequence of trying to avoid shame with women;
▪ The sheer and stunning beauty of innocence;
▪ A pattern non-integrous people use on people who are successful and happy;
▪ How to dissolve resentments;
▪ “I am panicking when I see a woman of integrity, how do I move beyond this?”;
▪ What tests you’ll likely encounter when you reach unconditional love;
▪ “How do I know if my girlfriend is integrous… or not?”;
▪ The problem with feeling responsible for everything that happens in your life;
▪ One thing you can do to non-integrous people that will guarantee that they will hate you for life (avoid this critical mistake);
▪ A common way non-integrous women will try to manipulate you when you start to pull back or away from them;
▪ The circumstances under which a non-integrous woman turn into “the perfect girlfriend”, to fool you;
▪ A question you can ask yourself that will take care of sympathy issues;
▪ The ego pattern behind sympathy;
▪ A seduction trick “women of the lie” use to seduce men;
▪ “Should I commit to a relationship I can learn from, but I don’t want forever?”;
▪ “How do I break up with a non-integrous woman?”;
▪ “Am I mean for breaking up with my girlfriend?”;
▪ “Shouldn’t I feel guilty for my mistakes?”;
▪ The unconscious purpose of ‘The GTP’ (past ideaGasms’ best-selling program);
▪ “Should I worry about polarity?”;
▪ The price to pay for polarity;
▪ “How does sympathy work?”;
▪ The difficulty of seeing non-integrity in other people;
▪ What to do that will guarantee that you feel good when you break up with your girlfriend and not end up stuck in regret, guilt, self-doubt, or “falling back”;
▪ How to easily make major life decisions;
▪ “What it means when your girlfriend guilt-trips you?” (and how to handle it);
▪ “Shouldn’t I give my girlfriend an explanation when I leave her?”;
▪ How to know what she’s going to see when you write a break-up letter;
▪ How to handle your ex-girlfriend being in your social circle;
▪ How to handle your girlfriend’s criticisms toward you;
▪ The errors of Moralistic Puritanism and how this affects you day in and day out;
▪ Why people would rather die than be seen as ‘wrong’;
▪ “How do I know if I can trust my girlfriend in a long distance relationship?”;
▪ “My mother-in-law said to my girlfriend that she’d kill herself if she keeps dating me… what is going on here?”;
▪ A major key difference on how integrous and non-integrous people treat you in a relationship;
▪ “What does it mean to give your girlfriend the freedom to live her life?”;
▪ The way an integrous woman will handle it if her family hates you;
▪ A negative emotion an integrous woman won’t ever make you feel;
▪ Why very few people ever change: They Cannot;
▪ Parenting;
▪ How ‘victims’ can so easily justify their actions, emotions, behaviors;
▪ The type of women the male ego wants compared to the type of woman that is best for you;
▪ Why “people-pleasers” are not trustworthy;
▪ How people behave when they are trying to hide something;
▪ What victims do in relationships (and life in general) to feel even more like victims, and why they love playing this game so much;
▪ “When I have a bad day, or I vent, does that mean I’m non-integrous?”;
▪ “How do you know if somebody truly loves you?”;
▪ What living a spiritual life means;
▪ The 7 habits of highly successful people, explained;
▪ The secret ego belief which result in creating arguments;
▪ “What does it mean to ‘look within’?”;
▪ How the typical ego perceives spiritual and self-help books;
▪ A simple rule (that most couples won’t respect), which makes relationship so much easier to manage;
▪ What “long-term relationship” usually implies;
▪ What the ego loves in relationships and how to move past it;
▪ A way to make fun of the ego and thereby heal it;
▪ A critical relationship phase that most people will have to go through and how to speed this up;
▪ What you need for a good relationship;
▪ A new way to see relationships so they’re not frustrating anymore;
▪ Some common insecurities the ego has in relationships;
▪ How to learn about your own ego from Witnessing the world around you;
▪ “Why do we attract ever-harder tests along this pathway?”;
▪ What happens when you pray for the end of suffering;
▪ A short sentence that will reassure you about the future (and worry);
▪ A quick way to free yourself from ALL emotional pain right now, today;
▪ Why men are afraid of the ‘friend zone’;
▪ A critical characteristic that guys who end up in the “friend zone” all share;
▪ What “26 years old virgin” types are usually like, inside;
▪ What “level” to focus on while on a date;
▪ Why men feel guilt, anxiety etc. around women;
▪ Transcending cowardice to reach Integrity;
▪ What to do when you approach women, step-by-step;
▪ How to be successful with women and dating, step-by-step;
▪ Simple methods for transcending performance anxiety in bed and in Life;
▪ The difference between non-attachment and detachment in sex;
▪ What the male ego in sex is like and what it really wants;
▪ How to let go of limiting beliefs that block our sexual pleasure and fulfillment (guilt, inner critic, fears of not being enough, performing badly etc.);
▪ Surprising revelations about Pornography – what it really is (what you really see when you remove lust-blinders from your eyes) and why it is damaging to our psyche;
▪ Reasons men masturbate, and how to transcend it;
▪ Giving up the heavy burden of feeling responsible for what your woman does, thinks, and feels;
▪ Ways of dealing with your girlfriend when she plays ‘push-pull’;
▪ “The Bitch” archetype;
▪ Healing insecurities in relationships (fear of appearing weak, or too feminine, fear of rejection, fear of poor performance, etc.);
▪ List of spiritual qualities, and their opposites;
▪ Why cleverly controlling her attraction won’t work;
▪ “Only cowards give up on love”;
▪ Ways of finding an honest woman from a “spiritual warrior position”;
▪ “It is not ‘evil’ to want lust, but there are higher planes of Existence”;
▪ Using humor in disassembling the ego – “Humor does not come from ego, but from the Spirit”;
▪ Effective Methods for dealing with all of the negative emotions;
▪ Etc.
Approximately 13 long hours of one of the deepest dating, sex, and relationship consultations ever recorded, each of these carefully-selected, deeply therapeutic conversations are ‘cutting-edge’ and will guide the listener automatically into deeper levels of understanding and awareness in regards to dating, relationships, healthy sexuality, success in the world, healing, and especially, Spiritual Love.
Bliss/Stillness states due to simply hearing these recordings have been frequently reported, as the information itself is powerfully transformational and catalytic.
NOTE: Since these are phone consultation recordings, the audio sound is very decent, but not studio quality.
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The content in these recordings is comical, enlightening, down-to-earth, and quite advanced. Many students who participated in this program have reported major leaps in consciousness just by understanding the simple re-contextualizations or “reframes” provided.
The wisdom is presented from a powerful field of context and is derived from massive life experience, as well as the timeless teachings as taught by a variety of Enlightened mystics.
These recordings are intended for the spiritually-oriented
student of Unconditional Love.
This program is hereby dedicated to the absolute perfection
of dating, sexuality, and deeply satisfying relationships.
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