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What Love Means to a 4-8 Year Old

Greta — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 02:11:10 +0000

Hello everyone!

Stephane and I got this email from one of our subscribers. The children’s answers
are so innocent and touching, just like WOW, so I decided to share it here with you:

“A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds,
‘What does love mean?’ The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone
could have imagined. See what you think:

‘When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toe nails
anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got
arthritis too. That’s love.’

Rebecca- age 8

‘When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that
your name is safe in their mouth.’

Billy – age 4

‘Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out
and smell each other…’

Karl – age 5

‘Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without
making them give you any of theirs.’

Chrissy – age 6

‘Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.’

Terri – age 4

‘Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving
it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.’

Danny – age 7

‘Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to
be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when
they kiss’

Emily – age 8

‘Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.’

Bobby – age 7

‘If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,’

Nikka – age 6

‘Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.’

Noelle – age 7

‘Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know
each other so well.’

Tommy – age 6

‘During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching
me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared
anymore.’

Cindy – age 8

‘My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.’

Clare – age 6

‘Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.’

Elaine-age 5

‘Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert
Redford.’

Chris – age 7

‘Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.’

Mary Ann – age 4

‘I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out
and buy new ones.’

Lauren – age 4

‘When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.’

Karen – age 7

‘Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.’

Mark – age 6

‘You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say
it a lot. People forget.’

Jessica – age 8

And the final one:

The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who
had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s
yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.

When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, ‘Nothing, I just helped
him cry’.

When there is nothing left but God, that is when you find out that God is all you need. Take 60
seconds and give this a shot! All you do is simply say the following small prayer for the person who
sent you this.

Heavenly Father, please bless all my friends in whatever it is that You know they may be needing
this day! And may their life be full of Your peace, prosperity and power as he/she seeks to have a
closer relationship with You. Amen. “

(The End.)

Womanize II: Questions And Answers

Stephane — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 22:14:35 +0000

Womanize II is an e-book compilation of some of Stephane Hemon’s best forum posts, along with six hours of audio consultations as well as two hours of video. The topic is women, and how to succeed on every level with them. The information is advanced, and it is intended for spiritually-oriented students who want to deepen their understandings in the art of “Womanizing.”

To give the reader an idea of Stephane’s “tell it like it is” writing style, a students dating “field report”, along with Stephane’s reply to him, is provided:

***FORUM POST, FIELD REPORT***

I forget the details of the conversation, but we talk for a bit, I get her laughing, and I ask her out. She says, “That was quick. I don’t even know you.” I say, “Well that’s the point of going out isn’t it? To get to know each other.”

She seems a little nervous the whole time, so I say a few things like, “If I’m making you uncomfortable you can say no.” She says, “No I’m fine with it.” I say, “I realize I’m springing this on you, but you’re really pretty and-” she interrupts with “Oh thank you that’s really nice.”

Anyway, somewhere in the midst of the conversation she asks, “Did you tell another girl she’s pretty recently, and ask her out?”

Me: “Uhh…”

Her: “And her name was Melissa. At the Target shopping mall.”

Me: (remembering who she’s talking about) “Oh yeah! You know her?”

Her: “I’m her room mate.”

>>>Stephane’s Reply:

And then what happened? Girls LOVE to catch you in the act like this. It totally enthralls them to no end.

You have to tell them, “Look, I’m not the cheesy pickup artist looking to
prove my desirability and coolness. I’m the sincere guy looking for a sincere
girl. It isn’t exactly easy to find this. Most women lack integrity, frankly,
and so you have to talk to hundreds of them before you find one that is halfway
decent. Are you one of these people who believes true love is just going to fall
in your lap one day, and you won’t need to do anything to make it happen, like
you’re just gonna find the special guy who can magically read your mind? Are
you one of those?”

At first glance, it might sound like I’m lecturing her, but I’m really not.
I’m not trying to change her, I’m just being what I am. Love doesn’t screw
around, and it doesn’t pretend like it needs to apologize for being what it
is. People often presume Love is passive or weak, but in the real world, love
looks almost like a Tsunami or a hurricane. Love handles women in the same way
Winston Churchill handled world war two. It cannot be defeated. It is enormously
powerful, and yet gentle.

The words I used are not so important, and in real life it would likely be less
wordy. What’s important is you must make the switch. She’s putting you on
the spot, and the best defense is an attack, so to speak. You put her on the
spot and make her dance. She better dance well. Don’t fall for any of this
“innocent questions” BS — a woman’s questions are rarely innocent. Women
are often very cynical in their views of men, and so you have to stop dancing
for them and start making them dance for you. Then you’ll find out what she’s
really made of.

You want to be kind and innocent, yes, but as soon as they start dragging their
feet like this, it’s time to put them on the spot a little. Here you were,
funny, charming, polite, courageous, resourceful, honest, integrous, agreeable,
innocent, etc., and you’re asking her out on a date and she’s just dragging
her feet, unwilling to decide yes or no, and asking stupid questions in order
to stall you. Women dream of this kind of approach all day long. They read
romance novels and watch sappy movies about it and complain to each other that
there are no true gentlemen in this world. And here you are, giving her exactly
what she needs, and she’s acting like she doesn’t want any of it. She’s
playing dumb and asking questions that are really designed to make you look
stupid. To large segments of the population, love is not only considered
stupid, but it is perceived as a huge threat. They want you to feel inferior
and they want you to explain yourself and apologize for being what you are.
This attitude has to be seen as totally unacceptable to you.

Don’t try to persuade her or change her or anything, but you need to represent.

You asked her a question, and she is answering your question with a question.
What, is she like four years old? There’s no need to be indignant about this,
instead you just visualize her being four years old. When women are acting this
way, just shrink them down in your mind, and see them as children. This makes
it easy to have compassion, and it is closer to actual spiritual discernment of
essence than anything else. The other visualization I recommended was to see her
as being pregnant, because it reminds you of her sacredness. It’s probably
better to see her pregnant before the approach, but then if she gives you a
hard time, see her as a child. These simple visualizations are damn powerful.
The pregnant woman helps to undo desire/lust, and the child helps with
spiritual discernment and unconditional love. It’s easy to feel indignant when
women are bitchy, but only if you still see them as being adults. Most women
are definitely not adults. They’re still just like children, and it’s easy to have
compassion for them when you see them in this way. It’s not so easy to feel
compassion for a grown adult who is being a bitch, but if you shrink her down
into a child in your mind, compassion is much easier because you’re seeing them
as they probably actually are. It’s easy to hate bin Laden or Hitler, but then
if you see them in diapers, crawling across the kitchen floor, it helps you
remember what they are, in essence. They appear like adults but they are far
from that.

She behaved like a child, and so now you see her as a child. She earned it, and
now she has to earn your treating her as an adult. Find out if she’s capable
of behaving as an adult. This is really the critical essentials of what it is
to become ‘The Qualifier’. You start out treating her as an adult, she shows
you that she’s a child, you see her as a child, and now she better show you
that she can be an adult. You talk to her as you would speak to a child. You
have a smile in your eyes because children are cute, and you’re gentle with
her, and you’re kind, but you also need to put her on the spot and make her
dance a little. You do this with humor, and so you go, “Do I smell bad or
something? I just asked you out on a date. Do you hate me or what?”

Women, when you do this kind of thing, are often going to presume that you are a
total asshole. But you’re not an asshole, and so now you know what they are.
So they project their own ‘assholeness’ onto you. You’re asking her out on a
date, you’re not exactly asking her to join a cult and commit group suicide.
To have dinner with someone is not wrong, scary, or immoral. It is dinner, and
some pleasant conversation with someone who is attracted to you and wants to
make you feel good. So why do so many women push this away? They push it away
because they can’t handle love. They piss and moan all day about how life is
so unfair and how all the men are idiots, but then when a true gentleman shows
up, they freak out and run away. The cowardice of women, the lack of courage,
is very stunning. Just be happy you’re not [forum member] and you’re not in
Japan because apparently, the women in Japan are generally sleeping zombies who
only care about going to work and holding three jobs and eventually dying from
exhaustion. You’re in California, and the girls out here are generally going
to be more open than this.

True pickup is a total numbers game. You become as gentlemanly as you can, and
then you have to actually approach hundreds — if not thousands — of women
before you find one that can actually handle an honest man who will truly love
them. Romantic love is only a few hundred years old, which is very new. In the
old days, it was all about rich men and their whores. A woman would marry you
even if she didn’t like you. You had money, and her survival was all that
mattered. Realize that even today, in modern times, most women are still just
run by status and money. They are not different from actually being animals. To
find a woman who is Homo Spiritus on this planet is almost as difficult as
winning the lotto. This is something that many people don’t want to accept.
They presume that love will magically fall into their lap some day soon, but
with even just a little experience with women, you come to realize that unless
you’re out there, day after day, approaching thousands of women, your chances
of finding true love on this planet are exactly zilch. And so you have to
become willing to behave in ways that are going to elicit actual hatred.

Being hated ain’t so bad. Think of it as a sign of progress. Everyone who is
successful and happy in this world is hated by someone. What’s up with this?

