*QUESTION*

My question is quite simple. You say it is like shopping.
But where to go shopping? OK, I know there are clubs,
parties, etc, but it has never been my living style. I
always kind of let, even waited, for life to happen. I know
there are lots of girls I could have fun with. There are two
things here. On one side, there is lust, urge in my body
that I hope to be able to overcome some day. On the other
side, I could even manifest Love with help of some of these
girls, in spite of not finding them so incredible as the
girl above. So… Are my “qualifying policies” extremely
strict? Should I loosen them? Or are these policies
something very valuable that should not be given up?

>COMMENTS:

“The qualifier” is something that is very complex and includes your beliefs
about women, your views of sexuality, your level of consciousness, your
projections and repressions, romantic fantasies and memories, and so on. All of
these factors, and more, hold together like a filter in your mind/perception
and affect your vision, hearing, data selection and storage, intuition, and
more. With all of this complexity, now you have to go out into the world and
meet women who have their own “qualifier” (mate selection) programming. With
all this incredible complexity, you see how it could take a lifetime of
reflection, meditation, and contemplation, along with education,
psychoanalysis, to really get a solid grasp on this.

Chances are, if you’re not enjoying a healthy and abundant dating life, your
‘qualifier’ has flaws and needs to be updated. Somehow, you’re filtering out
opportunities for companionship. The main things to look for in a woman are
integrity, plus sense of humor, as well as the capacity for forgiveness. Those
should be the minimum qualifications because without basic integrity, love is
not going to be possible. Without a sense of humor, you’re likely in the
presence of danger. And without the capacity for forgiveness, you’re going to
make human mistakes and then be hated for them, plus the woman will usually
slander (destroy your reputation) you with anyone who will listen to her.

So we’ve got humor, integrity, and forgiveness. How to effortlessly attract
these kinds of women into your life is by working on perfecting those three
qualities within yourself. You then automatically radiate out an energy field
that tends to pull such women into it. You’re lighthearted and constantly
making jokes and everyone you come into contact with is laughing heartily, you
have integrity and therefore courage, true strength and confidence, and you
also have the ability to quickly forgive the mistakes of self and others,
therefore, an emotionless joy shines through your eyes which cannot be faked
because it stems from compassion.

As for the complexity of ‘the qualifier’, what happens is simple. Integrity,
humor, and forgiveness/compassion are nonlinear, nonlocal, and absolute
qualities of the field of consciousness, which is the source of your mind, and
as such, these qualities of consciousness are many times more powerful that all
of the complex programming within the mind. By practicing humor, forgiveness,
and integrity, all the time, continuously, the power of these energy fields
will come in and heal all that is ‘wrong’ or lacking within the mind. Note
that even Forest Gump, the idiot with an IQ of only 75, lived his life within a
constant stream of miracles and blessings, because even though his mind was
lacking, his heart was wide open at all times, no matter what, and so his
Spirit saw to it that he was “taken care of.”

Those who life a life which is committed to the level of absolute and total love
to the very best of their ability are in great demand in all areas of life.
They get any job they apply for, and quickly advance within the company. Men
feel greatly honored to be their friend, and women tend to drop whatever
they’re doing for the chance to be with the truly heart-centered man because
they can intuit that he will be able to offer true intimacy.

In the infinite complexities of the modern world, as well as the modern mind,
there is only ONE variable that sets the quality of life, and that is the degree
of the absence or the presence of love. It is therefore the only thing worth
worrying about or striving for in this life. Thanks for your question.

Many Blessings,

Stephane Hemon

***QUESTION***

Hi Stephane,

I find your materials very eye-opening and wanted
to ask if you could please explain “the qualifier” to
me, in a nutshell. You’ve said that it is one of the
most important paradigm shifts to experience in
the pickup/dating domain, so you have my undivided
attention!

>>>COMMENTS:

“The Qualifier” is the fundamental paradigm shift that is
needed. It’s very simple, but can be enormously difficult
to fully comprehend. It’s one thing to read and to ‘know
about’ something, but that’s very different from actually
‘becoming it’. For example, it is one thing to read about
Australia, but that does not make you Australian.

“The Qualifier” takes time plus dedication, patience, and
fixity of purpose before it finally “clicks” (integrates). When
it does finally ’sink in’, pickup and dating automatically
become easy and joyful.

It marks the difference between being the salesman versus
being the consumer. If you are the salesman, then you have
to try to convince the consumer that your product is
valuable. On the other hand, as the consumer, you’re not
trying to convince anyone of anything, but are merely
trying to gather information about the available options
so that you can make an informed decision.

This paradigm shift marks the difference between seeking
approval, versus simply seeking to know the truth about a
woman’s essence. The man doing pickup is to completely let
go of ’selling’ and embrace the fact that he is actually
merely ’shopping’. (Negative emotions such as social
anxiety soon vanish.)

The naive salesman is trying to use force (persuasion,
convincing), whereas the consumer is the one who has the
power. The salesman is trying to ‘get’ money, whereas the
consumer is merely trying to decide if they wish to
‘give’ money.

So, the qualifier style of pickup is one where you let go
of pursuing/begging/desiring/selling/gaming, and instead
substitute those common attitudes with simply wanting to
see if the woman possesses the spiritual qualities that you
insist on having in a girlfriend, e.g., integrity, sense of
humor, emotional intelligence, etc. We live in a world that
is frankly filled with negativity and deception, and the
world of dating is no exception. In the search for someone
who is capable of Love, it is therefore imperative to
develop emotional detachment, as well as the ability to
quickly gather pertinent information, hopefully within just
a few seconds or minutes. (I want to know NOW if she has
integrity or not, and not in six months from now after she
has slept with my best friend.) The qualifier, you might
say, is very attractive to students who no longer wish to
suffer in the dating world. Frequently, most students have
gone through all of the various “dating systems” only
to end up feeling confused, cynical, and hurt. When enough
suffering has been endured, the desire for spiritual truth
grows strong.

