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Hello Stephane,
I have a comment and a question. First the comment, I just wanted to agree with you. Trying to train my boyfriend (especially one who’s younger than me) is DEFINITELY a turnoff. I learned that the hard way, and now he and I are just friends. But I think the training might’ve worked a little :-]
Anyway, my question is: Is it a bad idea for me to get a girlfriend, and then invite a guy into our relationship? (I’m a chick).
I figured the answer would probably be yes, since I would kind of be playing a yang role, but supposing he jumped in comfortably and immediately assumed the leadship/yang role? Arghhh, I know that doesn’t sound like a lot of guys these days, but you never know.
Thanks for reading.
Peace love & soul,
Samantha
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Samantha…
First, let me just say this:
The world needs more cool, fun, adventurous girls like you.
Now, if you pick up a girl and make her your girlfriend, and then the two of you set out to find a cool guy who can handle himself in this context…
I have no idea how this dynamic would work, I’ve never seen it done before (with the exception of the Barbi.e Twins, perhaps?).
So let’s find out, shall we?
Go pick up cool, new girlfriend, and why not send us your JPEG’s, we can even send them out to my forum guys and BGTP students. I have a few guys in mind that might be a good match for you.
(I’m actually serious.)
Life is supposed to be outrageously fun and adventurous, so let’s play.
And you know what else?
I’m considering opening up a new section, an online “ideaGasms” Dating, Relationship, and Circle finder section…
Hmmm…..
Thanks for your email.
Sincerely,
Stephane
PS - I’m also sending out my prayers for the Olsen Twins to finally come to their senses, and ask me out on a date.
PPS – Ready to wake up every morning next to two or THREE beautiful, bisexual girls of your own, who only want to serve you? Then it’s time for you to get the Bisexual Girlfriend Training Program. It’s actually EASIER to live with multiple women than it is to have just one girlfriend.
http://www.ideagasms.net/the-bisexual-girlfriend-training-program/
These girls in NYC? I’d let ‘em show me around.
I would TOTALLY use an ideagasms date finder thingy.
maybe if the couple of girls are ready? the yang leader male will appear?!
lol
Hi!
the online “ideaGasms” Dating, Relationship, and Circle finder section is an awesome idea, I’ve thinked that we are all arround the world so a location map would be useful.
I did this.
http://maps.google.com/maps/ms?ie=UTF&msa=0&msid=
103562691498242892434.00044ccc5d384a129b561
Feel free to modify this and add yourselves. It would be great to know that I’m not the only IGer in my country.
PS: I think the config is fine, if not, let me know.
I honestly do not understand Steph’s response to this girl. Right off she admits that she gets into relationships that she knows won’t work (guy is younger than her and inexperienced.) Then goes on just a couple of sentence’s later to imply that guys as a whole are the problem. I feel if this had been a man some way that he was contributing to the problem would have immediately been zeroed in on, but instead Steph offers to set her up with what I can only assume are some of the “qualified” guys he knows. It always seemed to me that part of what this program was about is how %99 of people, women and men are basically clueless when it comes to relationships hence the term “girlfriend training” shouldn’t she have been corrected instead of offered a boyfriend?
I have thought about this a lot!
I have a wonderful boyfriend, but if we were to break up, I’m pretty sure I’d be single for… a very long time! haha. Now that he has trained me, I have completely different expectations from relationships… And I do NOT want to train a man! That’s a definite turnoff.
Even if I tried, I don’t think I would know how to go about training a guy. I’d probably just have to become a lesbian, haha
The maps a great idea, Fran. It would need to be of the whole Earth, and .. is there any way of putting like, a blue dot for each guy and a pink one for each girl?
So you’d have a little cluster in Costa Rica and anywhere else there was a circle, but guys on their own would show up as a blue dot, and girls as a pink, and so on.
Then we need some kind of link, like a code or just maybe their unique IG forum name would be the best marker, then people who are looking to form a circle could post their ad on the forum and people could look on the map and see who was close and unattached, etc.
This could work, and the more people come on the better.
I’ve just been exploring a big board called ’shybi.com’ on which lots of bi girls post, many have difficulty hooking up with each other, and guys aren’t allowed to post except on a little forum where they are supposed to already be a bi girls partner. All the same issues of jealousy etc come up, but the guys board is almost totally dead. So that’s one where some female IGer could register and post Steph’s ad, maybe?