The ego fears and actually hates love, because love is what undoes its illusion
that it is God. To find love in this world, you’re really just going around
and challenging every ego that you meet, and so you have to be quick and swift
about it. You’re not here to pass a woman’s tests, she is here to pass your
tests. And so you have to become a little bit tougher on them. You have to be,
“Look, I’m asking you out on a date here, it’s not a concentration camp.
DECIDE. What are you, like four years old? Can I get you some warm milk?” In
this way, you’ll find out very quickly what a woman is made of. They often
seem like adults, but they are actual children. This is true of most of
mankind. It’s true of your parents, your grandparents, your police officers,
your soldiers, your teachers, your world leaders, in MOST cases, are actually
about four years old. So, you better get busy and start throwing some grenades
around and making women dance, to find out what they’re made of.

When this attitude is deeply internalized, it doesn’t lead to feeling superior
or indignant, believe it or not, because you start to see the innocence of the
child that is in everyone. And so every woman you meet becomes extremely
lovable. And your willingness to love women unconditionally is what makes you
so lovable. This is when everything starts to become funny. Everything women
say and do actually really does become very funny, and this is when
“rejection” no longer even phases you. It doesn’t faze you because you
realize that her lack of courage and her narcissism are really only expressions
of the infantile ego, which is very cute and funny. You’re asking her out on a
date and telling her that she’s very beautiful, and she’s treating you as if
you’re a “scary creepy guy.” When seen for what it actually is, this thing
we call “rejection” is actually adorable and cute. They’re actually just
rejecting love itself, because love is so foreign to most people. We sing songs
and make endless movies about love, but actually, in truth, most people don’t
know the first thing about love. And so you start to feel sorry for the women
who “reject” you, because you realize they are going to end up in a loveless
relationship. It’s pretty sad, but then as you reach a higher state within
yourself, it starts to seem like comedy. When “rejection” becomes sad and
funny to you, you’ve transcended approach anxiety. There is actually a point
where it is no longer even possible to feel approach anxiety, because you see
beyond the illusions and you come to realize that your worth is not a definable
variable which is dependent on external conditions, such as a woman liking you
or not liking you. To that end is what my life’s work is all about. It’s not
necessary to suffer while in the presence of beautiful women. No matter what
they say and do, it’s not necessary to ever suffer or feel pain about any of
it. It’s possible to wake up from the nightmare and to see Reality as it
actually is in truth.

**“What Goodies Are Contained in Womanize II?”**

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Major ideaGasms Price Slash

Stephane — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 11:08:22 +0000

I am overjoyed to finally be in a position to give what I am about to offer
here, which is to slash most of my prices way down. I’m now in a
financial position to be able to practically give most of my advanced
programs away.

I realize this may upset some clients who paid full price. Please don’t
hate me, and know that your contributions are what have enabled me to have
the time to focus so hard on Enlightenment (Over 10, 000 hours of deep
meditation this 1+ year alone) so that I can test out all of the Teachings
of Enlightenment and develop the kind of programs which ideaGasms offers
today. To be able to apply the Wisdom of Enlightened Masters onto the
world of Pickup, Dating, S E X, and Relationships took an extreme level of
focused concentration, and intense dedication. I could not have done
anything like this without your contributions, of that I am acutely aware.

Furthermore, ideaGasms has been under attack (malicious slander, libel) and
my wife and I even had to live in hiding for a while. The wolves of the
world do not appreciate what we’re doing here, and neither does the
majority of the so-called ‘dating community’. Thus, your contributions,
especially in the last year or so, have helped more than you might have
realized. Every dollar helped sustain my wife and I, so that we could
leave the world behind and pursue Enlightenment 24-7, as well as record
and write all about our findings, and the application of this information
to relationships has enriched the lives of a great many people. This
company, ideaGasms, is not really “mine” at all. It is a group effort, a
collective ‘Satsang’ in service to the relief of suffering in Pickup,
Dating, S E X, and Relationships. Every reader who opens a basic
newsletter and reads it has helped us all in unseen ways. To hold even one
kind or loving thought in mind cancels out something like several thousand
negative thoughts in the collective consciousness of mankind.

This has frankly been the most difficult year of my life, but 2009 is now
behind is, thank God; Amen.

As of yesterday, I’m now in the position of being able to not worry about
money, therefore, the price tags are going way, way, way down. Just enough
to cover server fees and things like that. Many are under the false
impression that I must be “rich”, however, I don’t even own a house or
car… so much for that rumor

I’m particularly happy for those students who are still in school, or who
live in second or even third world countries.

Wow. What a feeling.

The volume series, Cracking The Male-Female Code, the prices are now
something like 75% less than they were, you can click here to browse the
various volumes in this series:

http://www.ideagasms.net/cracking-the-code/

I do need to keep PowerLetters and Womanize as they are (these come with
forum access which takes a lot of time and energy to run, and I am always
on top of things answering just about every possible question that is
posted there).

I was, however, also able to reduce the price of our meditation, The Silent
Witness, by about 50%:

http://www.ideagasms.net/into-the-field-of-consciousness/

It’s a great feeling to not have to think and worry about money all the
time. While I didn’t win the lotto or anything like that, I’m just in a
better position than ever before, and that’s all that needs to be known

Thanks for a great five years everyone.

Many Blessings,

Stephane Hemon

Womanize

Stephane — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 03:40:28 +0000

30-Day Intensive Step-by-Step Training in the Art of Pickup, Dating, “Getting Physical”, and Living the Dream…

Unlike Anything Else on the Market… this is Guaranteed to Blow the Mind’s of Students at All Levels (and even the World’s Best Pickup Instructors) Because it is so Simple…

A Complete Paradigm Shift in Dating Technologies.

From: Stephane Hemon
Date: October 2009

Dear Reader,

Today we shall focus on letting the greedy inner ‘pickup artist’ take a well-deserved, long, long sleep… forever. It is the inner ‘rock star’, the smooth-talking inner ‘PUA’, the socially clever ninja who is able to accomplish any magical pickup of the hottest “tens”… in fact, he doesn’t even bother with “tens” anymore; he only does 12’s and up!

He represents, of course, not the real ‘you’, but the ‘you’ that hypothetically could, would, and should have been. He is the guy you were supposed to become when you discovered the Internet and learned that there were lines and tactics and strategies that could be used to make women think you’re just wonderful. Marvelous, really. God’s Gift to women.

The ego, despite all of its claims of humility, thinks that you, Dear Reader, are just wonderful. Absolutely incredible. Even the man who claims to hate, loathe, and despise himself is actually secretly ‘in love’ with himself.

That is, there is a tiny invisible layer of consciousness which envelops the body-mind… it is right between the ego and the Silent Witness. It represents narcissism, and it is a quality of consciousness you could call “self-love.” It is so enamored and ‘in love’ with the body-mind that it has invented all kinds of wonderful archetypes, identities, self-images, and personality aspects.

One such aspect of the male ego is the inner ‘god of women’. Even if women don’t really respond all that well to him in the real world, that’s quite alright… he loves to imagine that they do. He loves to fantasize and romanticize, and he dreams big.

“Let Your Pride Die For Women”

It is time to let him rest. He is, after all, a very hardworking imaginary friend and he got you this far. He is the one who helped you practice seducing women in your mind (and furiously masturbating to them and enjoying them as fully as possible and in every direction). Although the average male sleeps with about seven women, in his mind, he f-cks the whole world. And, he does them sooo well that they never had a better lover; he leaves women stunned and shocked, forever catching their breaths… he silences their mind’s with his mighty cock and heart of gold. No man will ever hope to compete with the inner PUA, that is a fact!

The reason he has to go to sleep for a long time (i.e., for eternity) is simple. It is because he is the one responsible for all of that performance anxiety. Performance in bed, performance in pickup, performance during dates, and performance in love relationships… he is definitely a performer, and where we’re going, Dear Reader, there will be no more need to “perform.”

FREEDOM

In the Land of the Truly Free, performance is a childish notion that actually repels women, rather than attracting them. Where we’re headed, less is more. Nothing is needed… Not even a winning personality. Not even high caliber social skills. Not even a massive tree trunk of a hard-on.

Pickup, dating, kissing, sex, relationships… it’s all the same.

The inner PUA who fancies himself “king of the jungle” tends to view everything as a performance, rather than as a Beingness. A performance involves you, of course, doing all the work, cracking all of the jokes, telling all of the “cool stories that’ll keep her interested”, making all of the right moves, and doing all of the sex. What the performance paradigm is lacking is that it blocks one’s simple Beingness, which is actually the most important and attractive aspect a man can have.

The performance paradigm is so narcissistically self-involved that it often actually forgets the woman.

It is so concerned about the Me and the My Performance (or lack thereof) that it ends up generating a million thoughts in the space of only one single moment, and when there are too many thoughts going on, they tend to bottleneck. It is like a traffic jam occurs within the mind, and the body simply doesn’t know what to do. So, it freezes. It jams up with emotion, stress, excitement, hesitation, desire, and restlessness.

The mouth either stops talking, or it talks way too much and says stupid and unnecessary things. The body becomes tense and rigid; it either puffs up with pride when the woman responds well, or shrinks down in shame when she loses attraction… and there is so much blood in the brain due to all those thoughts… that there isn’t enough blood left over for running the penis.