At first glance, “the qualifier” attitude, when applied
to the context of pickup/dating, may sound arrogant, but
that is only when it is being viewed from the position of
still being identified with neediness/desire, as well as
sympathy. It also stems from a misunderstanding of what
integrity and nonintegrity mean, which is a whole subject
not suitable for a public newsletter. Being able to tell
the wolves from the sheep is quite advanced, and yet
without this very fundamental skill, the chances of ever
enjoying a truly successful love life are slim to none, as
can be readily seen in today’s world where many people are
either divorced, or else pretending to be happy in order
to ’save face’ and ‘keep the peace’.

“The Qualifier” is a very clinically-detached position
that comes out of an absolute intolerance for ‘evil’. Thus,
it is in deep alignment with truth and valor. Just by
itself, however, we can see that it is still missing
something, and that something is joie de vivre. Thus, when
you can add humor, love, and emotionless joy to “the
qualifier” paradigm, you’re completely done learning
pickup and dating because those were the only necessary
ingredients all along.

Meeting women then becomes a joy, rather than an awful task
or dreaded situation. When rejected, you no longer feel
sadness or shame, because “the qualifier” is actually
immune. Rejection can actually even become somewhat funny,
and at the same time you feel sorry for people (compassion),
not because you’re ‘better’ than anyone, but simply
because you see how much they suffer needlessly, whereas
your own suffering has all but come to an end (as a
consequence of having let go of false perceptions).

Note that it can take a lifetime or three to accomplish
this paradigm shift, as it requires an intense willingness
to surrender fears, desires, beliefs, and everything that
stands in the way of this paradigm so that it fully ripens
and settles and matures. The desire to experience true
Unconditional Love has to mature into a rock-solid decision
and a commitment. Wishful thinking and rose-colored glasses
have to fall by the wayside in the search for true Love, which
is both an ‘inner’, as well as an ‘outer’, search.

To go from wishing for love to actually becoming and sharing
Love with a worthy partner is a very major decision that
gains momentum and eventually supersedes all other
ambitions.

Although the world of today is very familiar with personal
love, it does not know what Spiritual Love is. “The Qualifier”
is merely a useful tool to be used along the road to discovery,
and is to be discarded later on as Knowingness replaces or
eclipses the intellect.

Thus, the purpose of intensive programs such as Womanize is
to gently enable this very major shift to occur. In most
cases, the program will need to be studied over the course
of several years before it all finally “clicks.” The
literary style (as well as the speaking style in the
accompanying videos) is strong and declarative, rather than
the more common manner of writing/speaking which tends to be
more tentative or provisional. This is because the truths
shared are based upon the absoluteness of spiritually-based
subjective Revelation, rather than intellectually-based
experiences, memories of accomplishments, or opinions. The
style of presentation is designed to help facilitate a very
major paradigm shift which is actually well beyond
intellectual comprehension.

WHEW! Thanks for your question

Many Blessings,

Stephane Hemon

http://www.ideagasms.net/how-to-womanize/

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A Complete Paradigm Shift in Dating Technologies.

Dear Reader,

Today we shall focus on letting the greedy inner ‘pickup artist’ take a well-deserved, long, long sleep… forever. It is the inner ‘rock star’, the smooth-talking inner ‘PUA’, the socially clever ninja who is able to accomplish any magical pickup of the hottest “tens”… in fact, he doesn’t even bother with “tens” anymore; he only does 12’s and up!

He represents, of course, not the real ‘you’, but the ‘you’ that hypothetically could, would, and should have been. He is the guy you were supposed to become when you discovered the Internet and learned that there were lines and tactics and strategies that could be used to make women think you’re just wonderful. Marvelous, really. God’s Gift to women.

The ego, despite all of its claims of humility, thinks that you, Dear Reader, are just wonderful. Absolutely incredible. Even the man who claims to hate, loathe, and despise himself is actually secretly ‘in love’ with himself.

That is, there is a tiny invisible layer of consciousness which envelops the body-mind… it is right between the ego and the Silent Witness. It represents narcissism, and it is a quality of consciousness you could call “self-love.” It is so enamored and ‘in love’ with the body-mind that it has invented all kinds of wonderful archetypes, identities, self-images, and personality aspects.

One such aspect of the male ego is the inner ‘god of women’. Even if women don’t really respond all that well to him in the real world, that’s quite alright… he loves to imagine that they do. He loves to fantasize and romanticize, and he dreams big.

“Let Your Pride Die For Women”

It is time to let him rest. He is, after all, a very hardworking imaginary friend and he got you this far. He is the one who helped you practice seducing women in your mind (and furiously masturbating to them and enjoying them as fully as possible and in every direction). Although the average male sleeps with about seven women, in his mind, he f-cks the whole world. And, he does them sooo well that they never had a better lover; he leaves women stunned and shocked, forever catching their breaths… he silences their mind’s with his mighty cock and heart of gold. No man will ever hope to compete with the inner PUA, that is a fact!

The reason he has to go to sleep for a long time (i.e., for eternity) is simple. It is because he is the one responsible for all of that performance anxiety. Performance in bed, performance in pickup, performance during dates, and performance in love relationships… he is definitely a performer, and where we’re going, Dear Reader, there will be no more need to “perform.”

