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I have a question about the cocky and funny style. David D said without to be cocky and funny, you can not seduce a woman. And I am also very funny and cocky to women and they like it. Before I had known about this PUA thing, I was also very funny, it belongs to my attitude… So should I give it up?
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Hell no.
Stephane
I found that Rapport is fragile and being cocky/funny will kill whatever rapport I have already with the girl. Although I won’t do away with C&F entirely. There are times where C&F has worked beautifully and got me the girl, and there are other times where it BLEW me away. There also have been times where I got GREAT responses from girls when I used C&F, but they end up going home with another guy who was all rapport with her. It is indeed tricky WHEN I use C&F. so if I’m and a girl ALREADY are in rapport, I do NOT use C&F at that point. HOWEVER… I believe that C&F works best in group-sets. Especially in the bar scene. Plus, it gets girls competing for me, and that’s good social proof.
Personally I have gotten away from being cocky/funny. I am sweet/funny. I found that cocky many times set up a challenge between myself and the girl.
Buy if you went in cocky and funny. Fine, but keep in mind that C&F doesn’t work when you have someone who does not play along. So here you should have tasted her mood and played to it. Our targets will not always respond how we would like them to.
Cocky/Funny is like a spice. A little here and there gives the dish massive flavour, use it too much and it wrecks the whole meal.
Cocky finny is heart chakra. It’s having fun with the girl. You can just enjoy yourself without sinking down into total seriousness. It turns the whole thing into fun. If you slip ibnto trying to make her laugh all the time… you gonna balls it up though. Word em up.