It is time to let the inner PUA dreams of socially-clever perfection go to sleep, forever. The dreams all served you up to this point, but like I said, where we’re going today, no dreams and no performances of any kind are required. Women can be picked up in a state of Silence. Surprised? Well, in the Land of the Truly Free, only Beingness exists. Perfect, harmonious, joyful, innocent, blissful Beingness… in the Land of the Truly Free, attraction and love happen spontaneously of their own when conditions are favorable.

I’d like to take you on a 30-day journey into the unknown. After many, MANY years of seeking… and searching… and dating… and picking women up… and relationships… I’ve not only found the Keys to the Kingdom, but I’ve discovered how to actually TEACH MEN how to find their own Keys in a very short period of time.

The only requirement is humility.

What I’m talking about has nothing to do with fancy tricks, nor is it particularly difficult to learn because there is only un-learning. Anyone ranging from the 27-year-old virgin, to the world’s genius-level pickup artists… to the relationship guy… to the spiritual guy who loves women but can’t quite figure ‘em out… literally ALL MEN shall be stunned by what I’ve gradually discovered and laid out in this program.

Over the next 30-days, every day will feel like Christmas morning as you discover brand-new and exciting inner and outer game “Womanizing” tools which are so counter-intuitive that NOBODY in the “seduction and dating community” has figured them out yet, nor are they likely to any time soon. This is because what is shared in this new program is of a different paradigm altogether.

Success is Dangerous

Success is “dangerous” in that it often leads to the presumption of “I know the truth about women because I’ve slept with so many of them.” Thus, men often stop seeking, stop searching, and stop evolving because they are successful.

Whether you’re a long time student of mine, a complete newbie, or just a guy who reads the free newsletters but hasn’t decided to buy anything, this program is for you. If you want to learn the art of Womanizing to a stunningly successful and fulfilling degree — so much that it makes you cry tears of joy — this is it.

If you’re low on cash or can’t afford this program, just sell your car. Re-mortgage your home. Borrow the money. Do whatever it takes. Pray to the good Lord and your dreams of effortless Womanizing will come true.

* I don’t like to offer “money back guarantees” because I like having clients who know what they want. I have mixed feelings about “marketing” and overly “promoting” things. I’m not “Mr. Marketing Guy”, I’m the man who has been here — available and real, open and vulnerable, hated, slandered, and absolutely adored — for many years… and working damn hard around-the-clock to crack the male/female code in such a way that makes it easy for guys to “get it” and start to live it.

Over the years I’ve written newsletters… hundreds of solid newsletters… I don’t tease you, I don’t promise things in an exaggerated fashion, and I don’t make you think my newsletter is going to contain something, only to have you realize it is just another typical sales pitch with nothing but sales-fluff… No, no, no, I have fed you with some pretty tasty treats over the years, but still, I’ve given you NOTHING like what is in this 30-day home study program.

Over the years I have brought you squirting orgasm girlfriends and shown you some rather intimate and vulnerable stuff, to say the least. I’ve introduced you to my girlfriends, my ‘circle girls’, and even my wife… I’ve been on the forums with you guys and I’ve shown you that I care deeply about ideaGasms’ students and their results in the real world. Through thick and thin, with the Lord’s help, I’ve stood the test of time and weathered some pretty crazy storms over the years. I’m asking you for just a little trust here…

If you want to get this product or not, that is your decision and I respect you. It’s just that… I know what I’ve just created here, God help me, thank you, Oh Lord, and it is SOLID GOLD. I don’t mean to be pushy… I feel like I just won the “female lotto” and all I want to do is share it and party with everyone forever.

A Brand-New Paradigm for Pickup and Dating

Today’s Internet pickup and dating materials do contain wisdom and practical advice, but what I am offering you here is of a totally different paradigm. In a sense, it is nearly the complete opposite of what the whole world teaches about succeeding with women. I’m not “against” that other stuff, but in Reality, there is a much Higher Way.

Although many of the Internet pickup gurus are indeed social engineering geniuses, a whole new world has just opened up for ALL of us to enjoy.

Moreover, I’ve found ways of explaining all of this to make it easy to follow and absorb for anyone who understands basic logic and reason.

What Could Possibly Be More Fulfilling In Life Than Womanizing??

To me, nothing is more important than learning how to Womanize to a severe degree. Everything else in life is a distant second. Personally, I can be happy without fame, success, money, cars… I could even be happy working at McDonald’s… as long as I am satisfied with my level of “Womanize” where every-other-girl that I talk to shines Attraction-Joy through her eyes when I speak with her, I feel happy and fulfilled. Therefore, I have spent this entire lifetime focused on this one topic.

The average man never gets to feel satisfied on this level.

Moreover, men usually think they need to develop “ninja level” social skills to pull it off. But in Truth, the less you speak, say, and do, the greater your success will be.

Womanizing means a lot to me and hope my enthusiasm has come through. This is your life we are talking about so I don’t want to leave anything out. This is perhaps the most important skill a man could ever develop, and it is a great honor and privilege to be able to share the kind of information that makes your lifestyle with women so easy and effortless that you stand in a state of awe… and wonder how the whole world has missed the mark and not already discovered how stupidly easy it is to live the dream.

Forum Access

This particular program will grant you access to the ideaGasms Forum, but it is a strict forum in the sense that we absolutely require kindness at all times, no condescending exceptions. We fancy our forums as one of the Internet’s “higher vibing” forums, in that everyone contributes a little something and “plays well with others.” We keep a good vibe on there so that everyone can feel safe enough to just be what they are (at any level of consciousness) and post what is truly going on inside them; this way, students are unafraid to open up and gain true, sincere, life-long friends in the process. The forum is also a nice resource for deeper clarifications and understanding. I put a lot of time and energy on there answering as many questions as I can, and we encourage guys to post their “field reports”, personal inner blocks, dating questions, etc., to get real answers from someone who has traversed all of the possible terrains. (NOTE: If you prefer to just get this program without having any forum access, the price of Womanize is significantly lower. See below for details.)

Six Hours of Video

Every few weeks, students from our forum gather together online and take turns asking questions, and these sessions are recorded. The Womanize eCourse also includes six hours of video footage in which I provide answers to some of the following questions, issues, challenges, etc., such as:

When you’re with a group of women, how do you dispense the eye contact?

Does it matter if I focus on the girl I like until she breaks eye contact first?

Do you still recommend triangular gazing where you switch between looking at their lips and their eyes?

You say that a man should not approach unless he is completely stunned by a woman’s beauty, but that rarely happens with me. Should I just wait for it to happen?

How do you prepare for ‘the final run’? What about bodily needs while you do this?

You talk about being a ‘real man’ while with a woman, but I’m not there financially.

When I practice being silent with people they think I’m bored or boring.

When I speak, I’m not fully standing by my words; any suggestions?

How do I deal with my ‘inner punisher’?

Why do I tend to get vulgar when around girls I don’t know? My intention seems to be to show them that I don’t care what they think.

Is it best to say hi, hey, hello, or some other word during a cold approach?

When do I draw the line and stop pursuing and thinking about a girl all together?

Apart from fashion and interior design, is there any way men could respect beauty more? Are there any sources such as magazines or websites that can help?

You talk about not checking girls out but I can’t help myself.

Does the Womanize style work on girls you already know or is it best to just stick with the first minute?

What can help me make it through the 30 day no lust challenge? When these 30 days are over, how am I going to behave myself?

What’s the deal with shy girls?

Why do Asian women seem so shy? Why are they so aloof? Should I be more dominating with them? Will these problems not exist with integrous girls? I understand the intention behind domination, but even when some girls let me know they want me they still don’t make things much easier.

What about the concept of ‘two steps forward one step back’?

What is a good way to bring pride up, and heal it?

Can you talk more about Periphery Vision Meditation/Silent Witness?

How to deal with aversions and attractions? How can I heal judgment?

Whats the difference between personal love and Spiritual Love?

How to deal with dating multiple women at the same time?

How to help my friends who are going thru struggles?

What do you mean by “people cant be different then they are?”

How to love myself?

How to love the ego?

How to become more playful in my approaches?

Whats the Truth about clubs and negative places?

I still live with my parents, how does that affect my dating life?

What do you mean by “Just Love Women”?

Anything about voice tonality in Womanizing?

What kinds of women are the best fit for me?

How to balance being laid back and being silly around women?

I am very self-conscious during my pick-ups, what do you suggest?

Should I go out of myself to make people happy? How?

What is Divine Stupidity? Can you talk more about it?

How do I serve women?

How much should I sacrifice myself in a relationship?

How to cope with stress in all areas of life?

My friends want so much from me, what do I deal with this?

Why bother getting involved with a women, if I know she is not on my level? Why bring so much pain to women, if break-ups are the probable end of it?

How do I deal with negative emotions accompanying a couple’s argument/fight?

What to do when your friends suck with women? Do you help them, or…?

I’ve found an integrous girl, but I’m not attracted to her physically. Should I be with her anyway?

Is attraction based solely on lust, or is there more to it?

Can attraction grow later on in the relationship?