FREEDOM

In the Land of the Truly Free, performance is a childish notion that actually repels women, rather than attracting them. Where we’re headed, less is more. Nothing is needed… Not even a winning personality. Not even high caliber social skills. Not even a massive tree trunk of a hard-on.

Pickup, dating, kissing, sex, relationships… it’s all the same.

The inner PUA who fancies himself “king of the jungle” tends to view everything as a performance, rather than as a Beingness. A performance involves you, of course, doing all the work, cracking all of the jokes, telling all of the “cool stories that’ll keep her interested”, making all of the right moves, and doing all of the sex. What the performance paradigm is lacking is that it blocks one’s simple Beingness, which is actually the most important and attractive aspect a man can have.

The performance paradigm is so narcissistically self-involved that it often actually forgets the woman.

It is so concerned about the Me and the My Performance (or lack thereof) that it ends up generating a million thoughts in the space of only one single moment, and when there are too many thoughts going on, they tend to bottleneck. It is like a traffic jam occurs within the mind, and the body simply doesn’t know what to do. So, it freezes. It jams up with emotion, stress, excitement, hesitation, desire, and restlessness.

The mouth either stops talking, or it talks way too much and says stupid and unnecessary things. The body becomes tense and rigid; it either puffs up with pride when the woman responds well, or shrinks down in shame when she loses attraction… and there is so much blood in the brain due to all those thoughts… that there isn’t enough blood left over for running the penis.

It is time to let the inner PUA dreams of socially-clever perfection go to sleep, forever. The dreams all served you up to this point, but like I said, where we’re going today, no dreams and no performances of any kind are required. Women can be picked up in a state of Silence. Surprised? Well, in the Land of the Truly Free, only Beingness exists. Perfect, harmonious, joyful, innocent, blissful Beingness… in the Land of the Truly Free, attraction and love happen spontaneously of their own when conditions are favorable.

I’d like to take you on a 30-day journey into the unknown. After many, MANY years of seeking… and searching… and dating… and picking women up… and relationships… I’ve not only found the Keys to the Kingdom, but I’ve discovered how to actually TEACH MEN how to find their own Keys in a very short period of time.

The only requirement is humility.

What I’m talking about has nothing to do with fancy tricks, nor is it particularly difficult to learn because there is only un-learning. Anyone ranging from the 27-year-old virgin, to the world’s genius-level pickup artists… to the relationship guy… to the spiritual guy who loves women but can’t quite figure ‘em out… literally ALL MEN shall be stunned by what I’ve gradually discovered and laid out in this program.

Over the next 30-days, every day will feel like Christmas morning as you discover brand-new and exciting inner and outer game “Womanizing” tools which are so counter-intuitive that NOBODY in the “seduction and dating community” has figured them out yet, nor are they likely to any time soon. This is because what is shared in this new program is of a different paradigm altogether.

Success is Dangerous

Success is “dangerous” in that it often leads to the presumption of “I know the truth about women because I’ve slept with so many of them.” Thus, men often stop seeking, stop searching, and stop evolving because they are successful.

Whether you’re a long time student of mine, a complete newbie, or just a guy who reads the free newsletters but hasn’t decided to buy anything, this program is for you. If you want to learn the art of Womanizing to a stunningly successful and fulfilling degree — so much that it makes you cry tears of joy — this is it.

If you’re low on cash or can’t afford this program, just sell your car. Re-mortgage your home. Borrow the money. Do whatever it takes. Pray to the good Lord and your dreams of effortless Womanizing will come true.

* I don’t like to offer “money back guarantees” because I like having clients who know what they want. I have mixed feelings about “marketing” and overly “promoting” things. I’m not “Mr. Marketing Guy”, I’m the man who has been here — available and real, open and vulnerable, hated, slandered, and absolutely adored — for many years… and working damn hard around-the-clock to crack the male/female code in such a way that makes it easy for guys to “get it” and start to live it.

Over the years I’ve written newsletters… hundreds of solid newsletters… I don’t tease you, I don’t promise things in an exaggerated fashion, and I don’t make you think my newsletter is going to contain something, only to have you realize it is just another typical sales pitch with nothing but sales-fluff… No, no, no, I have fed you with some pretty tasty treats over the years, but still, I’ve given you NOTHING like what is in this 30-day home study program.

Over the years I have brought you squirting orgasm girlfriends and shown you some rather intimate and vulnerable stuff, to say the least. I’ve introduced you to my girlfriends, my ‘circle girls’, and even my wife… I’ve been on the forums with you guys and I’ve shown you that I care deeply about ideaGasms’ students and their results in the real world. Through thick and thin, with the Lord’s help, I’ve stood the test of time and weathered some pretty crazy storms over the years. I’m asking you for just a little trust here…

If you want to get this product or not, that is your decision and I respect you. It’s just that… I know what I’ve just created here, God help me, thank you, Oh Lord, and it is SOLID GOLD. I don’t mean to be pushy… I feel like I just won the “female lotto” and all I want to do is share it and party with everyone forever.

A Brand-New Paradigm for Pickup and Dating

Today’s Internet pickup and dating materials do contain wisdom and practical advice, but what I am offering you here is of a totally different paradigm. In a sense, it is nearly the complete opposite of what the whole world teaches about succeeding with women. I’m not “against” that other stuff, but in Reality, there is a much Higher Way.

Although many of the Internet pickup gurus are indeed social engineering geniuses, a whole new world has just opened up for ALL of us to enjoy.

Moreover, I’ve found ways of explaining all of this to make it easy to follow and absorb for anyone who understands basic logic and reason.

What Could Possibly Be More Fulfilling In Life Than Womanizing??

