Comments on: “Energy Vampires” Women To Avoid (Or Train) http://www.ideagasms.net/energy-vampires-women-to-avoid-or-train/ Free heart-centered advice about ways to improve a relationship, dating without drama, squirting female ejaculation squirting orgasms, how to pick up a girl, opening your heart meditation, and much more! Thu, 28 Aug 2008 20:35:08 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Stache http://www.ideagasms.net/energy-vampires-women-to-avoid-or-train/#comment-1523 Stache Tue, 22 Jul 2008 20:44:50 +0000 http://www.ideagasms.net/energy-vampires-women-to-avoid-or-train/#comment-1523 Excellent article! I've had a fair amount of experience unfortunately, with these sorts. I distinguish between energy Leaches and energy Vampires. Leaches are just chronically lonely or inadequate. They're draining to be around, but not all of then are bad people. They may just be affection starved. If you're stong enough to be with them you csan help & encourage them, but if you feel drained, it's ok to politely keep your distance. They may even get the hint and work on themselves. Real Energy Vampires tend to be charismatic. They have ways to get thier "victims" to keep coming back for more. Everybody knows a cocktease who lives off the attention they get, and offer only enough of themselves to keep the guy coming back, or even thinking that there's a real future. When the guy tries to get away from the girl, she'll amp up her attentions to keep him hanging on, but he gets no closer. It can bev thre basis of codependancy. Some of these energy Vamps are really psychopaths and can be very destructive, so you have to protect yourself. Excellent article! I’ve had a fair amount of experience unfortunately, with these sorts. I distinguish between energy Leaches and energy Vampires. Leaches are just chronically lonely or inadequate. They’re draining to be around, but not all of then are bad people. They may just be affection starved. If you’re stong enough to be with them you csan help & encourage them, but if you feel drained, it’s ok to politely keep your distance. They may even get the hint and work on themselves.
Real Energy Vampires tend to be charismatic. They have ways to get thier “victims” to keep coming back for more. Everybody knows a cocktease who lives off the attention they get, and offer only enough of themselves to keep the guy coming back, or even thinking that there’s a real future. When the guy tries to get away from the girl, she’ll amp up her attentions to keep him hanging on, but he gets no closer. It can bev thre basis of codependancy. Some of these energy Vamps are really psychopaths and can be very destructive, so you have to protect yourself.

]]> By: Nick http://www.ideagasms.net/energy-vampires-women-to-avoid-or-train/#comment-1314 Nick Sat, 03 May 2008 02:53:41 +0000 http://www.ideagasms.net/energy-vampires-women-to-avoid-or-train/#comment-1314 Steph, thanks for the refresher on energy vampires. I recently have been spending a lot of time with someone and being drained, at this point (just the other day) I noticed that they were an interrogator. It's funny how so totally true all your examples are, the advice giving, the 'I'm just trying to help you', the 'You're too senstive', the subtle-put downs. It's such a great learning experience for me though. About 10% of the conversation is actual conversation 20% is me pointing out her interrogating, advice giving etc and how she tricks me into responding too her (this is all done playfully of course) and the other 70% is her laughing. They can't drain you if the can't TALK. That's the best thing I've learnt so far. Like you say, just love 'em. Thanks again man. Steph, thanks for the refresher on energy vampires. I recently have been spending a lot of time with someone and being drained, at this point (just the other day) I noticed that they were an interrogator. It’s funny how so totally true all your examples are, the advice giving, the ‘I’m just trying to help you’, the ‘You’re too senstive’, the subtle-put downs.

It’s such a great learning experience for me though. About 10% of the conversation is actual conversation 20% is me pointing out her interrogating, advice giving etc and how she tricks me into responding too her (this is all done playfully of course) and the other 70% is her laughing. They can’t drain you if the can’t TALK. That’s the best thing I’ve learnt so far. Like you say, just love ‘em. Thanks again man.

]]> By: Tuplad http://www.ideagasms.net/energy-vampires-women-to-avoid-or-train/#comment-1306 Tuplad Fri, 02 May 2008 17:17:32 +0000 http://www.ideagasms.net/energy-vampires-women-to-avoid-or-train/#comment-1306 An oldie, a goldie :D An oldie, a goldie :D

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