What are ways to protect women? Is my intention enough?

Where the thinking stops and the Witnessing starts: an in-depth explanation of Witnessing and the way it works.

Lacking dedication to do the spiritual work. How to turn your spiritual spark into a full-fledged “fire in the belly”?

Paying attention to the peripheral vision while walking on the street feels like being arrogant/aloof, as I am not acknowledging the people passing by. Is this normal?

What to do when your ex-girlfriend tries to get back together with you, but you don’t want her anymore?

What to do when your mind keeps making up romantic fantasies about a woman?

What to do when you have trouble crying?

Being yang/manly without being lustful. Sexual attraction vs lust(Is lust the same thing as sexual attraction?)

How can I purify my intention so that it is purely selfless? Is selfishness ever ok?

Cutting out all negativity: the challenges brought by being actively involved in the world (having to get a job, pay the bills etc.) decrease my bliss states. Should I be passive and disengage from the world in order to work on my spiritual path?

I fell like not going to nightclubs is a cop-out. Why does a spiritual aspirant need to stay away from negative energy fields such as clubs?

When is pride right, or OK?

Is it possible to be immune to negativity?

Is it alright to ignore girls that you’ve approached unsuccessfully? (the interaction did not lead to a date)

When I see a girl that I recognize but don’t actually know (i.e., we go to the same school, but we almost never talk), how should I greet her?

I feel I am offending people through my periphery gazing (as I am not acknowledging them through looking directly at them). What do I do?

Why do I feel the need to please everybody?

What is a quick way to lessen fear and worry?

I have switched from long, talk-a-lot pickup to quick escalation pickup. This has brought the fear that the girl won’t call me because she doesn’t know me well enough.

Do I need to worry about what the girl will think after the interaction?

Are there ways to decrease flakes?

How to make eye contact and stay present with multiple women?

How to close a woman in a group of women?

How to find out what to let go during meditation?

How to escape the trap of wanting to succeed with women?

How to stay in witnessing state with a woman?

Meditation technique for letting go of neediness with beautiful women.

How to escalate and close a girl fast?

How to be in constant meditation in the world?

Meditation Technique to let go of thinking addiction.

Technique to let go of pride.

How to get out of the mind?

How to relax and get into a bliss state?

How to get out of sloth?

How to be humble with a woman?

Essence of womanizing.

Demonstration of approaching and closing a girl.

Etc.

Caveat

Just one caveat. This program is intensive and could be emotionally disturbing. (Especially the first 15 days are intensely focused on ‘inner game’ before getting into the advanced ‘outer game’ materials.) This information is confrontive to the ego and especially to Pride. Many people take themselves too seriously and don’t like to have their belief systems questioned or challenged. (Secretly, most men believe their way with women is the “right” way, even when they are utterly unsuccessful.) This program is not for the faint of heart, the spiritually timid, or the easily offended.

Opinions and belief systems are essentially worthless. On one’s death bed, what good are opinions? To effectively Womanize, there must be a sincere willingness to let one’s pride essentially ‘die’ to a significant degree. Opinions and fear become replaced by a silent Knowingness and effortless competence with women and even with life itself.

Therefore, take a moment to visualize women responding to you in ways that are downright incredible, and ask yourself if this is what you truly want. Do you WANT to live the dream? Most men secretly love pain & failure with women. You should really want Love in your life and already have a “fire in the belly” before we get started.

The decision to Womanize has to come with the declaration, “No matter what.” Again, this is your life we are talking about, and I don’t want us to waste each others time. The daily lessons (and 6 hours of video) I will be sharing with you over the next thirty days are not a joke. It is the fruit of a lifetime of incredibly agonizing research, “blood, sweat, and tears”, and the un-learning of that which stands in the way of absolutely effortless (as unbelievable as it sounds) Pickup, Dating, Escalation/Sex, Relationships, Marriage, and thus true Womanizing.

OK, thanks for reading, and God bless you.

Many Blessings,

Stephane Hemon

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WOMANIZE STUDENT COMMENTS

“To me, the beautiful thing about Womanize is that it makes
you feel that you’ll really never need anything else.
Everything is taken care of. Just follow the practices and
Bliss/Love + Women are your destiny.”

–Nick B. (Forum member)

“In terms of content, Womanize has everything — Inner game
gold. Outer game guidance. Stories from Stephane’s past
that show “the making of the man.” Phone consultation
transcriptions. Spiritual wisdom. Teachings of social
dynamics and female biological programming (though seen
from a higher viewpoint than that within the dating
community).”

–Mark S. (Forum member)

(From a woman)

“I felt absolutely compelled to share this with you guys on
the forum.

I have had the distinct privilege of watching someone I am
already in a relationship with, transform into a true
Womanizer. The changes I have witnessed are literally
blowing my mind. I feel like I didn’t even know what s e x
was until now.

But seriously, [my lover] has transformed in all areas of
our relationship. He reads my mind the second before I say
something, he is actually happy to indulge my cuddling
addiction, he is more patient and understanding when I’m
“stupid” or having a release, and best of all, he has shut
up. His silent presence is completely overwhelming and I
basically want to rip his clothes off all the time. When he
is with me, he doesn’t do anything. I am free to roll
around giggling, talk my head off and just be a woman. We
are both free to just be.

I will spare you the more intimate details but I just wanted
to tell every man on this forum that IT WORKS. All your
dreams will come true if you follow the program!! I don’t
mean to sound like a walking advertisement but I’m just so
excited!!! There is hope for men and women and relationships
and Love and I can barely contain myself.

All I do is walk around in a state of intense gratitude. I
am so grateful for this program, the forum, my relationship,
my body, my existence, even my non-integrous roommates!!! But
anyway, this is what happens. Much Love to everyone who is
slowly but surely becoming a Womanizer.”

–Haley (Forum member)

“Wow, please let me say thank you for creating such a
beautiful product. I have been a spiritual aspirant for a
long time and a follower of yours for years, but everything
recently clicked, and the Womanize product has fallen right
into my life very fortuitously. I spent yesterday
practicing the first lesson, as well as the technique
described in the transcribed interview. Last night I had the
most successful pick-up of my life. I met a girl at a party
and withing 15 mins we were f*cking! And the best part was
that it was based on integrity, mutual respect and love. I
was the most Alpha guy there and everything was incredibly
simple. I also know that I can repeat this feat over and
over, because, after years of trying, I finally get it. And
this was day ONE!!! I am so excited about the rest of the
course. Feel free to use this in any promotional material
Stephane, or not, as you like. God bless.”

–Alex M.

“Stephane, thank you so very much. This is my first
testimonial though I have bought most of your products
since day 1, but none of them made me so ecstatic. I’ve
only gotten as far as day 2 in ‘The Womanizer’ program
but it is so f***ing good. I just can’t believe how fast
success came. I am not writing this while my fresh
‘conquest’ is in the shower (you also taught me to have
standards and get to know the girl before the actual
‘meating’ but incredible things are happening and
success is manifesting so unbelievably fast…I am humbled
that I was given such a gift. Thank you, Stephane, thank
you, Stephane, thank you Stephane. (and obviously thank
you, God) Namaste.”

–Dan S.

“I am ten articles into Womanize. Most of that time has
been spent breaking down the denial. I’m coming to terms
with how the lack of love in my life truly hurts.

So far I have noticed that the world is reacting to me
differently and I am reacting to the world differently.
From this place, I find it easier to love the craziness
of humanity. Interactions with strangers in shops is
happening easily and spontaneously of their own. It
certainly isn’t my doing. Pretty much every shop assistant
I’ve been served by has engaged me in conversations about
their lives. I live in England where friendly customer
service is definitely not the norm, so this is a big
breakthrough indeed. Also, the bank manager I spoke to
yesterday pretty much offered me a job out of the blue!”

–Mark S., UK (Forum member)

“As the days go by and I see my own progress, I start to
see this wonderful piece of art more as an education in
life itself. I’ve learned so many things in the last week,
it’s hard to believe this is possible. IN A WEEK! Things
that after years of reading and learning I wasn’t able to
deal with now just handle themselves. It is filling a hole
in my heart that has been there so long I can’t remember.

I’m learning stuff I never knew existed, and it’s only been
a week. Eye-opening to the outmost extrem. I thank God for
your dedication to all this, and for the love for your
students. Thank you for a roadmap out of hell.”

–Martin (Forum member)

“My life is changing before my very eyes. I was in a rut
where I could barely do cold approaches. Now I often find
that NOT approaching the women, isnt even an option. I’ve
approached more women in the past 3 weeks (since I started
Womanize) than I had done in maybe the past 3 years. It’s
amazing man! Its like, who is this person who keeps
approaching all these cute women? It doesn’t even feel like
it’s me. I’m basically standing there, and I just watch as
the body starts moving towards her – automatically. God
bless you man, I still got lots to work on, but now I know
I’m gonna get there. You’ve changed my life.”

–Mark R. (Forum member)

“I feel like Stephane has looked in to my head, figured out
exactly what I need to hear about Love and Women, and typed
it out in the Womanize newsletters. I am left wide-eyed
after each one, all excited to contemplate/put in to
practice what I just read!”