To me, nothing is more important than learning how to Womanize to a severe degree. Everything else in life is a distant second. Personally, I can be happy without fame, success, money, cars… I could even be happy working at McDonald’s… as long as I am satisfied with my level of “Womanize” where every-other-girl that I talk to shines Attraction-Joy through her eyes when I speak with her, I feel happy and fulfilled. Therefore, I have spent this entire lifetime focused on this one topic.

The average man never gets to feel satisfied on this level.

Moreover, men usually think they need to develop “ninja level” social skills to pull it off. But in Truth, the less you speak, say, and do, the greater your success will be.

Womanizing means a lot to me and hope my enthusiasm has come through. This is your life we are talking about so I don’t want to leave anything out. This is perhaps the most important skill a man could ever develop, and it is a great honor and privilege to be able to share the kind of information that makes your lifestyle with women so easy and effortless that you stand in a state of awe… and wonder how the whole world has missed the mark and not already discovered how stupidly easy it is to live the dream.

Six Hours of Video

Every few weeks, students from our forum gather together online and take turns asking questions, and these sessions are recorded. The Womanize eCourse also includes six hours of video footage in which I provide answers to some of the following questions, issues, challenges, etc., such as:

When you’re with a group of women, how do you dispense the eye contact?

Does it matter if I focus on the girl I like until she breaks eye contact first?

Do you still recommend triangular gazing where you switch between looking at their lips and their eyes?

You say that a man should not approach unless he is completely stunned by a woman’s beauty, but that rarely happens with me. Should I just wait for it to happen?

How do you prepare for ‘the final run’? What about bodily needs while you do this?

You talk about being a ‘real man’ while with a woman, but I’m not there financially.

When I practice being silent with people they think I’m bored or boring.

When I speak, I’m not fully standing by my words; any suggestions?

How do I deal with my ‘inner punisher’?

Why do I tend to get vulgar when around girls I don’t know? My intention seems to be to show them that I don’t care what they think.

Is it best to say hi, hey, hello, or some other word during a cold approach?

When do I draw the line and stop pursuing and thinking about a girl all together?

Apart from fashion and interior design, is there any way men could respect beauty more? Are there any sources such as magazines or websites that can help?

You talk about not checking girls out but I can’t help myself.

Does the Womanize style work on girls you already know or is it best to just stick with the first minute?

What can help me make it through the 30 day no lust challenge? When these 30 days are over, how am I going to behave myself?

What’s the deal with shy girls?

Why do Asian women seem so shy? Why are they so aloof? Should I be more dominating with them? Will these problems not exist with integrous girls? I understand the intention behind domination, but even when some girls let me know they want me they still don’t make things much easier.

What about the concept of ‘two steps forward one step back’?

What is a good way to bring pride up, and heal it?

Can you talk more about Periphery Vision Meditation/Silent Witness?

How to deal with aversions and attractions? How can I heal judgment?

Whats the difference between personal love and Spiritual Love?

How to deal with dating multiple women at the same time?

How to help my friends who are going thru struggles?

What do you mean by “people cant be different then they are?”

How to love myself?

How to love the ego?

How to become more playful in my approaches?

Whats the Truth about clubs and negative places?

I still live with my parents, how does that affect my dating life?

What do you mean by “Just Love Women”?

Anything about voice tonality in Womanizing?

What kinds of women are the best fit for me?

How to balance being laid back and being silly around women?

I am very self-conscious during my pick-ups, what do you suggest?

Should I go out of myself to make people happy? How?

What is Divine Stupidity? Can you talk more about it?

How do I serve women?

How much should I sacrifice myself in a relationship?

How to cope with stress in all areas of life?

My friends want so much from me, what do I deal with this?

Why bother getting involved with a women, if I know she is not on my level? Why bring so much pain to women, if break-ups are the probable end of it?

How do I deal with negative emotions accompanying a couple’s argument/fight?

What to do when your friends suck with women? Do you help them, or…?

I’ve found an integrous girl, but I’m not attracted to her physically. Should I be with her anyway?

Is attraction based solely on lust, or is there more to it?

Can attraction grow later on in the relationship?

What are ways to protect women? Is my intention enough?

Where the thinking stops and the Witnessing starts: an in-depth explanation of Witnessing and the way it works.

Lacking dedication to do the spiritual work. How to turn your spiritual spark into a full-fledged “fire in the belly”?

Paying attention to the peripheral vision while walking on the street feels like being arrogant/aloof, as I am not acknowledging the people passing by. Is this normal?

What to do when your ex-girlfriend tries to get back together with you, but you don’t want her anymore?

What to do when your mind keeps making up romantic fantasies about a woman?

What to do when you have trouble crying?

Being yang/manly without being lustful. Sexual attraction vs lust(Is lust the same thing as sexual attraction?)

How can I purify my intention so that it is purely selfless? Is selfishness ever ok?

Cutting out all negativity: the challenges brought by being actively involved in the world (having to get a job, pay the bills etc.) decrease my bliss states. Should I be passive and disengage from the world in order to work on my spiritual path?

I fell like not going to nightclubs is a cop-out. Why does a spiritual aspirant need to stay away from negative energy fields such as clubs?

When is pride right, or OK?

Is it possible to be immune to negativity?

Is it alright to ignore girls that you’ve approached unsuccessfully? (the interaction did not lead to a date)

When I see a girl that I recognize but don’t actually know (i.e., we go to the same school, but we almost never talk), how should I greet her?

I feel I am offending people through my periphery gazing (as I am not acknowledging them through looking directly at them). What do I do?

Why do I feel the need to please everybody?

