***QUESTION***

Stephane,

I’ve recently began talking to a girl who’s a stripper. She’s a great person, and we’re really into each other, but I’m wondering how to deal with her profession.

I can’t imagine ever getting serious with her because of this choice of career. I’ve explained this along with my reasoning that I feel like that’s not devotion, her dancing naked in front of a room full of guys.

I really like this girl, but I think I’ve explained my position well.

Should I even consider bending on this?

>>>MY COMMENTS:

The only hope that you have of influencing her into a non-stripper is through full acceptance, and by showing no jealousy whatsover. Any attempt to shove your “morals” down her throat may be viewed as weakness, and she may rebel like a teenager rebels on her parents.

Every guy she deals with is a “tool” in her world-view. By asking her to quit, you become just another tool, who is then seen as completely under her control. She will tell all her stripper friends how “He’s wrapped around my little finger” and talk about how jealous and annoying you are, even though she secretly likes this… in her limited views, jealousy = Love.

Strippers are in a very dark (ignorant) place, using their sexuality to control and gain status, money, energy. They see the world as win/lose, and they do not, can not know Love. But the manipulat-ive are equally the manipula-ted. There is no difference.

They see themselves as a “ho” in need of a true “pimp”. A wonderful game of duality and power struggles filled with dramatic highs and lows. But the ego secretly loves this, you see.

If you are loyal to her, you will probably be seen as a weak beta male. You must be viewed as a man who loves women, ALL women. But of course, if you are with other women you will also infuriate her, so you literally can’t win. She hates it when men are jealous because deep down, she hates her own jealousy. She hates loyalty because, well, she doesn’t understand loyalty.

The idea is to honor and accept her choices completely, and not try to control or interfere in any way. One could say that she has “stripper karma” and needs to go through this experience and learn what she is here to learn.

As we begin to open the Heart, we might see a ladybug on the ground, upside down and unable to walk. Our Love for the ladybug will urge us to flip the poor little guy over and help him out. But then, as the Heart becomes opened all the way, 100% open, we no longer flip the little guy back onto his legs because we understand that that is his karma. The little bug is upside down to learn, and to evolve, so we leave him alone in his upside-down perfection.

Dating a stripper will always come with a price. There will be drama. And the risk of getting an STD will be higher. And her heart isn’t open, so she isn’t ready to know Love at this point on her Journey.

Personally, I wouldn’t care even if she was a full-blown whore. It’s just her karma, and we’re all at different levels in our evolution. Just know that having an actual long-term relationship with a woman on her level is literally impossible. It will be filled with drama, but perhaps you also have karma on this level and are meant to date a lower-consciousness woman.

The trick is to learn to have unconditional love and compassion for all women. Once you tap into this higher frequency, there are literally no more questions, there is only an inner-knowingness… you will intuitively know how to handle any situation that arises. So perhaps you are being sent this stripper to learn unconditional love.

In the end, “she” doesn’t strip, her body strips (and she is not the body).

So it literally does not matter. Life is just a classroom and a game, and certainly not something that is meant to be taken too seriously.

Thanks for your question, and Blessings to you both.

Stephane

This is something I recently posted on the private “give-me-your-money-and-then-you-can-be-my-friend” forums.

They all loved it and are reporting big leaps in consciousness, as well as a newfound commitment to Love… so I thought I’d re-post it here as well.

I have to admit, it’s pretty ass-kicking.

Question: Stephane, are the pickup workshops still on? Can I sign up for one?

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I can’t do CLUBS or NIGHT game anymore.DAY GAME is much, MUCH better for one’s sanity. You take a sweet, honest girl looking for true love, and you stick her in a club –> her consciousness goes down the toilet… she turns into an insecure bitch, looking to prove to herself that guys have less value than she does.

She gets into Pride, and the only way to get her into bed is to put up with SOME of her crap, and her opinionated bullshit. She then feels safe enough to fuck you, because she can clearly control you, to a certain extent. (If she can control you too much, she loses interest.)

Meet that same girl during the DAYTIME, and she’s a different person. The clubs serve to lower consciousness. To do real pickup, I go to malls during the day and literally cannot fail.

I think you guys should FORGET pickup workshops.

Learn to actually learn from ideaGasms –> open your heart no matter what.

This is EASY to do, not hard!

All you do is decide to focus on Love. Commit to forgiving everyone, having compassion, being kind to everyone, doing random acts of kindness.

I see a guy bumming change on the street, so I buy him a bottle of Jack Daniels. I give him what he needs to hit rock bottom, he NEEDS to go down the tubes so I help him out.

This also helps society - now that bum LEAVES to go get drunk. So he is no longer spreading poor-me energy on the streets. He gets to have a day off, and we all get the day off from him.

This one simple ten-dollar act of kindness goes a LONG way. He is happy, and feels more loving… The people are no longer getting vamped by him, so their day goes a bit better as well. They come home and they maybe even make love to the wife. She in turn hugs her child that much tighter, and the next day in school he feels like focusing on his math test instead of being rebellious, YOU SEE THE POWER OF LOVE?

DO YOU???

MOST of you are NOT getting it.

ideaGasms is waaaay over your heads, sorry but it’s the truth.

LOVE is a CHOICE that you make, at any moment of any day you are either living love or NOT living it.

Open your Heart, why the fuck do you think you need ME to hold your hand and get you to say hello to a chick at the mall? Are you really THAT retarded?

Watch children, they look people right in the eye and smile FOR NO REASON other than to enjoy socializing, giggling, playing with people.

Do you help to open the heart’s of people, of kids, of strangers, of homeless people, of girls and of men in their 80’s?