–Seth R. (Forum member)

“I noticed last weekend that you can just look (with “witness-gaze
eye-contact”) at a girl while she is the center of attention for a
large group of guys, and she’ll actually leave 7 dudes to
come talk to YOU! This stuff is amazing.”

-Wes (Forum member)

Questions?

Simple Steps

Stephane — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 19:16:54 +0000

***READER QUESTION***

Dear Stephane,

What, in your opinion, are the fundamentals for living a
truly wondrous life? Looking back on your life, what has
helped you through the more difficult times? What is the
difference between those who lead a great life versus those
who do not?

>>>COMMENTS:

Perhaps the very first key to a wondrous life is to admit
that the Source of your Life comes from Divinity and not the
ego/mind, nor does the Source of Life come from an
intellectualized ‘big bang’ theory/opinion or some kind of
random, accidental event. The Source of your Life comes from
Divinity; you are a child of God and therefore truly Divine;
Life comes from Life.

This is the very first key to a Happy, Joyful Life for it leads to
fundamental Integrity, as well as a sense of inner security
and accountability.

Perhaps the second key to living an incredibly rich and
fruitful life is to admit that there are indeed people on
this planet whom are more evolved than you are. In some
cases, there have been human beings who have reached such an
incredibly high state of evolution within themselves that it
is literally not even possible to imagine, via the human
intellect, just how evolved they truly are. In some cases,
even the term Lord is appropriate, such as in the cases of
Buddha, Krishna, and of course, Jesus Christ.

These are what I feel, at this juncture in my life, are the
two most important keys to life. One, to simply admit that,
“I have no idea where I came from, I have no memory of my
beginning, nor do I have any idea where I’m going.
Therefore, I did not create myself, clearly, but I have been
Created. Life comes from Life.” And two, simply admit
that there are those more evolved than yourself and seek
them out; relinquish your opinions, and listen to what
they have to say. Although people do love to read, rare are
those who truly listen.

Now, the problem with the “God-word” is that it has been
utterly distorted, so much so, that the depictions of God in
the Old Testament are actually somewhat demonic. God
supposedly suffers from psychological disorders (including
jealousy, hatred, and revenge). Although, over 2000 years
ago, Jesus Christ said that God is Love, humans still cling
to their Old Testament. That we are “slow in the head”
doesn’t even begin to describe just how ignorant we truly
are.

The simple act of admitting, “I, of myself, am ignorant”
does not lead to humiliation but to Humility. The human mind
is ill-equipped to discern ‘truth’ from ‘non-truth’ and
even, in many cases, it cannot even discern the very basics
such as being able to tell the ‘good’ from the ‘extremely
rotten’. Thus, in the willingness to admit, “I, of myself,
don’t know much about anything”, it takes one through the
door to Integrity and this is when the true search begins.

Human life is excruciatingly difficult and horribly painful.

That humans even manage to live through the first 20 years
of life without jumping off a bridge or at least getting
hooked on drugs to commit ‘passive suicide’ is enormously
impressive.

After many years of intense devotion to ‘truth-seeking’
(often to the point of tears and frustration and personal
anguish and despair that have reached levels of unnameable
intensities) looking back at all I have lived through, as
well as observing the hardships of other humans whose lives
have possibly been over 100,000 times more difficult than my
own life… that human beings are actually capable of living
through even one single human lifetime impresses me, shocks
me, and places me in a state of Awe that is resulting in
tears as I write these words.

Human life is horrendously difficult, and the simple fact
that people are actually attempting to live out their lives
totally alone and without the awareness of the Presence of
God in their lives… To not know the basic truth that
Divinity is the Source of your own Existence… to not even
have this very basic truth to be able to count on… and to
continue ‘plowing forth’ day after day in a world filled with
dangers, traps, chaos, war, lies, criminality, poverty,
disease, torture, and… the amount of suffering in this
world is so astronomical that as I wrote these last few
words I needed to step outside, wipe off my tears and smoke
a cigarette!!

That people actually try to live out their lives alone and
without prayer, contemplation, meditation, and the constant
re-reading of spiritual texts to remind them each and every
single day of their lives that they come from Divinity…
one can’t help but feel enormeous compassion for people.

Although religionism is a good start, unless it matures into
spirituality, a truly blissful and happy life is not likely.

It is one thing to hold a belief/opinion of God in mind, but
it is quite another to acknowledge that God is the Source of
your Life and is therefore Within you. Jesus Christ said,
“The Kingdom of Heaven is within you”; He did not say that
Heaven is ‘out there’ somewhere up in the clouds or in
some other time or place. So this is probably the main key
difference between religionism and true spirituality, as far
as I know. Religion tends to see God as an ‘out there’
human-like parent, while Spirituality recognizes God is
‘in here’ as consciousness itself. Spirituality sees Life,
Love, Consciousness, Awareness, and God as all one and
the same thing.

Perhaps every man would be very fortunate to ask himself:
“While lying on my (rapidly approaching) death bed, of what
good will be my opinions?” When seen for what they are,
opinions are inherently worthless. Therefore, to simply
acknowledge that there are some Beings on this planet who
have evolved themselves to such a degree that it is not even
possible for us to comprehend them intellectually… is a
very good place to start. To hear that there is such a thing
as Truth is already a great Blessing, for many have not even
heard of such a thing.

To find an appropriate teacher is likely the greatest
Blessing of all, because a teacher has traversed through the
many pathways and pitfalls and can tell you where the
landmines are. In my lifetime, the greatest Blessing of all
came on the day when I discovered my teacher, and since
then, I have married a good woman and together we have
practiced surrendering to our teacher’s wisdom (by letting
go of our own opinions) a little more each day, as best we
can. The rewards have been multitudinous and in some cases
what the world calls ‘miraculous’.

There are many great teachers available, and some of them
are appropriate at certain times in your life, yet won’t
likely be very appropriate later on. Every human being is a
teacher to the lesser-evolved humans, and a student to the
humans which are more highly-evolved.

There is an old adage: “Teach only Love.”

Therefore, once you’ve even heard that there is such a
thing as Love, if you can find someone who is even slightly
more advanced than you are and they teach Love, do not throw
away the opportunity or waste any time. To have even heard
of Love is already a profound Gift from God that, when seen
for what it is, is your Divine ‘inner calling’.

Love is the Source of your Life; the greater your degree of
awareness and understanding of this simple spiritual fact,
the greater your life will become.

A great place to start discovering Higher Awareness right
here and right now (and actually quite rapidly), is to make
the decision to stop with the inner talking, commenting,
editorializing, and useless babbling within your mind.

Although this may be difficult in the beginning due to the
addiction of inner rambling and the pleasure derived from it,
it very rapidly leads one to the discovery of the Presence
of God within. Bliss-Ecstasy-Joy states will be almost
continuous, as all doubt progressively dissolves in due
time. Just be quiet and the rest will come to you.

Many Blessings,

Stephane Hemon

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Judgmentalism Versus Discernment

Stephane — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 01:00:54 +0000

***POPULAR QUESTION***

I have Cracking The Male/Female Code Volume One and am
starting to get good at seeing the ego-based patterns in
people; detecting ‘energy vampires’ and people who are not
trustworthy, not fundamentally honest and integrous.

This makes me worry that I am becoming judgmental.

>>>COMMENTS:

Discernment and judging are decidedly not the same thing. To
know that a certain chemical is poisonous does not mean one
has to attack or vilify it, but simply avoid it via the
wisdom of caution. Similarly, a lion will gladly kill and
eat you; this does not mean one needs to judge and condemn
all lions as “evil.” A lion is simply being what it is.

Discernment is clinically-detached and has compassion.
(Compassion is the refusal to suffer based on incorrect
notions, limiting beliefs, fallacious ideologies, and
dualistic perception.)

Discernment does not condemn others, people, places, things,
etc. — it simply avoids them out of humility and the
respect for one’s life.

If there is a crack in the sidewalk or a hole in the ground,
discernment simply walks around the hole, while judgment
yells at the hole and tries to get it to become a ‘non-hole’.

Discernment accepts others as they are, while judgment
rejects, resists, condemns, hates, and seeks revenge.
(Judgment wants to “win”, be “right”, and gain “good
feelings” in the process.)

Discernment simply Witnesses and Observes quietly, standing
back to silently appreciate the beauty; it refrains from
getting over-involved in things or with people on a ’solar
plexus’ or emotionalized level.

Discernment is inclusive of the Totality of All That Is,
while judgment tries to exclude.

Discernment accepts that the infinite field of
consciousness/awareness loves everyone equally, for
consciousness and love are one and the same thing; judgment
holds onto and clings to the kindergarten notion that
unconditional love is “not fair.”

Discernment can observe the ego’s in others and be thankful
that one is being shown the true nature of one’s own ego.
Judgment represses one’s own ego, pretends that it isn’t
the same as the ego of others, goes into denial about it,
and then projects itself out onto others.

Judgment arises out of the guilt and shame of having
an ego.

It believes the ego/mind/personality/intellect and
associated animal-instinctual drives are ‘the me’ and
therefore personal. It then condemns itself and others,
using labels such as “sin”, “evil”, “wrong”, or “immoral.”