What is a quick way to lessen fear and worry?

I have switched from long, talk-a-lot pickup to quick escalation pickup. This has brought the fear that the girl won’t call me because she doesn’t know me well enough.

Do I need to worry about what the girl will think after the interaction?

Are there ways to decrease flakes?

How to make eye contact and stay present with multiple women?

How to close a woman in a group of women?

How to find out what to let go during meditation?

How to escape the trap of wanting to succeed with women?

How to stay in witnessing state with a woman?

Meditation technique for letting go of neediness with beautiful women.

How to escalate and close a girl fast?

How to be in constant meditation in the world?

Meditation Technique to let go of thinking addiction.

Technique to let go of pride.

How to get out of the mind?

How to relax and get into a bliss state?

How to get out of sloth?

How to be humble with a woman?

Essence of womanizing.

Demonstration of approaching and closing a girl.

Etc.

Caveat

Just one caveat. This program is intensive and could be emotionally disturbing. (Especially the first 15 days are intensely focused on ‘inner game’ before getting into the advanced ‘outer game’ materials.) This information is confrontive to the ego and especially to Pride. Many people take themselves too seriously and don’t like to have their belief systems questioned or challenged. (Secretly, most men believe their way with women is the “right” way, even when they are utterly unsuccessful.) This program is not for the faint of heart, the spiritually timid, or the easily offended.

Opinions and belief systems are essentially worthless. On one’s death bed, what good are opinions? To effectively Womanize, there must be a sincere willingness to let one’s pride essentially ‘die’ to a significant degree. Opinions and fear become replaced by a silent Knowingness and effortless competence with women and even with life itself.

Therefore, take a moment to visualize women responding to you in ways that are downright incredible, and ask yourself if this is what you truly want. Do you WANT to live the dream? Most men secretly love pain & failure with women. You should really want Love in your life and already have a “fire in the belly” before we get started.

The decision to Womanize has to come with the declaration, “No matter what.” Again, this is your life we are talking about, and I don’t want us to waste each others time. The daily lessons (and 6 hours of video) I will be sharing with you over the next thirty days are not a joke. It is the fruit of a lifetime of incredibly agonizing research, “blood, sweat, and tears”, and the un-learning of that which stands in the way of absolutely effortless (as unbelievable as it sounds) Pickup, Dating, Escalation/Sex, Relationships, Marriage, and thus true Womanizing.

OK, thanks for reading, and God bless you.

Many Blessings,

Stephane Hemon

ideaGasms inc.

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Questions?

 ***READER QUESTION***

Dear Stephane,

What, in your opinion, are the fundamentals for living a
truly wondrous life? Looking back on your life, what has
helped you through the more difficult times? What is the
difference between those who lead a great life versus those
who do not?

>>>COMMENTS:

Perhaps the very first key to a wondrous life is to admit
that the Source of your Life comes from Divinity and not the
ego/mind, nor does the Source of Life come from an
intellectualized ‘big bang’ theory/opinion or some kind of
random, accidental event. The Source of your Life comes from
Divinity; you are a child of God and therefore truly Divine;
Life comes from Life.

This is the very first key to a Happy, Joyful Life for it leads to
fundamental Integrity, as well as a sense of inner security
and accountability.

Perhaps the second key to living an incredibly rich and
fruitful life is to admit that there are indeed people on
this planet whom are more evolved than you are. In some
cases, there have been human beings who have reached such an
incredibly high state of evolution within themselves that it
is literally not even possible to imagine, via the human
intellect, just how evolved they truly are. In some cases,
even the term Lord is appropriate, such as in the cases of
Buddha, Krishna, and of course, Jesus Christ.

These are what I feel, at this juncture in my life, are the
two most important keys to life. One, to simply admit that,
“I have no idea where I came from, I have no memory of my
beginning, nor do I have any idea where I’m going.
Therefore, I did not create myself, clearly, but I have been
Created. Life comes from Life.” And two, simply admit
that there are those more evolved than yourself and seek
them out; relinquish your opinions, and listen to what
they have to say. Although people do love to read, rare are
those who truly listen.

Now, the problem with the “God-word” is that it has been
utterly distorted, so much so, that the depictions of God in
the Old Testament are actually somewhat demonic. God
supposedly suffers from psychological disorders (including
jealousy, hatred, and revenge). Although, over 2000 years
ago, Jesus Christ said that God is Love, humans still cling
to their Old Testament. That we are “slow in the head”
doesn’t even begin to describe just how ignorant we truly
are.

The simple act of admitting, “I, of myself, am ignorant”
does not lead to humiliation but to Humility. The human mind
is ill-equipped to discern ‘truth’ from ‘non-truth’ and
even, in many cases, it cannot even discern the very basics
such as being able to tell the ‘good’ from the ‘extremely
rotten’. Thus, in the willingness to admit, “I, of myself,
don’t know much about anything”, it takes one through the
door to Integrity and this is when the true search begins.

Human life is excruciatingly difficult and horribly painful.

That humans even manage to live through the first 20 years
of life without jumping off a bridge or at least getting
hooked on drugs to commit ‘passive suicide’ is enormously
impressive.

After many years of intense devotion to ‘truth-seeking’
(often to the point of tears and frustration and personal
anguish and despair that have reached levels of unnameable
intensities) looking back at all I have lived through, as
well as observing the hardships of other humans whose lives
have possibly been over 100,000 times more difficult than my
own life… that human beings are actually capable of living
through even one single human lifetime impresses me, shocks
me, and places me in a state of Awe that is resulting in
tears as I write these words.

