Stephane, I have a problem with this girl. She is not my girlfriend and she never will be, but she is a good friend of mine so I want to try to help her out. The problem is, she goes out to parties and she suck a lot of dick and after sucking a dude’s dick she “falls for him” and she wants to be with him but these guys don’t care about her they are only interested in getting some head. This constantly happens all the time and she knows it and it has gotten to the point that i can predict it with 100% accuracy. I tell her “don’t suck that dude’s dick you’re going to fall for him and you’ll want to be with him and after you make him cum he won’t give 2 shits about you” but she does it anyway and she falls for him and he wants nothing to do with her.
This is actually quite common - MANY, if not MOST women love to feel degraded and used. This, I’m guessing, is what gets your special friend off the most. One reason soooo many women love to feel this way is because it is a very basic, “caveman” level of Sexual Polarity.
There is nothing wrong with this “fetish”, Existence doesn’t judge her… so we don’t need to judge her for it, but someday soon she’s gonna get an STD. She already has “etheric dragon butter” (other guy’s energy downloaded into her to go along with… you know, gulp.)
As her friend, you might pick her up at home and bring her somewhere, I would say, “It’s a surprise” and then take her to see a real AIDS clinic… The reality of her lifestyle might sink in.
Then she might like to get a boyfriend who understands her fetish, and accepts her as she is. Through this acceptance, combined with a little massage & orgasm training, Chakras, etc. she will gradually heal, and if she is ready, finally blossom into a conscious woman.
Just be careful not to be the guy trying to “save her” and you’re Golden.
Blessings,
Stephane


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I can TOTALLY relate to this as I will often suck a guy off to feel those good ol’ degraded feelings.
I try to keep my heart out of it though. “Never fall in love Jason, never fall in love.”
You’re right again, Stephane.
I have come to believe that most women love that used and degraded feeling — but they won’t admit it unless they know their man can accept and handle it. It’s like the naughty girl inside most girls. They will only expose that if they know it will be accepted.
Finding a man who will embrace their naughty side is much more healthy than going from cock to cock on a nightly basis.