Before we start, a tip for growing your hair longer, faster:

For those of you who REALLY want to “double your dating”, I cannot over-emphasize growing your hair long. I’ve had long hair on-and-off for most of my life, and to be honest it’s so good for “game” it feels like I’m cheating.

I cut my hair short right before I started IG, for one thing, I felt I was too attached to it so I shaved my head to get over some ego-issues. I also wanted to teach myself that my hair wasn’t as important to my game as my actual game itself.

So anyway, I’m growing it long aain, and the results “in field” are ridiculous.

A tip for those of you who want to make your hair grow twice as fast:

Cut your hair, get a trim a day or two after the NEW MOON. This is an old Native American trick and it absolutely works wonders.

(If you DO NOT want your hair to grow fast, cut your hair a day or two after the FULL MOON, it will slow down.)

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Next, let’s talk some more about Circle Energy…

Circles are much, MUCH more powerful than even I know how to explain. There is something AMAZING, something quite magical that happens when a man creates a circle with 2-3 bisexual women.

My best metaphysical guess: I imagine that there is a vortex of circular energy right above my Crown Chakra that opens wide, allowing my connection with Higher Self to become much more in alignment. That is my best guess for what is happening to me, to us.

On a physical level, once again my voice is deepening, my shoulders are getting more “square”, my skin looks better, the spark in my eye has much more light in it, my health is improving… and although I cannot “prove” any of this, I’m literally de-aging. And so are the girls. We can feel it. It is real.

Bear in mind, this new Circle of mine is *solid* and very, very HEART centered. The other night, the girls and I went to a birthday party, and there was another “circle” there, one guy and two girls, but they are in the lower three chakras, so the circle is actually causing them to age faster due to stress, jealousy, insecurities, guilt, and so on.

The guy, who is a student of mine, was also trying to dominate me by doing stupid shit like putting his hand on my shoulder while we talked… this insecure need to have dominance over me only suggests that he’s “drowning”, i.e., not able to claim dominance in his own SO-CALLED Circle, in his own life. I let him dominate me like this for a while, to see how far he would take it, but after a while I got so fed up from the energy vampings that I grabbed his hand, kissed it, and left the party.

You can’t do Circles in the lower three Chakras, this lifestyle is reserved for those of us who can keep our consciousness OUT of the head and into the Heart. Otherwise, arguments and drama and stress will occur until everyone is lying to each other and then the girls start stepping outside the circle to re-validate themselves. Circles are for meditators only.

Always. It’s sooo predictable too. Whenever I talk to his primary I can feel her sexual energy leaking like crazy, and when I met his “secondary” I got the distinct feeling that I could have easily taken her right then and there, even fucked her in the bathroom if I had wanted to. This is because there cannot be any loyalty at the level he’s operating in. It’s pretty sad.

The REASONS couples begin a circle have to be for higher, spiritual reasons, and NOT to try to fill an empty void in their present relationship. If you cannot blossom open the heart of ONE woman, good luck doing it with two. When I asked him, “What is the purpose of your Circle?” he drew a blank stare… Poor bastard is going to learn this stuff the hard way - something I really, really respect!! I sound like I’m “bashing” him, but noooooo… I honor him, he’s choosing to go the hard way. People like that are to be respected, admired. Truly.

But then, there is the RIGHT way, and this is the way of the Spiritual Warrior –> The Heart-Centered way is the ONLY way to make it work. Unfortunately, he’s going to draw a lot of darkness into his life, and possibly will lose both girls because of this. Women are sensitive, emotional beings, this has to be deeply understood.

Ahhh, Circle Energy, it’s really amazing.

My aura must be glowing, because everywhere I go, women are into me. It’s like I can do no wrong - women on the street, hairdressers, waitresses, cashiers, even the girls at the grocery store, they stare at me and giggle and blush… it’s so beautiful. Not only when I’m with the girls, even when I’m alone by myself, it’s like “circle energy residue” is dripping off of me. My “pheromones” are stronger or something like that.