Human life is horrendously difficult, and the simple fact
that people are actually attempting to live out their lives
totally alone and without the awareness of the Presence of
God in their lives… To not know the basic truth that
Divinity is the Source of your own Existence… to not even
have this very basic truth to be able to count on… and to
continue ‘plowing forth’ day after day in a world filled with
dangers, traps, chaos, war, lies, criminality, poverty,
disease, torture, and… the amount of suffering in this
world is so astronomical that as I wrote these last few
words I needed to step outside, wipe off my tears and smoke
a cigarette!!

That people actually try to live out their lives alone and
without prayer, contemplation, meditation, and the constant
re-reading of spiritual texts to remind them each and every
single day of their lives that they come from Divinity…
one can’t help but feel enormeous compassion for people.

Although religionism is a good start, unless it matures into
spirituality, a truly blissful and happy life is not likely.

It is one thing to hold a belief/opinion of God in mind, but
it is quite another to acknowledge that God is the Source of
your Life and is therefore Within you. Jesus Christ said,
“The Kingdom of Heaven is within you”; He did not say that
Heaven is ‘out there’ somewhere up in the clouds or in
some other time or place. So this is probably the main key
difference between religionism and true spirituality, as far
as I know. Religion tends to see God as an ‘out there’
human-like parent, while Spirituality recognizes God is
‘in here’ as consciousness itself. Spirituality sees Life,
Love, Consciousness, Awareness, and God as all one and
the same thing.

Perhaps every man would be very fortunate to ask himself:
“While lying on my (rapidly approaching) death bed, of what
good will be my opinions?” When seen for what they are,
opinions are inherently worthless. Therefore, to simply
acknowledge that there are some Beings on this planet who
have evolved themselves to such a degree that it is not even
possible for us to comprehend them intellectually… is a
very good place to start. To hear that there is such a thing
as Truth is already a great Blessing, for many have not even
heard of such a thing.

To find an appropriate teacher is likely the greatest
Blessing of all, because a teacher has traversed through the
many pathways and pitfalls and can tell you where the
landmines are. In my lifetime, the greatest Blessing of all
came on the day when I discovered my teacher, and since
then, I have married a good woman and together we have
practiced surrendering to our teacher’s wisdom (by letting
go of our own opinions) a little more each day, as best we
can. The rewards have been multitudinous and in some cases
what the world calls ‘miraculous’.

There are many great teachers available, and some of them
are appropriate at certain times in your life, yet won’t
likely be very appropriate later on. Every human being is a
teacher to the lesser-evolved humans, and a student to the
humans which are more highly-evolved.

There is an old adage: “Teach only Love.”

Therefore, once you’ve even heard that there is such a
thing as Love, if you can find someone who is even slightly
more advanced than you are and they teach Love, do not throw
away the opportunity or waste any time. To have even heard
of Love is already a profound Gift from God that, when seen
for what it is, is your Divine ‘inner calling’.

Love is the Source of your Life; the greater your degree of
awareness and understanding of this simple spiritual fact,
the greater your life will become.

A great place to start discovering Higher Awareness right
here and right now (and actually quite rapidly), is to make
the decision to stop with the inner talking, commenting,
editorializing, and useless babbling within your mind.

Although this may be difficult in the beginning due to the
addiction of inner rambling and the pleasure derived from it,
it very rapidly leads one to the discovery of the Presence
of God within. Bliss-Ecstasy-Joy states will be almost
continuous, as all doubt progressively dissolves in due
time. Just be quiet and the rest will come to you.

Many Blessings,

Stephane Hemon

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***POPULAR QUESTION***

I am starting to get good at seeing the ego-based patterns in
people; detecting ‘energy vampires’ and people who are not
trustworthy, not fundamentally honest and integrous.

This makes me worry that I am becoming judgmental.

>>>COMMENTS:

Discernment and judging are decidedly not the same thing. To
know that a certain chemical is poisonous does not mean one
has to attack or vilify it, but simply avoid it via the
wisdom of caution. Similarly, a lion will gladly kill and
eat you; this does not mean one needs to judge and condemn
all lions as “evil.” A lion is simply being what it is.

Discernment is clinically-detached and has compassion.
(Compassion is the refusal to suffer based on incorrect
notions, limiting beliefs, fallacious ideologies, and
dualistic perception.)

Discernment does not condemn others, people, places, things,
etc. — it simply avoids them out of humility and the
respect for one’s life.

If there is a crack in the sidewalk or a hole in the ground,
discernment simply walks around the hole, while judgment
yells at the hole and tries to get it to become a ‘non-hole’.

Discernment accepts others as they are, while judgment
rejects, resists, condemns, hates, and seeks revenge.
(Judgment wants to “win”, be “right”, and gain “good
feelings” in the process.)

Discernment simply Witnesses and Observes quietly, standing
back to silently appreciate the beauty; it refrains from
getting over-involved in things or with people on a ’solar
plexus’ or emotionalized level.

Discernment is inclusive of the Totality of All That Is,
while judgment tries to exclude.

Discernment accepts that the infinite field of
consciousness/awareness loves everyone equally, for
consciousness and love are one and the same thing; judgment
holds onto and clings to the kindergarten notion that
unconditional love is “not fair.”

Discernment can observe the ego’s in others and be thankful
that one is being shown the true nature of one’s own ego.
Judgment represses one’s own ego, pretends that it isn’t
the same as the ego of others, goes into denial about it,
and then projects itself out onto others.

Judgment arises out of the guilt and shame of having
an ego.

It believes the ego/mind/personality/intellect and
associated animal-instinctual drives are ‘the me’ and
therefore personal. It then condemns itself and others,
using labels such as “sin”, “evil”, “wrong”, or “immoral.”

