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A Complete Paradigm Shift in Dating Technologies. Few Men Ever Learn to Womanize Because it is so Simple.
Dear Reader,
Today we shall focus on letting the inner ‘pickup artist’ take a well-deserved, long, long sleep… forever.
It is the inner ‘rock star’ — the smooth-talking, socially clever ninja who is able to accomplish any magical pickup of the hottest “tens”…
..in fact, he doesn’t even bother with “tens” anymore; he only does 12′s and up! 
He represents, of course, not the real ‘you’, but the ‘you’ that hypothetically could, would, and should have been. He is the guy you were supposed to become when you discovered the Internet and learned that there were lines and tactics and strategies that could be used to make women think you’re just wonderful.
Marvelous, really.
God’s Gift to women, of course. 
Despite all of its claims of humility, the ego thinks that you, Dear Reader, are just wonderful. Absolutely incredible.
One such aspect of the male ego is the inner ‘god of women’. Even if women don’t really respond all that well to him in the real world, that’s quite alright… he loves to imagine that they do. He loves to fantasize and romanticize, and he dreams big.
“Let Your Pride Die For Women”
It is time to let him rest. He is, after all, a very hardworking imaginary friend and he got you this far. He is the one who helped you practice seducing women in your mind… Although the average male sleeps with about seven women, in his mind, he f-cks the whole world. And, he f-cks them sooo well that they never had a better lover; he leaves women stunned and shocked, forever catching their breaths… He silences their minds with his mighty… heart of gold. No man will ever hope to compete with the inner ‘pickup artist’, that is a fact!
The reason he has to go to sleep for a long time (i.e., for eternity) is simple.
It is because the ego is the one responsible for all of that performance anxiety — performance in bed, performance in pickup, performance during dates, and performance in love relationships… He is definitely a performer, and where we’re going, Dear Reader, there will be no more need to “perform.”
FREEDOM!
In the Land of the Truly Free, performance is a childish notion that actually repels women, rather than attracting them. Where we’re headed, the less you want, the more you obtain.
Pickup, dating, kissing, sex, relationships… it’s all the same. It is simple. One either loves women, or one does not love women. Most men actually do not love women. They pretend to love women.
The inner ‘pickup artist’ who fancies himself “king of the jungle” tends to view everything as a performance, rather than as a ‘Beingness’. The performance paradigm involves you, of course, doing all the work, cracking all of the jokes, telling all of the “cool stories that’ll keep her interested in me”, and making all of the right moves. What the performance paradigm is lacking is love itself.
The performance paradigm is so narcissistically self-involved that it often actually forgets the woman.
It is so concerned about the ‘me’ and the ‘my game’ (or lack thereof) that it ends up generating too many thoughts, and when there are too many thoughts going on, they tend to bottleneck. It is like a traffic jam occurs within the mind, and the body simply doesn’t know what to do. So, it freezes. It jams up with emotion, stress, excitement, hesitation, desire, conflict, and restlessness.
The mouth either stops talking, or it talks way too much and says stupid and unnecessary things. The body becomes tense and rigid; one either puffs up with pride when the woman responds well, or shrinks down in shame when she loses attraction… one is constantly at the mercy of women’s responses. 
It’s no way to live. 
Pseudo Indifference?
I recently asked a group of thousands of men what they think is the best way to handle themselves in a certain situation with a woman, namely, you ask her out and she says that she is busy. You know what they all said?
They all gave some variation of the same answer:
They believed that the best way to handle themselves in that situation would be, essentially, to display to her in one way or another that they don’t care.
They literally all believed that carelessness was the answer.
You know, to play it cool, to be aloof, to feign carelessness; to pretend one is indifferent.
<— I was stunned.
Men, is this really the best we’ve come up with? Pretending carelessness?
Is that really the best dating wisdom we have access to in this day and age? To show women we do not care about them?
Oh my. 
Most people believe “pride is a good thing”, but the downside of pride is arrogance and denial. While it’s obviously OK to be proud of a job well done, for example, what’s not OK is for pridefulness to become one’s predominant life theme. It’s dangerous to think too highly of one’s self because pride is usually just based on emotionalized wishful-thinking.
It is time to awaken from the inner “pickup artist” dreams of socially-clever ninjahood. The dreams all served you up to this point, but like I said, where we’re going today, no dreams and no performances of any kind are required.
The best thing you can say to a woman is silence.
Surprised? Well, in the Land of the Truly Free, only Beingness exists. Perfect, harmonious, joyful, innocent Beingness… in the Land of the Truly Free, ‘attraction’ and love happen spontaneously of their own when conditions are favorable.
I’d like to take you on a 30-day journey, Dear Reader.
The only requirement is humility.
*WHOLE AUDIENCE DISAPPEARS* 
Humility, folks. It’s not poison.
Success Can Be Dangerous
Success can indeed be “dangerous” in that it often leads to the presumption of “I know the truth about women because I’ve slept with so many of them.” Thus, men often stop seeking, stop searching, and stop evolving because they are (somewhat) successful.
Furthermore, many are “successful” — perhaps not in the real world with real women — but they have successfully purchased a huge variety of books and programs on dating and relationships. They’ve reached a point where they can appear to be quite erudite, having been able to memorize vast amounts of information.
To memorize is one thing, but to actually learn is quite another. 