One thing that is very interesting is the intense JEALOUSY that we get, we even got KICKED OUT of a restaurant in London a few weeks ago. We were just in our own world, eating food, drinking good wine, and enjoying our own company, and next thing you know… you could feel the static electricity in the air all around us. The whole restaurant was talking about us, and the funniest/cutest thing, an 11-year-old girl was STARING at me, blushing… she must have been a very old soul. Indicators of interest from an 11-year-old girl, just what I need…

Anyway I got up and started talking to the hostess, a very cute italian girl, God I love how much women blush around me these days.. And then a couple minutes later the manager comes over to us, grabs our wine glasses and tells us to please leave, NOW.

In that moment, I look around and see the whole restaurant is GLARING at me.. the men are in awe of me, and wondering, “How does he do it??” and the teenage girls and 20-somethings are IN LOVE with me, and the OLDER WOMEN FUCKING *HATE* ME.

Yes, it is the women in their 30’s and 40’s who absolutely want me DEAD. When I merge with them in meditation, to have empathy and find out WHY they “hate” me, it’s because they are JEALOUS. They instinctively know that they could not handle being in a circle, it would cause them to feel too insecure and jealous, so they project this thick, dark, gooey, nasty hatred energy onto me, it’s pretty amazing.

Of course they can’t admit that it’s jealousy, not even to themselves. Instead, they rationalize their hatred with thoughts like, “He’s probably pimping those poor girls out. How could they be so stupid?? Don’t they realize he’s just USING them? The girls look so happy, too bad because he’s going to hurt them later. They are just naive, blah blah blah.”

All of this, to remain in denial about their own jealousy, envy. People go to extreme lengths to hold what little inner game they have together… They’ve lived lives of “quiet desperation”, they have given their power away on sooooo many levels, and eventually they have settled for a mediocre marriage, devoid of any passion, meaning, spirituality.

They see happy, bubbly, beautiful girls enjoying their love, and the first thought they have is, “Oh she’s just deluding herself. She’s just ignorant, stupid, she’s giving her power away’.

Ladies, there’s more to life than minivans and diamond rings. You just have to believe in yourself to make it happen, all that’s required is an open Heart.

One thing I’ve noticed over the years is that men are so used to being/feeling rejected that it just rolls off our backs… but a GIRL feeling REJECTED???

I’ve never seen darkness, hatred, anger like on a woman who feels rejected. I won’t even bother to give examples, I know you all know exactly what I’m talking about.

It’s one thing to be sitting in a restaurant with your husband and kids, and to have to endure the presence of a stunning “ten” walk by, you know… but this happens all the time, and women just deal with it.

But then, here I am, showing up with my CIRCLE, which is the mathematical equivalent of ten SQUARED. The girls are not only cute, but HAPPY, glowing, shimmering…

*EVERYBODY* takes notice. In an instant, the women in the room feel that their own social and sexual value is being 100% usurped to a degree they have never felt before. Every man in that room wishes that his GF or wife would be so cool, feminine, awesome.

So there it is - the women are so angry because the Circle threatens their “attractiveness” or “value” on such a hardcore level, it’s too much to handle and so they turn into these evil scared little girls. Like the opening scene in the movie “Cashback” where the girl is screaming at the guy in slow motion, with the look of pure evil in her eyes.

These women start staring at us, and since our Circle is making them feel so insecure, they go inside and try to find a way to somehow “discredit” us, like the women will look at our body language, hyperanalyzing it to try to find flaws in us, to feel better about themselves. A woman’s attractiveness is closely linked to her basic human survival, so you better believe women can get nasty in our presence - it’s literally felt in their DNA as a matter of life and death. We are the worse kind of threat, because her husband will forever view her as being so much less attractive than ever before. You better believe that husband is in awe of me and my Circle - what man wouldn’t be? Circles are beautiful.