Discernment simply Witnesses the collective animal ego from
Compassionate understanding, rather than condemnation or
guilt. As guilt dissolves, there is no more need to project
one’s “dark side” out onto the world or to try to change
the world “out there” because, when seen for what the
ego/mind really is, the world itself is really “in here”
(i.e., perception).

“There is no need to change the world, for the world you
see does not even exist.”

–Ramana Maharshi

“Judgment is Mine, sayeth the Lord.”

–Scripture

“To choose chocolate does not mean one must then hate and
attack vanilla.”

–David R. Hawkins

“It isn’t fair that God loves everybody equally!”

–The Human Ego/Mind

Discernment is one thing; judgment is quite another. The way
to get off judgmentalism is to simply accept that your own
ego/mind is inherently ‘animalistic’ and therefore greedy,
lustful, paranoid, prideful, and ignorant. By accepting the
downside of the ego and refusing to identify with it as
‘the me’, it then becomes like a cute (and highly
entertaining) pet.

Many Blessings,

Stephane Hemon

‘The Silent Witness’ Meditation

“Into the Field of Consciousness…”

In this “hypnotic” meditation, Stephane Hemon carefully, gently, and powerfully guides his students — step by step — beyond the mind and directly into the ‘Third-Eye’ or ‘Silent Witness’ aspect of Infinite Field of Consciousness/Awareness. It is likely that the listener will want to re-absorb to these recordings again and again as a guide out of stress, worry, heartbreak, guilt, pain, and suffering in all of its various forms…

“The Eternal Silent Witnessingness of the Third-Eye”

A healing meditation by Stephane Hemon.

Weaving together powerful metaphors, analogies, hypnotic language patterns, humor, and a deep understanding of how to bypass the human ‘ego’ so as to access the exact split-second moment of the Eternal Now, this unique, one-of-a-kind recording is presented from a powerful field of context and experience that can result in the listener feeling deeply healed just by listening to, and following along with, the simple steps outlined herein.

What is ‘The Witness’?

One does not experience their body directly, but experiences the sensations of the body, indirectly. These sensations report information to the mind. Thus, the body is experienced, and contained within, one’s mind.

The mind, in turn, reports information to the Witnessing of the mind.

Although the average person naively assumes that they are the mind or their thoughts, one could not be conscious of one’s thoughts if one were those thoughts. (If one was their thoughts, perhaps one would likely already be dead. For example, one can think about falling off a bridge, yet one is still very alive. Who is Watching the thoughts? Is it a ‘who’ that Witnesses, or is it a ‘what’?

“The Body-Mind is Within Me!”

In Witnessing the body-mind, one develops a profound sense of ‘detachment’, and this soon evolves into ‘unattachment’. It is a profound paradigm shift of such enormeous power that soon precludes suffering, regardless of what is ‘going on’ with the body or mind.

The technique of Witnessing can be applied towards any and all human suffering, including:

• Emotions, such as worry, regret, sadness, anxiety, and fear
• Incessant ‘thinkingness’ or repetitive, annoying thoughts
• Physical pain and illness (Note: Although this may or may not heal a particular illness, as one advances one’s level of consciousness via the Witnessing technique, they may reach such a high state of awareness that physical death then becomes a total non-issue.)
• Problem-solving, making major critical life decisions, etc.
• Love, dating, relationships, etc.
• Attitude and personality, false-pride/shame, shyness, communication skills, etc.
• Habits and addictions
• Etc.

“Merging With The Silent Witness”

Although the spiritual practice of Witnessing is well-known and has been taught by Enlightened mystics for thousands of years, very few people “get it” and are able to do it successfully on their own. Thus, Stephane Hemon has created a crystal clear, step-by-step, gentle, easy to follow, guided “hypnotic” meditation which is so enjoyable to listen to — and so powerfully healing — that the listener will likely wish to re-listen to this recording again and again, both as a “quick fix” for healing stress, and as a “training guide” for mastering their own body-mind (or “meat puppet” as Stephane humorously calls it) over the long-term.

This meditation-training is relatively content-free. Deliberately, its main focus is on context, rather than on any specific human problems. Thus, it can be referred to again and again whenever specific issues arise in one’s life, ranging from relationships to career worries to stress and health issues, and much more.

“Everyone knows that meditation and living in ‘The Eternal Now’ is the way out of suffering, however, the mind is filled with chatter and the body is filled with stress. Reaching Bliss is relatively easy when you know how, but maintaining Bliss at all times and in all situations without exception is a different story! Therefore, I’ve created a guided “hypnotic” audio for this purpose. I found that in guiding students into Bliss states, I myself enter deep Bliss along with them. Whenever Bliss fades and stress recurs, or whenever life knocks me out of meditative states, you see, I wanted to have some recordings that I, myself, could listen to…”

–Stephane Hemon

Those new to spirituality will enjoy the simplicity and powerful directness; intermediate levels will appreciate the deep clarifications for easily maintaining ‘Now’ states, and advanced seekers of Enlightenment will Love this recording for escaping from those well-known ‘dark night of the soul’ experiences as well as significantly speeding up their progress toward the state of ‘no mind’ (i.e., a fully quiet and peaceful mind which is completely thoughtless).

The suggestion is to kick back, relax, and listen along as Stephane Hemon guides two of his students outside of their body, outside of their mind, and directly into the field of witnessing-consciousness-bliss. As the listener follows along, the ability to Witness is strengthened just by listening; genuine healing and bliss states are likely to occur spontaneously of their own.

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QUESTIONS?

