Stephane says that arguing with a woman only trains her to lose respect for you. Along these lines, you don’t always need to “explain” your decisions and actions to her either. Sometimes women just pick fights BECAUSE they want to be “spanked”, or even yelled at, for a variety of reasons including the Pain-Body, Daddy Issues, Yin Testing, and just plain old wanting to feel horny for her man’s “Oak Tree” Yang energy.

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Stephane,
All I can say is you and Ghita have one hell of a relationship. I love her energy and if I could find a clone of her here in Cedar Rapids I’d do so in a heartbeat. My life, given school and work, is so out of balance I don’t know if I’ll have my life sorted out so I can be on my path. I AM on my path, one of my own choosing, one I set out for myself over 2 years ago the only thing is, going to nursing school full-time and working full-time doesn’t leave much me time, let alone together time with anyone else.
Anyway, just wanted to say kudos to you, you both seem really happy and I love your energy together, it lets me see what’s possible and I’ve love to be in your shoes someday.