I was getting my hair cut the other day, and the hairdresser was crushing on me bigtime, so were the other girls and even the gay guys who also work there.

Anyway, when she dried my hair, she had this really good technique for making my hair look amazing, so I told her that I would be back in an hour, and could she show “the girls” how to work that hair-dryer?

So I came back with the girls an hour later, sat down, and the girls went to work, taking turns learning how to blow-dry my hair.

Just then I felt this really uncomfortable feeling, so I looked over and this woman who was there with her 12-year-old son was GLARING at me, at all of us, in disgust/judgment.

When her son’s hair was done, HE got up and stared at the girls, it was so cute, he was IN LOVE with the girls, and his mother just grabbed his arm and pulled him out of the salon, angry.

I get it now.

I always wondered why women can be so nasty in the presence of my Circle, I’ve been doing this stuff for a long time, and I never fully understood it until now.

It’s pure jealousy, because the Circle is seen as a HUGE threat to other women’s attractiveness and social value. That woman who feels she’s an “8″ really feels like a TWO when we enter a room. She feels threatened like she’s never felt it before in her entire life.

My compassion just went up a notch, cool.

Blessings,
Stephane

QUESTION FROM A WOMAN:

I am a single bisexual woman who is very feminine, confident, straightforward, truth-seeking, and inter-dependant. I have used the same technique you described with men, only to have the men respond by shrinking into their egos and quaking in their shoes. The technique works on women without a second thought. Any suggestions for working this with men?

Peace and blessings…

MY COMMENTS:

Yes, most men are sheep, not leaders.

Women ask me this one all the time, and I don’t have much advice for women. The thing is that when I change the MAN, the women also changes. So, I work with men.

But, I will say this: You will usually attract your reciprocal. Get to work on yourself, on overcoming your fears, get to work on your Chakra, on meditation, on your physical attractiveness. As a woman, I’m sure you know exactly what improvements you can make, to get yourself ready for the day when a “real man” comes along.

I wish I had more to offer, but I don’t.

(Guys - they are out there, waiting for you to “man up”.)

QUESTION FROM A MAN:

Stephane, running a circle of three women sounds more like a pain in the ass than anything else. All these posts of yours only talk about “spankings” and how to overcome arguments and such problems. Why do you bother?

MY COMMENTS:

Let’s exagerrate this and imagine that on an average day, I need to spend 10 minutes “spanking” each girl, for a total of 30 minutes a day.

For the other 23 hours and 30 minutes of the day, I’m surrounded by loving, sweet, caring, beautiful, healing, balanced Yin Energy women, and we are having the time of our lives. They support me in many ways, they help me to run ideaGasms, they cook for me, clean for me, run errands, schedule appointments, do research for me… what I get in return for helping them to move beyond the painbody is IMMENSE. They are my family.

But, I rarely talk about the good stuff, you are right.

How much value would you guys get if the only thing I posted was, “I got a three-way blowjob this morning. Veronika did my laundry while I meditated in the bath, then we went out for lunch, and Ghita was so sweet because she jumped on me and hugged me so tightly that I fell over and knocked somebody’s wine all over them… then we went shopping, and to the movies, then I read a book to the girls and we all massaged each other. Then, we were very hungry, so the girls made dinner while I posted on my blog. Then, we had some more sex, followed by cuddling and laughing and giggling and cooing.”

Sure, you might get a BONER and a good, strong dose of JEALOUSY… but that is hardly valuable learning…

The reason I mainly post the “spanks” is because, well, it’s why you’re all here. I look at the questions you guys send me, and they are all about how to overcome certain specific challenges or “tests” that women offer us… You’re here because you want to learn how to be the “pack leaders” in a strong, dominant, balanced, and heart-centered way. I’m the Ceaser Millan of women, I’m The Chick Whisperer

Blessings and spanks,
Stephane