***A QUESTION FROM INDIA***

This is [name omitted] from India, the renowned spiritual
country. This is true but now there are so less spiritual
followers in India that you cant even find them. I am an
occasional reader of your archives. Well I have been to
meditation camps where I have learned what is pure
spirituality and karma which is exactly how you describe it.
Well I am right now searching for the right meaning of LOVE.
Well I know learning about religion is almost like learning
about love. But still I am too uneducated to understand it.
Stephane if you can enlighten me in this context that would
be of great great help.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

An education is not necessary, and can actually become a
hindrance as it often results in the illusion of “I already
know all that stuff.”

Love is an invisible energy field of consciousness which
radiates and permeates throughout all of life, however, most
people are largely unaware of it. Love is beyond form, yet
inclusive of form. Love, Truth, and God, and Krishna, are
actually all one and the same thing.

All that truly matters in life is actually invisible (e.g.,
happiness, love, joy, spirituality, etc., and again, these
words ALL mean one and the same thing).

To know Love, you must become it. Love is not an emotion,
but is a way of being in the world. It expresses itself as
your devotion to the Truth, your kind smile to the stranger
on the street, your willingness to be polite instead of
rude, and your ability to be kind with others for the pure
enjoyment of being kind, instead of as an act of
pseudo-kindness because it is the ‘right’ thing to do.

To quickly reach the state of Unconditional Love, you must
approach the following with a certain ‘Rocky Balboa’
attitude, which is a rock-line, unbending, unwavering,
laser-like fixity of focus and devotional dedication:

Be kind, generous, forgiving, and compassionate towards all
of life in all it’s expressions, including with yourself
AND even with your own thoughts, without exceptions,
excuses, rationalizations, justifications, and other
self-deceptions.

Become like a ‘raging bull’ in your attitude toward this
spiritual practice. Make it a priority above everything
else in this world. Love is Power. Commit to this
simple spiritual practice — without exception — and you
will be “richer” than the most educated followers of
religious dogma or ecclesiastical doctrines.

Everything ‘material’ is meaningless, therefore, focus on
your Spirit above everything else. You never know when
your body is going to perish, therefore, waste no time in
your spiritual quest to perfect yourself. Nothing is more
important than, or should take precedence over, your
spiritual evolution.

As you follow this, you will begin to make significant
spiritual progress in a very short period of time. Be
cautious: when certain people see the Love/Innocence
emanating through your eyes, many of them will try to seduce
via charm, lust, wit, sarcasm, etc., and attempt to destroy
you due to malice, envy, and hatred of spiritual Truth, as
your presence is intuited as a threat to those who operate
from selfish pleasure and narcissistic greed and hold
dominion over significantly large portions of the population
(e.g., the media). Love and forgive them no matter what, but
beware of the wolf in sheep’s clothing for they are the
rule rather than the exception, and simply avoid anything or
anyone who is fundamentally dishonest. Many spiritual
aspirants and teachers have reached Unconditional Love and
have been ensnared by these traps and fallen. Therefore, it
is best to be informed about this well in advance.

Print this email and stick it up on your wall and re-read it
constantly. Expect your ego/mind to put up resistance, as it
is of animal origin and is innately infantile. Expect your
ego/mind to ’squirm’, and forgive it continuously.

Learn to Witness your mind, rather than identifying with it
as ‘me’. (This does take some practice.) Rather quickly,
you will progressively become One with Krishna and come to
know what is true Love, which is a subjective experience
that is truly beyond words. It is not an either/or
condition, but a progressive inflow of ‘kundalini’
(spiritual) energy which activates the chakra’s as you
progress (very similar the mercury in a thermometer which
slowly rises in response to heat). The experience of this
energy is profound, and can knock you speechless and send
you into tears of gratitude or states the world will find
difficult to understand. Thanks for your question, and
Godspeed on your inner path.

Many Blessings,
Stephane Hemon

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Modern man believes the ego/mind/intellect is the great
Savior, however, it is actually one’s prison cell. It takes
patience and devotion to quiet the mind, but no price is too
high, and no striving is too great for this great
achievement (it is actually understood later on to be a
Gift, rather than a personal achievement).

Satori Clip: The Field of Consciousness Vs. the Ego

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After intensely following the strict spiritual pathway of Devotional Nonduality for over two years, Stephane and Greta Hemon eventually meditated continuously and non-stop for approximately 40 days and nights, which has resulted in their reaching a permanent Satori state. Fortuitously, this rare condition or state has been captured on video, in which a 5-hour lecture was given on how to reach Satori. Click here for more info: http://www.ideagasms.net/satori

The Path to Enlightenment Not Easy…

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Stephane Hemon shares some of his experiences and challenges with reaching Enlightenment.

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“The Higher Intention Behind Pickup”

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“The Importance of Quick Physical Intimacy”

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Love Is Not An Emotion, Part 1 of 2:

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In this two-part video, Stephane Hemon comments on a newsletter he
sent out which just happened to result in over 100 readers unsubscribing
almost instantly. He had shared the precise step-by-step way to reach
Unconditional Love, which can be confrontive and quite overwhelming
to the human ego.

Love Is Not An Emotion, Part 2 of 2:

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Discussion of “American Beauty”, Part 1 of 2:

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In this two-part video, Stephane Hemon comments on the award-winning
film American Beauty, and in particular about the character Ricky
Fitts who rather brilliantly showed many signs that his consciousness
level was that of true Unconditional Love, which is a condition/state
only attained by about 0.4% of the human population, most often in
advanced spiritual teachers or deeply committed students such as
priests, monks, nuns, advanced members of 12-step groups, and so on.

Discussion of “American Beauty”, Part 2 of 2:

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