A Higher “Pickup & Dating” Paradigm of Reality
Perhaps today’s pickup and dating materials got you to this point, but what I am offering here is of a totally different paradigm. In a sense, it is nearly the complete opposite of what the world teaches about succeeding with women. I’m not “against” that other stuff, but in reality, there is a much higher — and easier — way.
Womanizing is supposed to be simple and joyful, not clever and sarcastic. It is supposed to be effortless and authentic, not difficult and forced. It’s supposed to be fun and comical, and not at all serious.
To obsess about ‘attraction’ is really mundane and childish. I learned this the hard way.
There was a time when I was frustrated with the quality of my love relationships, so I became willing to learn just about anything from anyone who had something to say about women and dating. I would immediately apply whatever they taught, as I wanted to master the levels of pickup and dating very badly.
I knew that if I couldn’t handle myself on the levels of pickup and dating that my chances of someday finding a true love relationship were slim. Dating comes before relationships. Algebra comes before calculus, does it not?
There was really nothing else that mattered to me. I realized that unless I were to master myself on these levels, I could never be truly happy inside. I would also be too weak to handle myself in a committed love relationship.
Well, I was willing to set aside my own beliefs, so I was a very teachable student. I went out and applied everything I was learning, and I did nothing but ‘pickup and dating’ for several years. I lived and breathed ‘pickup and dating’, approaching several women each day and making things happen with them. I was willing to try just about anything, and this led me down a slippery slope. I became very clever, very smart, and I was becoming more and more cynical. I was becoming grim and heavy.
One evening, a thought arose — and I will never forget this profoundly significant moment of my life — a thought arose that perhaps love isn’t real. Perhaps love is just a label we put on attraction and animal instinctual drives in order to feel better about ourselves as a species. Perhaps love is just some kind of romanticized wishful-thinking. Maybe love doesn’t even exist at all. Maybe people are really nothing more than animals with instincts and programming. Perhaps my dreams of a perfect relationship based on unconditional lovingness and joy were just immature.
I actually wondered, “What if love doesn’t even exist at all?”
I went into panic. I could actually feel my chest caving in on itself. The feeling was absolutely horrible. It was some kind of dark despair, like a feeling of hopelessness, for if love doesn’t even exist and life is really just biological and linear, I didn’t want to bother living on. I would prefer to simply disappear.
Rudimentary animal pleasure and gain seems to satisfy most people, but for me, life would be totally without meaning unless love was the main theme. I’m not just talking about ‘personal love’ between two people, either. What I’m really speaking of is Universal Love.
Life, to me, would be worthless if I could not feel the presence of Universal Love and someday enjoy a perfect relationship.
As I sank into this horrible state — very seriously doubting the existence of love — the only option for someone like me at that time would have been to commit suicide. It was like a door had suddenly slammed shut. I was in hell. I was quite literally in hell. It was a state of eternal hopelessness. Hell is very, very real. It’s a place where there is no love, no truth, and no happiness whatsoever.
One could say that I cried myself to sleep, but it was much more than just tears that came out of me that night. I didn’t just “cry” until I feel “asleep.” No, it was much more horrific than that. It was much more intense than can even be described. It was a deep existential crisis, and I wept and wept while curled up into a little ball on the floor, whimpering and shaking with fear. And, for the first time in many years, I prayed for help, and then I passed out from exhaustion.
Beyond Ordinary Perception
The next morning, when I awoke, I was in a different paradigm of reality. I didn’t just awaken physically, I had some kind of spiritual awakening. The world was completely transformed. Everything seemed to move in slow motion. Everything was beautiful, radiant, and very alive. Everything had a luminescent quality to it. Inside, I felt saved. I was transformed, and I had more energy and joyfulness — it was like an unending supply of life energy. It was as though one had woken up from hell and discovered heaven.
From that state, everything was so simple and obvious. Everyone around me looked innocent and very beautiful. In this state, one could sincerely love many people at the same time — even total strangers were very charming and lovable. Love was actually everywhere in the world and it was the predominant reality.
Life became unserious, entertaining, and very comical. It was easy to see that Universal Love was the source of life, and everyone around me seemed lost, afraid, and deeply asleep. It’s like people are actually sleeping while being awake at the same time, which is difficult to describe because people generally do not trust those who speak of strange things such as Universal Love or ‘heavenliness’.
Have you ever tried to wake up a dear friend who is asleep and having a nightmare?
It’s dangerous. Most people prefer to remain asleep.
What Could Possibly Be More Fulfilling In Life Than Womanizing??
To me, nothing was more important than learning how to Womanize. Everything else in life was always a distant second. I always knew that I could be happy without fame, success, money, toys, etc. — I could even be happy working at a gas station — as long as I felt satisfied with my level of Womanizing. Therefore, I have spent this entire lifetime focused on love itself.
Love and Womanizing mean a lot to me and I hope my enthusiasm has come through. I don’t want to ‘oversell’ the Womanize program, yet at the same time I realize that this is your life we are talking about so I don’t want to leave anything out. This is perhaps the most important area a man could ever develop himself in, and it is a great honor and privilege to be able to share the kind of information that makes your lifestyle with women so easy and effortless that you stand in a state of awe… and wonder how the whole world hasn’t already discovered how stupidly easy it is to live the dream.
It’s an honor. Thank you. 
Sincerely,
Stephane Hemon
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