***BISEXUAL WOMEN ALERT***

Hello Stephane,

I have a comment and a question. First the comment, I just wanted to agree with you. Trying to train my boyfriend (especially one who’s younger than me) is DEFINITELY a turnoff. I learned that the hard way, and now he and I are just friends. But I think the training might’ve worked a little :-]

Anyway, my question is: Is it a bad idea for me to get a girlfriend, and then invite a guy into our relationship? (I’m a chick).

I figured the answer would probably be yes, since I would kind of be playing a yang role, but supposing he jumped in comfortably and immediately assumed the leadship/yang role? Arghhh, I know that doesn’t sound like a lot of guys these days, but you never know.

Thanks for reading.

Peace love & soul,
Samantha

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Samantha…

First, let me just say this:

The world needs more cool, fun, adventurous girls like you.

Now, if you pick up a girl and make her your girlfriend, and then the two of you set out to find a cool guy who can handle himself in this context…

I have no idea how this dynamic would work, I’ve never seen it done before (with the exception of the Barbi.e Twins, perhaps?).

So let’s find out, shall we?
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***QUESTION***

Stephane,

I remember a couple years ago, you mentioned in passing, “Don’t let your girlfriend read these newsletters!” and I thought that was quite funny.

Well, I’m no longer laughing… you were right. My girlfriend just read one of your recent ones about the Circle lifestyle and those multiple bisexual girlfriends of yours. She is reading your entire blog as we speak, and FREAKING OUT.

And she’s GRILLING ME about this. She was angrily asking me if I had planned on having a “harem” of my own.

Needless to say, I told her that I never was planning on having a “harem”, and of course, would never “talk her into it”, hahaha.

Anyway, the point is that she distrusts me now because she thinks that I have a hidden agenda, that she isn’t enough for me, even though the reasons she fell so in love with me was because of following your advice on your newsletters and blog! The irony!!

Can you help a brother out of a jam?

Thanks,

H.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This particular “reader question” is actually just a composite of about 50 emails I received THIS WEEK ALONE.

My recent ramblings about the Circle life are creating somewhat of a stir.

One girl even emailed me that she fell in love with an “ideaGasms student” and that later on towards the end of their relationship, he got so frustrated with her that she wasn’t actively bringing him any women… he actually BEAT her up one night, and she left him for good.

Rest assured, I do NOT accept blame, and I can only be responsible for myself. So there’s no way I’m going to just “pack it up” and call it quits. The Circle newsletters will continue, no worries.

I fancy my life purpose, I enjoy my lifestyle, and I’m definitely onto something with the whole Circle thing.

Let’s not forget, every newsletter I send out starts with a cute slogan -

ideaGasms(R) - Welcome To The Front Lines Of Dating, S E X, And Relationship Consciousness.

The FRONT LINES… the cutting edge.

That said, I want to make something clear.
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