***QUESTION***

Hi Stephane,

I am a 40yr old woman and the only orgasms I have ever had are clitoral stimulated ones that I have achieved myself.

I have never climaxed with a man..ever.. and to be honest the ones I have had are nothing special. I dont actualy cum I just get the rush up my body for a few seconds and RSI lol!!

My question is..do you think buying the dvd on the female orgasms will help me experiment as I am now on my own and would like to have a little more fun with myself? lol

I was a previously “owned submissive”.

Yours in Anticipation
-Woman

>>>MY COMMENTS:

It’s difficult to learn this alone because much of it requires:

1. Someone who can massage your entire body, with some very specific “pressure points” etc.

2. Your Heart should be VERY open as well, and Heart is MUCH more important and any “techniques”… I have two new girlfriends and I got them both having these mind-blowing orgasms with ZERO massage and techniques. It’s because I helped them to feel understood, accepted, cherished, healed etc. and once a woman’s Heart blossoms open, her orgasms will be incredible.

All of this is to say that you CAN learn this on your own, but it might be more difficult than if you had a loving partner to help you out.

I suggest you download our video anyway, and if you can’t get there on your own, eventually you will attract someone into your life and you can show them the goods and learn it together.

Next, I find it very nteresting that you just happened to mention that your were a previously “owned submissive”.

I’m not your shrink, but I’m going to take this to mean that you are hinting that you want my opinion about that as well.

The thing with extreme domination/submission is that it feels incredibly good on a biological, lust, animal level… hence the attraction to those energies. And, dom/sub dynamics are not to be judged or condemned, they are not good or bad… dom/sub dynamics simply ARE.

I too have played around with these energies, although I have not “owned” anyone but I have gone quite far with this type of stuff just to learn about it, and I have to tell you that just the thought of having a submissive woman tied to my floor and reduced to a thing turns me on too… I think this turns almost everybody on, because the human body and ego that we all have are basically just animals.

The problem with such extreme dom/sub dynamics is that while this feels good to our lower selves, it does NOT feel good to our Higher Selves. Playing around with extreme dom/sub energies can feel good in the moment, but it also causes the Heart Chakra to close… it closes us off to higher levels of bliss, joy, unconditional love, and so on… so it prevents you from accessing higher levels of consciousness that you need to be in if you want the kind of orgasms that we teach in our video.

When you mention that you were a previously “owned submissive”, AND you’ve never had satisfactory orgasms, AND I know that I can CONSISTENTLY give women INCREDIBLE orgasms by going through the HEART…

If you want the kind of orgasms that you see in our video, more than anything else you’ll need an Open Heart… The extreme dom/sub stuff is CUTE, but it won’t allow you passage, and in fact, it will actually PREVENT you from going higher and higher… Being somebody’s “slave” will only feed the ego and “human plumbing”, but it’s Heart that we need to access… TRANSCENDING duality is what gets us there… you need HIGHER consciousness, not LOWER consciousness.

If you are familliar with Chakras (levels of consciousness), dom/sub dynamics are played out ONLY in the lower three levels of consciousness, and Heart is the one that is next up the ladder, it’s the one you need to access.

(I realize I’ve just said it three times now, I’m pretty tired today

Blessings,

Stephane