Most of you do not. You stay in your head and focus on the same stupid thoughts that your brain had yesterday.

PICKUP IS A JOKE.

I go to the restaurant, and the cute waitress gives me a menu.

Most of you go, “Thanks” and barely even look at her!

I go, “Hey, how are they treating you today? Is anyone being rude to you, just point them out to me and I’ll pour water on their head.”

WHATEVER, it doesn’t matter what I say.

I CHOOSE to be nice, and friendly, and appreciative, and kind, and charming, and I make silly RETARDED jokes to open them up.

I go, “Whats your name?”

“Julie… GOD you’re beautiful. Are you hungry? Let me buy you some lunch!”

And they are ADDICTED to me, they come to my table 4 times more than they come to yours.

WHY, because I’m choosing to live in the frequency of consciousness known as HEART.

You read my stuff, and it CLEARLY lays everything out for you in explicit detail. Then you log off and go right back down into fear, into finding excuses to not open your Hearts.

I recently invited people over to my house in Montreal, for the “circle recording parties” and the level of consciousness in that room was DEPRESSING.

Some of these guys have been on my newsletter list since day1, even before the DYD interview. And they STILL cannot approach a girl to save their life.

Like most of you.

Even Sparky emails me on the side asking for PU workshops, when he is clearly one of the most attractive men in all of England.

But, he refuses to open his heart and allow himself to see it. He is literally DELUSIONAL, like an anorexic teenager who thinks she’s fat.

He’s just playing a game, he’s choosing it and so are every single one of you.

stu·pid

1. lacking ordinary quickness and keenness of mind; dull.
2. characterized by or proceeding from mental dullness; foolish; senseless: a stupid question.
3. tediously dull, esp. due to lack of meaning or sense; inane; pointless: a stupid party.
4. annoying or irritating; troublesome: Turn off that stupid radio.
5. in a state of stupor; stupefied: stupid from fatigue.

Stupid is when you learn all about the Heart, yet you don’t actually do anything to open it.

Stupid is reading and KJ’ing, instead of living your life and enjoying yourself.

Stupid is buying the GTP, listening to it once, and then going, “I know that stuff now”.

Stupid is arguing with your dumbass GF when you should be fucking her and opening her heart to God.

Stupid is the state that most of you guys are in when you read my stuff and try to criticise me in your head, trying to find what is not perfect about me, so that you can point your fingers at me and go, “Stephane has x-thing I don’t like, so now I can avoid looking at myself and making the changes that are necessary to enhance my life and actually fuck a girl.”

Stupid is when you READ the 5D Compassion formula and then think you have compassion just because you read it.

Stupid is when you try to tell yourself that this stuff is needed for OTHER students, but you are somehow exempt, special, or different.

Stupid is when you ask me to please teach you pickup, even though I keep telling you that the only thing you need to do IS TO LOVE WOMEN.

Anyone care to debate this with me intelligently?

You cannot argue against love, you see?

You have to just make a decision.

At every turn, you can choose to be loving toward a woman. You can choose to look into her eyes and say, “God you’re beautiful”.If she is rude to you, you can choose to put her in her place and STILL love her.

I go to malls, and I play with the store girls. I get them laughing, I say nice things to them, and I ask them, “What time do you get off?”

“Okay then, I’ll meet you here at 5pm and we’ll go have dinner, it’s on me.”

They try to turn me down sometimes, they are sooooo programmed to be testy and rude.

I go, “I’m not ugly, I’m not stupid, why would you throw me away without even trying me?”

“I have a boyfriend”.

“Yeah, and you don’t even respect him. You treat him like shit, and he kisses your ass. You haven’t been fucked properly in a loooooooong time, I can tell.”

I’m usually right. It’s just statistics. I’m right 98% of the time whenever I say this!

If I’m wrong, she’ll tell me. Then I just go, “He’s a lucky guy, girls like you are rare. Nice playing with you”.

I went to the restaurant with AmyJo, and the girl at the counter really liked me.

I told AJ, I said, “I’m going to brighten her day. When I leave, she will be crushing on me for the next 6 hours, and she will feel great. And her customers will recieve that energy as well. I’m going to change 62 lives today for the better, and all I’m gonna do is say one or two things. WATCH THIS.”

I walk over to her and go, “Okay, I’m leaving now, GOODBYE BEAUTIFUL!”

She blushes, and says goodbye, smiling and giggling and looking at me like I’m the best guy she’s seen in months.

As we walk home, I tell AmyJo, “She literally has no choice but to crush on me all day now. I touched her heart. If a girl said that stuff to you, wouldn’t you imagine yourself being with her in all kinds of romantic fantasy scenarios? You woud crush on her and feel ALIVE all day, and this love energy is infectous. You would brighten the day of 62 other people.”

YES, this girl has almost no choice but to crush on me all day long.

LOVE is a beautiful thing, isn’t it?

But you guys will read this and then NOT live it.

99.9% of you will make excuses and not open your Hearts.It’s the 0.01% of you that I bother to post for. The rest of you jerkoffs can kiss my ass and pay me money for NOTHING. Which is cool, your money helps me to spread the love. So thanks, I’m now almost retired, simply because I teach love. Now i can focus that much more on elevating myself, and my 0.01 percent of students who actually want to have good lives.

“Teach only love”
-Cool quote, probably calibrates at 999 on the on the zero to 1000 consciousness scale..

LOVE… WOMEN. It’s that simple.

You can all retire fom ideaGasms now.

Go away!Stephane, accompanied by consciousness levels 500-600.