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“4 Deadly PICKUP Mistakes Men Are Making”

Hey man,
 
It has come to my attention (over and over) that a lot of
guys are making some extremely crucial and destructive
mistakes whenever they interact with women. This small list
is from many recent phone consultations, especially one in
particular that made me go –> Uh oh.
 
1.  Failure to escalate. Listen - if you treat her like a
friend, that’s all you’ll get. You have to start TOUCHING
women when you speak to them.
 
You know, take her hand and hold it a little too long, hold
eye contact a little too long, run your fingers on her
forearm, offer hugs, take her wrist and lead her to sit
down, and so on. If you do not do this stuff, you’ll
typically get rejected. She knows you WANT to, so do it. If
she resists, just use all the ‘gentleman’s game’ stuff
and wash, rinse, repeat. Ask yourself, “Is it wrong or
offensive to be intimate with women?”

2.  Failure to stay in the Heart. So you get turned on by her
beauty (root chakra) and then you go in the mind and start
trying to GET attention & love.
 
You start going, “What should I say? How should I carry
myself?” and you are concerned with manipulation and mental
chess games, in an empty pursuit of approval and status. The
trick is to let that go and Just Love Women. Be in SILENCE
when you approach, do not THINK, just BE. The words and GAME
will come to you ONLY through your heart. You must be
willing to make yourself THAT vulnerable.

3.  In a casual conversation, many of you are basically
reciting the entire GTP, in an effort to show her how great
you are. And what a ‘catch’ you are.
 
Yet you’re not ESCALATING, soooo… she knows you’re full
of sh*t. So you talk about massage, squirting, chakras, and
GTP theories such as “one day at a time” and “opening the
heart” and meditation and “taking no crap” and everything
you’re getting from IG. But, IG stuff is meant to be LIVED,
not talked about… collecting all of these beliefs to show
women how ‘knowing’ you are, NO.

4.  Instead of rambling, talk MUCH less about YOU, and focus
on HER. Spend most of your time getting to know her on every
level.
 
What are her dreams, desires, fears, wants, hatreds,
opinions… Be extremely curious about HER. And let her find
out how “knowing” you are OVER TIME, slowly. Let her be
pleasantly surprised as the relationship unfolds. Let her
find out that you saved a drowning kitten and you can make
women squirt LATER.
 
 
I’ve been doing a lot of phone consultations lately, and
this seems to be the main issues I’m seeing time and
again.
 
I hope this is helpful, I realize how difficult it truly is
to get good with women, as I went through ALL of the above
phases myself (and then some)… so hang in there, and
thanks for reading.
 
Blessings,
Stephane
 

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