Discernment simply Witnesses the collective animal ego from
Compassionate understanding, rather than condemnation or
guilt. As guilt dissolves, there is no more need to project
one’s “dark side” out onto the world or to try to change
the world “out there” because, when seen for what the
ego/mind really is, the world itself is really “in here”
(i.e., perception).

“There is no need to change the world, for the world you
see does not even exist.”

–Ramana Maharshi

“Judgment is Mine, sayeth the Lord.”

–Scripture

“To choose chocolate does not mean one must then hate and
attack vanilla.”

–David R. Hawkins

“It isn’t fair that God loves everybody equally!”

–The Human Ego/Mind

Discernment is one thing; judgment is quite another. The way
to get off judgmentalism is to simply accept that your own
ego/mind is inherently ‘animalistic’ and therefore greedy,
lustful, paranoid, prideful, and ignorant. By accepting the
downside of the ego and refusing to identify with it as
‘the me’, it then becomes like a cute (and highly
entertaining) pet.

Many Blessings,

Stephane Hemon

Past Life Karma

Stephane — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 00:56:55 +0000

***READER QUESTION***

When my girl and I first met, both of us instantly
“recognized” the other, and based how our relationship
developed from there on, I am pretty sure we have some past
life connection.

Now I have heard that in these cases when people meet and
feel like they belong together, it may be because they have
some past life bad karma between them, that family members
or intense relationships usually hold some issues to be
straightened out, or it might just be the case of “soul
mates” who live toghether from life to life.

I have an issue with jealousy. Her past relationship which
bothers me to no end. Let it be said that she is the most
integrous woman I have met, honest and truthful, so I
believe that there seems to be no reason for my “intuitive
jealousy” (she is not connected to this guy any more in any
way), but this relationship still bothers me. For no
apparent reason.

When she told me about it, I felt betrayed and felt like I
had been harmed in this, even though both of these people
were in no way connected to me at the time, totally unknown
to me, and I have no reason to feel like this.. I got the
feeling that the guy might have done something bad me in my
previous lives (got me killed or jailed or something, so he
could live together with my girl — that is the feeling I
got from that. And I must say that my intuition works quite
well. I have found out before that if something bothers me
for no apparent reason that usually there is some reason
behind that.

Then I had this dream where her previous boyfriend opened a
door and stood in the doorway of and old log farmhouse and
there he said with a ironical smirk and tone something like
– “At the present you don’t much appreciate the help of the
swedes but in 1642; or 48 or 24 (I don’t remember the exact
dates) you had no qualms about it.” I looked it up and in
that period in Estonia began “the Swedish period” – the
swedes invaded. So in my dream, the guy named the date of
which I had on idea.

Combining this all, how we met, my intuitions, dreams and
feelings about it, I am quite sure there is definitely some
heavy karmic issue happening here with me and my girl and
possibly this other guy.

Rationally, looking at it, I am acting like a total psycho
about it, as there is no logical or apparent reason for my
jealousy, but even before I knew this other guys connection
with her, I didn’t like the guy; I remember, the first time
I heard of his existence, not knowing anything about his
past, I shook my fist and said I hated these sorts of guys.

Now I am trying to find out about previous lives and that is
why I am posting this question about good and bad past
lifetime karma, maybe you have some clues to offer me?

>>>COMMENTS:

The mind loves to infer meaning and significance where there
is none to be found. In fact, nothing means anything.

I will repeat:

Nothing means anything.

This discovery results in a huge sigh of relief.

All inference of meaning is a projection from the ego/mind.
It is a fantasy, an illusion, a fallacy.

Your jealousy simply means that you’re in a state of
jealousy. Nothing more. To add more meaning to this is to
take yourself far away from Reality and into suffering,
confusion, and deeper into the house of mirrors of the
mind.

A thing is its own meaning and significance. To be a dog
means “to be a dog.” To be fearful means that you’re fearful.
The meaning of a chair is the chair itself — nothing more.

Anything more than this creates illusion, and illusion leads
to confusion & needless suffering.

PAST LIFE KARMA

While research into past lives can be informative and
entertaining, it is often a narcissistic self-indulgence. It
becomes all about ‘me’ and ‘my’ past lives, which then
become glamorized, special, and important.

The whole thing can be seen as a distraction from The
Eternal Now.

If you want to know about your past lives, just watch the
History Channel. Witness and Observe the collective ego of
mankind doing what it does; your ego is the same ego. This
is pretty much all that’s needed to know about “past
lives.” Or, watch the Daily News. It is your own ego that
is “out there”, doing what the ego does.

What does it all mean?

Nothing

It’s just a bunch of ego’s doing what ego’s are supposed
to be doing — maiming, killing, slaughtering, dramatizing,
controlling, and f*cking with one another. The ego-animal
brains and bodies are simply doing what ego-animal brains
and bodies do. And none of it “means” something else.

If you watch the History Channel or the Daily News, it is
all the same. The past, present, and future are simply
arbitrarily selected mental focal points of perception, and
not Reality.

In actuality, there is no ‘Now’, there is only what can be
usefully described as Eternal Foreverness.

JEALOUSY AND PARANOIA

The ego/mind is jealous and paranoid by design.

It wants to discover the “cause” of your jealousy, but there
is no “cause” of jealousy in the same way that there is no
“cause” of gravity.

Jealousy simply is.

Your jealousy could be an intuition that someone you love is
not ‘playing with a full deck of cards’ and you might want
to keep a watchful eye on them. Or, it could be paranoia
based on projections of your own lust. (Perhaps it is a
little of both.)

The solution won’t likely be found in past lives. Whatever
happened in 1602 can stay in 1602; perhaps the best part of
past lives is that they are over. If you watch the History
Channel, you’ll be glad history is over.

Past lives to not “cause” the issues you experience in this
life, just as childhood memories do not “cause” the personality
that exists today.

Jealousy is an energy field of consciousness, and one either
identifies with that field, or learns to rise above and beyond it,
so to speak.

AVOID “NEW AGE”

Watch out for ‘New Age’ pseudo-spirituality. It will have you
obsessing over past lives, wanting psychic readings,
listening to ‘channellers’ and trying to speak with angels.

It will have you worried about the alignment of the planets;
it will have you placing crystals all over your house so that
“dark entities” won’t come and “drain” you. It is all a
childish diversion and a distraction from doing real spiritual
work and enjoying the resulting true healing, which can only
take place right Now.

THE ‘NOW’

Although there is no “Now”, it is a simple word that can
be useful to the human mind in assisting it to locate the
Eternal Forever. The Now is like a doorway into Timelessness,
if you will.

So how does one find, or locate, The Now and surrender to it,
rather than to the often-annoying ego/mind and incessant
thinkingness?

Spiritual aspirants all over the world are squinting their
eyes and squirming to find it; they struggle and try to
force it to happen.

So how do you do it? Well, it comes about rather easily
and effortlessly in learning the art of Witnessing:

http://www.ideagasms.net/into-the-field-of-consciousness/

Jealousy, paranoia, and other “problems” can simply be
Witnessed. Another way of saying this is when you learn to
love the “unlovable”, you’ll heal it. Thanks for your
question.

Many Blessings,

Stephane Hemon

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Third-Eye Meditation

Stephane — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 03:13:21 +0000

‘The Silent Witness’ Meditation

“Into the Field of Consciousness…”

In this “hypnotic” meditation, Stephane Hemon carefully, gently, and powerfully guides his students — step by step — beyond the mind and directly into the ‘Third-Eye’ or ‘Silent Witness’ aspect of Infinite Field of Consciousness/Awareness. It is likely that the listener will want to re-absorb to these recordings again and again as a guide out of stress, worry, heartbreak, guilt, pain, and suffering in all of its various forms…

“The Eternal Silent Witnessingness of the Third-Eye”

A healing meditation by Stephane Hemon.

Weaving together powerful metaphors, analogies, hypnotic language patterns, humor, and a deep understanding of how to bypass the human ‘ego’ so as to access the exact split-second moment of the Eternal Now, this unique, one-of-a-kind recording is presented from a powerful field of context and experience that can result in the listener feeling deeply healed just by listening to, and following along with, the simple steps outlined herein.

What is ‘The Witness’?

One does not experience their body directly, but experiences the sensations of the body, indirectly. These sensations report information to the mind. Thus, the body is experienced, and contained within, one’s mind.

The mind, in turn, reports information to the Witnessing of the mind.

Although the average person naively assumes that they are the mind or their thoughts, one could not be conscious of one’s thoughts if one were those thoughts. (If one was their thoughts, perhaps one would likely already be dead. For example, one can think about falling off a bridge, yet one is still very alive. Who is Watching the thoughts? Is it a ‘who’ that Witnesses, or is it a ‘what’?

“The Body-Mind is Within Me!”

In Witnessing the body-mind, one develops a profound sense of ‘detachment’, and this soon evolves into ‘unattachment’. It is a profound paradigm shift of such enormeous power that soon precludes suffering, regardless of what is ‘going on’ with the body or mind.

