Okay, so I plan to start talking more and more about Circle Dynamics, and the girls are even gonna have their own separate mailing list and newsletter.

Stand back as they brainwash your bitches, so you don’t have to.

Anyway, we’re looking forward to our third girl’s arrival, probably in about 2-3 weeks, and I’ve been doing quite a bit of thinking. (More about this girl later, I have a huge introduction post already pre-written, that I plan to release to the public when she’s in the sky, in an airplane, on her way here.)

The first thought that comes to mind (other than, well you know!), is the idea that 3 girls is the *perfect* number, on a social, emotional, psychological level.

Here’s what I mean…

When you have two girls, and you turn over in bed and snuggle with one, the other girl can’t help but feel a little left out. She’s human! And jealousy is a built-in mechanism.

Two girls gets to be… almost annoying, because the guy tends to measure the amount of affection he gives, and try to strive for a balance. As in, “I love all my children equally”. This is on my mind… a little too much.

But with three girls, which is a total of four partners, at times when I’m being very intimate with only one of the girls, the other two can sort of break off together and form their own little couple.

My point is, when you have three girls, it’s perfect because at all times, someone can be intimate with someone. Of course, we spend much more time talking and cuddling and making love as a group of four. But face it, sometimes a girl just needs some “man time”, one on one.

Which brings me to another slight challenge that comes in up Circles…

When a “new girl” first joins the Circle, she is just human, and so it’s natural for her to feel like a newbie, like somewhat of an outsider, because she doesn’t have the strong connection with me that has been built over time. (I’m with Ghita almost four years now, and Greta almost one year.) So the new girl has a lot of catching up to do.

(Think back to a time when you first joined a new social group, and had to listen to these people talking about old memories. You can’t help but to feel a little left out.)

My “job” whenever there’s a new girl who joins, is to actually spend a little bit more time with her than I am spending with Ghita and Greta. Not just to get her “training” up to speed, but also… It’s important for us to go through the whole natural courtship phase, where we fall deeply in love.

You see, girls don’t “fall in love” with other GIRLS… at least, not in the same way, or at the same level of depth that they fall in love with guys, they don’t fall in love in that hot, steamy, electrifying yin/yang polarity kind of way. (Lesbians will argue with me on this, but I’m not into lesbians, and Circles are MUCH different.)

A woman just doesn’t push another woman’s “buttons” in the same way I can. It’s not just about my “game” or skill level, it’s basically just the way Mother Nature works. The girls in our Circle are not “butch”, they are not lesbians, they are just normal, sweet, giggly girls… they are women, who act… like WOMEN.

(I require girls to be yin/yang balanced, and once they achieve this balance, they then return to being primarily yin, especially when we’re being intimate.)

So back to the seeming fact that 3 girls are a more “perfect fit” than being with two. In this context where I will spend a little bit more quality, intimate time with the new girl, to go through the courtship “falling in love” natural phases, when I’m doing this with the SECOND girl, and it’s just poor Ghita feeling a little left out while I “go to work” on our new girlfriend…

But NOW it won’t be so bad, because while I’m “working” the third girl, Ghita and Greta have their own relationship and can keep each other company.

If it sounds like my life is a lot of work, well, I think that a life with only ONE girl is actually MORE work, because now you have to try to meet ALL of her needs, and you probably have to spend more time with her than I have to spend when there’s two or three girls involved. You see, they keep each other company while I’m working, or out with the guys, or meditating…

They are best friends, and spend most of their time either working for me, or reading together, taking ballet and dance lessons, learning Spanish, and basically while I’m working, I hear them giggling together in the background all day. Isn’t it amazing how women can seem to “talk about nothing” ENDLESSLY and giggle all day long together?

I remember there were times a couple years ago when, sadly, I just plain did not have time for Ghita. I made some business mistakes, this being my first business and all, and there were times when I had to spend 18 hours a day fixing those mistakes, as well as writing, recording, meditating, contemplating, managing people… Oh, there was almost no time for Ghita at all.

(Even when I would MAKE time for her, she felt me to be absent, because I had all of this “work stuff” in my head. I’m very fortunate to have such an understanding woman. When I told her, “Baby, I’m a workaholic NOW so that LATER ON I can retire in my thirties.” And she hasn’t nagged, thanks baby.)

So anyway, during those many “crunch time” periods when I was in workaholic mode, it’s too bad she didn’t have a girlfriend, you see? A second girl can provide her with intimacy and emotional support when I’m not around. It sure beats watching your girlfriend getting all dolled up to go clubbing with her friends… or whatever.

So anyway, now with THREE girls, it’s going to be really easy, not just with my workaholism, but it will feel very natural for me to just grab one of the girls and say, “Put this on, let’s go have dinner” and spend some quality, intimate time with her. So now it feels FINE to do that kind of stuff, because it’s not like I’m leaving only ONE girl behind.

So now Ghita still has a BABYSITTER!

(Sorry baby, I can’t help myself with those kinda cocky/funny jokes. You know me. I’m DYD brainwashed.)

Of course, we all prefer just being in a circle, all four of us, and that’s how we live most of the time. I’m just talking about those rare times when it feels like one of the girls needs some old-fashioned “yin/yang time”.

Women need to be re-seduced almost every day. This may sound like a CHORE when you have three girls, but actually, if you re-seduce only one girl, the other two will watch closely, and be re-seduced right along with you, with their natural empathy.

Anyway, the present Circle with just me, Ghita, and Greta is going GREAT, for those of you who have asked (thanks for asking by the way). I wouldn’t rock the boat by pulling a new girl into the Circle unless things were already *perfect*, or near-perfect.
An interesting thing that occurs, since we’ve been thinking of bringing this new (third girl) into our Circle, just having the INTENTION actually seems to create a context for any remaining challenges to come to the surface and be healed, released. Like the dormant, unconscious little “issues”… rising to the surface… like a cork in the sea.

This will also occur with “normal couples”. Just reading THIS newsletter, about Circle Dynamics… if you two begin to entertain the idea of a Circle in your minds and hearts, the intention alone will create a context in which every “dormant issue” or challenges you guys are experiencing will now tend to rise to the surface.

When I think about a human being, I tend to think of them in two parts:

1. The lower self (physicality, human body, mind, personality, even soul)

2. The Higher Self (the part of you that is purely spiritual, the Awareness aspect of “you”, your Consciousness, the part of you that was never “born” and never “dies”)

So when two lower selves (a couple) begin to entertain the idea of creating their own Circle, it seems to me that their Higher Selves will lead these two people into more challenging and difficult life situations, so that they begin to face those issues and transcend them.

I’m just thinking out loud, thanks for reading…

And, I have to go. Our friend Ariel is visiting us, and he’s a great photographer. So the girls and I are getting ready to do some photo shoots, in the beautiful land of Costa Rica.

We intend to (perhaps?) REPLACE the covers of the GTP and BGTP, with actual photos of ourselves re-enacting the humorous “spanks”.

We’ll show you guys the pics soon, and perhaps we’ll VOTE, and see what you guys all think, should we keep the old “cartoon” spank covers, or use the new spank covers?

And by the way, we got some OUTSTANDING ideas on how to handle the BGTP dilemma, and we’ll be announcing the winners soon. Thanks for the several thousand replies

Thanks again for reading, and see you in a day or two.

Blissings,
Stephane

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