***QUESTION***

Hey Steph,

[SNIP] Anyway… She seemed a tad nervous during the date and I chickened out at the end and just gave her a hug. I keep thinking I’m scarily close to the friend-zone, but I’m not going to chicken out on monday. We’ll go watch a movie at the cinema.

Any tips for avoiding the dreaded friend-zone?

Thanks,
D.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Avoiding the friend-zone is pretty easy, once your inner game is decent.

The main issue I see with guys getting stuck in friend-zone is one of NOT getting physically CLOSE enough to the girl they are on a date with.

They seem to stand too far away, at a ’safe distance’, almost like they’re afraid to offend the girl. But she’s on a date with you because she actually wants intimacy, you see.

When I hook up with a girl for a first date, I tend to soften my eyes a little and talk face-to-face with her, up close and personal… I tend to get in really close to the girl.

Check out the TV series, Entourage. The main character, Vince, demonstrates this very well. When he talks to girls, he has no problem getting into a girl’s personal space.

This will keep you out of the dreaded ‘friend-zone’.

Whenever I meet up with students in person, they often confess to me that they are afraid to escalate things to a physical level.

I’m actually afraid to NOT escalate, go figure.

Thanks for your question!

Blessings,
Stephane

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