The technique of Witnessing can be applied towards any and all human suffering, including:

Emotions, such as worry, regret, sadness, anxiety, and fear
Incessant ‘thinkingness’ or repetitive, annoying thoughts
Physical pain and illness (Note: Although this may or may not heal a particular illness, as one advances one’s level of consciousness via the Witnessing technique, they may reach such a high state of awareness that physical death then becomes a total non-issue.)
Problem-solving, making major critical life decisions, etc.
Love, dating, relationships, etc.
Attitude and personality, false-pride/shame, shyness, communication skills, etc.
Habits and addictions
Etc.

“Merging With The Silent Witness”

Although the spiritual practice of Witnessing is well-known and has been taught by Enlightened mystics for thousands of years, very few people “get it” and are able to do it successfully on their own. Thus, Stephane Hemon has created a crystal clear, step-by-step, gentle, easy to follow, guided “hypnotic” meditation which is so enjoyable to listen to — and so powerfully healing — that the listener will likely wish to re-listen to this recording again and again, both as a “quick fix” for healing stress, and as a “training guide” for mastering their own body-mind (or “meat puppet” as Stephane humorously calls it) over the long-term.

This meditation-training is relatively content-free. Deliberately, its main focus is on context, rather than on any specific human problems. Thus, it can be referred to again and again whenever specific issues arise in one’s life, ranging from relationships to career worries to stress and health issues, and much more.

“Everyone knows that meditation and living in ‘The Eternal Now’ is the way out of suffering, however, the mind is filled with chatter and the body is filled with stress. Reaching Bliss is relatively easy when you know how, but maintaining Bliss at all times and in all situations without exception is a different story! Therefore, I’ve created a guided “hypnotic” audio for this purpose. I found that in guiding students into Bliss states, I myself enter deep Bliss along with them. Whenever Bliss fades and stress recurs, or whenever life knocks me out of meditative states, you see, I wanted to have some recordings that I, myself, could listen to…”

–Stephane Hemon

Those new to spirituality will enjoy the simplicity and powerful directness; intermediate levels will appreciate the deep clarifications for easily maintaining ‘Now’ states, and advanced seekers of Enlightenment will Love this recording for escaping from those well-known ‘dark night of the soul’ experiences as well as significantly speeding up their progress toward the state of ‘no mind’ (i.e., a fully quiet and peaceful mind which is completely thoughtless).

The suggestion is to kick back, relax, and listen along as Stephane Hemon guides two of his students outside of their body, outside of their mind, and directly into the field of witnessing-consciousness-bliss. As the listener follows along, the ability to Witness is strengthened just by listening; genuine healing and bliss states are likely to occur spontaneously of their own.

“The Eternal Silent Witnessingness
of the Third-Eye”

A guided healing meditation by Stephane Hemon.

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“Beyond Polarity: Advanced Spiritual Discernment”

Stephane — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 03:10:31 +0000

Volume Six

Beyond Polarity: Deep, Heart-Centered Alignment and Advanced Spiritual Discernment in Dating and Relationships.

Approximately 16.5 hours of audio and 3.5 hours of video, Stephane Hemon provides instructional guidance in several key areas that are pertinent in ‘pickup’, dating, relationships, success in the world, and rapid spiritual advancement.

A few key points discussed in the videos include:

‘Zen-Surrendering’ Attraction, Fear, and Desire, revisited;
Going to clubs – how to pickup women, step-by-step;
Pickup techniques aren’t ‘bad’ nor are they ‘evil’;
A hilarious and devastatingly effective way of handling other people’s criticisms or insults toward you;
How to “clean your karma” after social blunders, or even large mistakes;
Pickup & Dating: The value of “lightning quick” escalation, and how to hold this in mind in such a way that it can then be easily done in the real world;
Massively Important: How, and Where, to sit with each other on dates (99% of guys actually miss this);
What to do when women seem distant, aloof, or uncomfortable (and again, 99% of men actually miss this);
The fear that you won’t be interesting or clever enough to hold her attention;
The number one most devastatingly effective “attraction technique” Stephane knows of (most men screw this up — if only they knew!);
How to handle your own attraction (99% of guys seem to get this one backwards);
An easy way to enter a deep meditative state AND keep it up while you’re talking to people (this one is so easy a child could do it, and so effective that it leads to a giant leap in your level of consciousness/awareness and will take you ALL the way to reaching true Unconditional Love);
How to use your eyes to get her to feel as though she MUST talk more (and work hard to keep you interested);
How to ‘hook’ women into the conversation without using words or even talking about anything clever at all;
The highest way to handle rude, bitchy women without ‘losing face’;
Not ready to start approaching women yet? Practice this easy ‘zen focusing’ meditative technique while you are walking down the street, and your approach fears will soon dissolve automatically (this one can take you all the way to unconditional love and even higher). This can be used along with the ‘zen surrender’ technique, as they will both reinforce each other;
Premature Ejaculation, solutions for;
The mind structures of Lust;
How to ‘disappear’ the ego’s commitment phobia or ‘grass is greener’ proclivity;
On transcending the ‘inner animal’ (i.e., Freud’s ‘Id’);
Why ‘zen-surrendering’ emotions won’t work quickly unless you “get” the Silent Witnessing also, and how to easily do this;
Critical Point Analysis: A surprising way to disappear approach anxiety, desire, and worry in just a few minutes (and forever);
The essence of jealousy, envy, possessiveness;
How to stop feeling like an annoyance or burden when you approach women, or being ashamed of your ‘manly’ desires;
“I feel I’m superior (or inferior) to some women and I know it’s wrong” (how to heal this natural tendency);
How to access an instant feeling of intense gratitude (without having to fake it);
What it means when girls don’t mind your watching porn;
How to use your eyes to be able to quickly discern her essence and intentions (e.g., “Is she honest/integrous?”)
We don’t survive “because of the ego”;
On personal love versus ‘Love with no object’;
How to truly “not care” about your woman’s sexual past;
Why control and degradation are such intense sexual turn-ons, and how to move beyond this programming;
The precise unconscious structure to arguments and conflicts;
How couple’s can fully transcend ALL arguments and conflicts now and forever (very advanced and lengthy discussion);
How to transcend lust, yet still enjoy “animalistic” lovemaking (this seems like a contradiction but it truly isn’t);
Yin/Yang Polarity is ego-based and therefore very limiting; “Why is it so?”;
Healing the common “I used to be fat” residual self-image and shame;
Transcending gluttony and over-consumption by resetting the ‘appestat’ (for weight loss);
Transcending the mind’s tendency to want to fantasize about or have romantic ‘crushes’ on people;
Bypassing the mind altogether, simple zen meditation techniques;
The karmic “price” we pay for any and all deviations away from pure love and pure innocence;
The (often overlooked) importance of equal looks, equal personality, and equal levels of consciousness in relationships;
“Why do women often cling to abusive men?” (advanced explanations);
Resolving the victim/perpetrator paradigm;
A breakdown of how to break up with someone, while remaining “clean” on a karmic (i.e., consequences and accountability) level;
How to contextualize pickup and dating so that it serves to undo the dominance of the ego and brings about spiritual evolution;
Be Forewarned: Why you should keep a watchful eye on flirting, seduction, and charm;
How to know — right away — if she wants you or not (how to tell if her attraction is genuine, etc.);
Disappearing shame, guilt, grief, and depression;
“It has been over one year, and I am STILL thinking about my ex!”;
A surprising way to quickly heal guilt and regret;
God is not a person — how to really, really “get” this;
“Greta, what does unconditional love feel like experientially?” (a discussion);
Etc (i.e., commentaries on dozens of emails, stories, and questions).

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Additionally, a few key points discussed in the audios include:

The difference between spiritual devotion and spiritual ambition;
“How will I know when I am doing enough spiritual work?”;
The purpose of ‘Dark nights of the soul’ and how to use them most efficiently as a ‘springboard’ when they occur;
How to make up for a stupid mistake you have made with a girl you really like – asking for forgiveness in a humorous, humble, and devastatingly effective way;
Humility versus humiliation; How to heal shame painlessly and quickly;
A surprisingly simple technique which allows you to quickly find the right girl for you;
Issues in a new relationship: how to heal the male ego right in front of your girlfriend;
What is mama/ho complex, why Stephane says it is a core inner conflict and how to solve this conflict fast;
Why is it better to suffer quietly (alone) about some relationship issues;
What it means when you date someone who is not on your level;
Why Stephane sometimes uses sharp language (i.e., “whore”) etc.;
How ego desire blinds you (i.e., “hunger for pussy”) and keeps you in bondage, neediness, and suffering;
“You gotta be shameless about the meaningful things that you want and throw them away when they flake on you”; dealing with women swiftly, painlessly;
Through spiritual discernment you can see the energy behind people’s kindness; how to tell if someone’s kindness is being faked;
Why feeling guilty about your male ego doesn’t get you anywhere; how to put an end to this self-defeating circuitous trap;
Fear in relationships; How to consciously Witness fear until it dissolves;
Levels of consciousness and how they relate to each other in relationships;
The simplest pick up line EVER!;
A simple method for developing true discernment;
What is perception? How it it different from Spiritual Vision?;
How to see the beauty when the world is falling apart around you?;
Why the fallen spiritual ‘gurus’ have actually fallen?;
The purpose of spiritual discernment; Contrasting Love with non-Love;
“Why is Enlightenment so difficult?”;
How to make decisions based on your feelings and inner states;
Pleasure versus Happiness;
Advanced Relationship Dynamics;
Dating older women;
Smoking pot — how does it affect me, and how does it affect humans in different levels of consciousness; surrendering the cravings; techniques to quit;
What are “level of consciousness”?;
When you are lost in life direction/purpose, and how to gain independence from the family;
The differences in life’s three key paradigms: to have, to do, to be;
Freedom is a state of mind — how to be homeless and perfectly happy;
The only way to true happiness;
How to transcend worry — every situation is a perfect opportunity;
“The hamster doesn’t hang out with the dinosaur”; The dangers of mixing levels of consciousness;
How to gently start ’spiritualizing’ your life to get rid of stress, anxiety, and worry;
Useful techniques to remember valuable lessons we don’t want to forget;
Simple meditation practices to start your spiritual journey, as well as progress into highly advanced states;
How different music affect your energy body;
Re-contextualizing the past;
Things you can do to start of the day spiritually; how to gently spiritualize your life and what it really means to be free;
How to become spiritually advanced without coming off as weird or spooky;
“At first you do things out of balls, and then out of heart”;
Healing sexual abuse from the past and contextualizing it from a powerful field of context;
Why people won’t give up their deeply cherished ‘victimhood’;
What you need to realize to get out of feeling like a victim;
“Am I alive because I worry about my life?” Why fear is actually useless;
Negative thoughts versus positive thoughts; Cleaning up the mind quickly;
Transcending sympathy/denial;
As a loving, spiritual person, should I take care of starving children in Africa? Why are people born in Africa in poverty? How to let go of feeling guilty that you aren’t saving the world;
Karma and context as a way of understanding happenings in our lives and in general society;
Standing in integrity while running a business not easy;
‘My’ mission, ‘my’ purpose re-contextualized; do I need to have purpose, a special job, a mission in life?;
“I am sooo close but I still don’t have a girlfriend!”; Transcending the final barriers;
An advanced breakdown of approach anxiety with an advanced student;
Approaching women from the Unconditional Love level — what it looks and feels like;
Improving one’s ‘pickup’ approaches through meditation;
A paradigm shift that must occur in order to find the right girl;
A breakdown of what is needed in order to find the right girl and the mistakes you’ll encounter on the way;
How to apply powerful meditation in your daily activities;
Various meditative techniques — a thorough breakdown;
Why passive-aggressive behavior is a great study of discernment;
Dealing with condescending, unsolicited advice;
Watch out for shy people; they can be dangerous;
Social butterfly versus one-on-one discussions;
Why sugar is bad for your health, and even your emotional health;
The End of Pain: the sheer value of discernment can bring tears of gratitude to one’s eyes;
What is ‘cause’?; “Nothing is causing anything!”;
A breakdown of an ex-relationship, with a (possibly) non-integrous girl; Why discernment instantly heals the pain of the past;
Amazing spiritual experiences followed by dry periods;
The power of fasting;
A useful technique to put an end to conflicts with others;
A powerful reframe for dissolving approach anxiety;
What is shame; and letting go of identifying with negative emotions;
The spiritual significance of choosing to ‘keep holy company’;
Dealing with depression on the spiritual path;
Feelings in the different chakras — how to deal with them and what they mean;
Physical signs of being on spiritual path — insomnia, no colds, etc.
Powerful techniques for quieting the mind (advanced);
Escaping the pleasure and pain “life seesaw”;
Slowly letting go of your childish addiction to pleasure;
Spiritual devotion;
Many powerful approaches to dealing with not feeling ‘grounded’ in the world;
Parent, child, adult — parts of the mind/ego; ‘training’ these parts to serve your goals in life;
The power of intention in healing your life;
Dealing with blockages in the chakras;
Why non-integrous people and energies are so destructive to your growth;
“The wisdom of caution”;
Things that stand out in an integrous woman;
How to find out if a person is integrous or not; advanced clues;
Why fasting is one good way of going about loosening the grip of the ego;
Why losing your reputation, friends, or belongings can be a true gift on your spiritual path; Loss is gain;
What is a soulmate?;
Involvement versus Alignment in dating and relationships, and how knowing this actually solves everything;
A powerful way of choosing an integrous girlfriend;
A healing technique for dealing with the fear of abandonment;
How understanding non-causality can help you transcend blockages in finding the right girl for you;
How to manage using every moment in your daily life to practice spiritual techniques;
Are past lives real?
“Powerletter” discussions;
Clarifications on the ‘zen surrendering’ technique for healing painful emotions;
Simple things that you can do speed up your spiritual process;
Common nervousness on a call with Stephane (Witnessing it dissolve);
The significance, and types, of crying;
Simple ways of transcending negative emotions via compassion;
A lengthy conversation about signs of non-integrity in people’s behavior, things you can do to practice discernment and sharpen your ‘third-eye’ for easily recognizing the non-integrous;
What ‘non-integrous’ really means; a breakdown;
Respecting your own level of consciousness;
Important factors that make a company, or a teacher, succeed in their field;
Figuring out the connection between career and spirituality;
What the journey to gaining spiritual discernment consists of;
Sociology’s ‘broken window principle’;
The meaning of triage and pre-emptive war;
Non-integrous presuppositions in people’s behavior explained;
Is prayer better that intending?
Why “watching the thoughts” is said to be one of the most powerful spiritual techniques, and how it quickly sets you free;
Going through breakup pains while applying spiritual guidelines (i.e., reviewing the mistakes that were made during a relationship);
Why knowing if people in your life are integrous or not is crucial for your emotional health;
“You are kind with others, are you kind with yourself as well?”; Kindness is often deeply misunderstood; how to apply true Kindness to find the way out of inner agony and hell;
Healing your personality type;
How to tame your ‘Id’;
Learning to make decisions that are for “the highest good”;
Animal (left) brain versus the Spirit; conflicts;
The meaning of ‘karma’ and its implications in life;
The sheer beauty (essence) of a struggling spiritual seeker;
Letting go of the non-integrous in your life and using our lifestyle to spiritualize our life;
“What is God?” (i.e., Context, or Allness);
Using stressful situations as a springboard to your spiritual growth;
How to make the key paradigm shift in dating that allows you to finally succeed;
What does an approach from the level of unconditional love look like — step by step;
The key differences between lust sex and love making;
Dissolving gluttony;
Dissolving food-related beliefs;
Powerful persuasion techniques for landing a job, etc.;
“Critical factor analysis” for removing the glamour, attraction and specialness of beautiful women to thereby feel neutral about them; How to feel absolutely detached around the “especially gorgeous” ones;
Why “thinking out loud” is the most powerful attraction tool; how to transcend the residuals of unconscious shame to finally be free to “think out loud” around attractive women;
Several examples of the “thinking out loud” technique, to help this approach to really ‘sink in’ deeply;
Deflating emotionalized reactivity to achieve a powerful and genuinely aloof communication style;
“Critical point analysis” applied to the very core of the ego;
How to quickly realize that pickup is “stupidly easy”;
Quick tips for knowing if she has integrity;
How to contextualize “animal sex”, so that it is integrous, loving, and easily accepted;
How to contextualize all sexuality so that it is loving and not only lust-based;
Lightening-quick pickup and escalation tools;
How to ‘save face’ at all times and in all situations without exception; social mistakes then become a springboard;
How to instantly recover from pickup mistakes and avoid shame;
Why searching for Love and not for ‘the one’ brings you closer to your goal;
Becoming Love versus ‘falling in love’;
How to make difficult life decisions in a smooth and stress-free way;
Factors that constitute our decisions;
A simple technique of letting go of guilt over ‘bad’ decisions we have made;
Getting over approval and validation seeking;
Various challenges to be expected on the spiritual path;
Humor as a powerful tool of re-contextualizing life;
Going over the negative internet dating advice that led to losing contact with the field of Inner Bliss and Joy;
Getting out of hell of dating;
Dealing with one’s regrets in dating that led to guilt, shame, depression, and confusion;
The power of selfless service or karma yoga;
Fixing dating mistakes as they arise;
Giving up pleasure for achieving true happiness/stillness;
Powerful affirmations to let go of inner resistance;
What may happen after a significant rise in consciousness; how to deal with the ‘ego aftermath’;
Acausality/Synchronicity in dating, relationships, and solving inner conflicts and hesitations;
Managing the cycles of high states and ‘falls from grace’; minimize the pain;
Etc (i.e., fourteen phone consultations with Stephane Hemon).

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The content in these recordings is comical, enlightening, down-to-earth, and quite advanced. Many students who participated in this program have reported major leaps in consciousness just by understanding the simple re-contextualizations or “reframes” provided.

The wisdom is presented from a powerful field of context and is derived from massive life experience, as well as the timeless teachings as taught by a variety of Enlightened mystics.

These recordings are intended for the spiritually-oriented
student of Unconditional Love.

This program is hereby dedicated to the absolute perfection
of dating, sexuality, and deeply satisfying relationships.

Cracking The Male/Female Code, Volume Six:

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