Stephane’s obsessive pursuit of dating, sex, and relationship mastery began when he was still only a child. Raised by 4 feminists who had issues with men, Stephane was made into their “special project”. From the early age of four, he still remembers being instructed by these women to give other girls his own age candy, flowers, and even romantic lines.

By the time he reached high school in 1988, much to the dismay of his grandmother, 2 aunts, and mother, Stephane found that he was able to get just about any girl he fancied. But, after sleeping with most of the cute girls in his high school, he realized that he still didn’t know very much about TRUE FULFILLMENT. His family had taught him a lot about women, but not nearly enough about being a Polarized Lover. His relationship skills needed a lot of work, and the pain of losing so many wonderful girlfriends was unbearable to him.

It was around this time that he developed a taste for Bisexual Women … One girl in particular used to bring girls to him (for threesomes), which he enjoyed very much, but this quickly turned into a source of massive FRUSTRATION when he realized that he didn’t know how to advance the simple threesomes into long term relationships.

Stephane says that he cried himself to sleep at night over girls so much that it drove him to want to master not only his basic relationships and skills with women, but to eventually have “Interdependent Circle” relationships.

When he was about 26, around 1998, he went online and found something called “the seduction community” - a men’s movement started in 1993 by Ross Jeffries - and finally felt like he had come Home for the first time in his young adult life. He quickly became friends with most of the “top dogs” in this community, going out with them regularly to “pick up chicks” and share “tactics & frames” with each other.

“It was around that time that I started getting fired from every job I had”, says Stephane, “because I couldn’t focus on anything other than dating and relationship dynamics! When I saw that some of these guys were making their living doing this, I knew that I had finally found my calling. So I kept hooking up with all of these weirdos that I had met online, all these “pickup gurus” and such, and although I didn’t really like most of them personally because I found them to be closed-hearted jerks who were perpetually jealous of each other and basically acted like a bunch of little girls, I still continued to meet with them because many of them were VERY good at getting girls and I wanted to learn as much as I could. In those days I was completely obsessed.”

“When I finally figured out my Interdependent Circle model and built my first SOLID Circle (I was living with my two girlfriends at the time), I decided right then and there that I was now ready to become a teacher. I asked a friend of mine, the well-known David D., to interview me, and I also did TV, radio, newspapers, magazines … and in those days I was interviewed by anyone willing to talk to me. Since I got such massive exposure so quickly, and people really liked my spiritual perspective on “the game”, iG became an overnight success”.

“ideaGasms is the true ‘front lines’ of dating, sex, and relationship consciousness – We have a video that teaches you how to master the female orgasm, we have a guided meditation Chakra Program for people who need to let go of insecurity, stress, and other mind-identified imbalances (to become less Ego-centered and more Heart-Centered), We have a Girlfriend Training Program for guys (and girls!) who want to learn how to effectively clear the bullshit out of their relationships to join at the Heart, and we also have an exclusive [advanced] BISEXUAL Girlfriend Training Program for people who want to learn my ‘Interdependent Circle’ model, as well as deepen their ‘normal’ relationships. And today, I’m putting together my biggest program yet, it will be called Beyond Inner Game: Cracking The Female Code.”

Stephane currently lives “on the road, wherever the wind takes us” with his two girlfriend’s, Ghita and Greta, and they are working on a documentary that is tentatively titled, “Circle Trailblazing”.