My Condolences To The Way Your Love Life Used To Be.

Archive for June, 2007

ideaGasms author Stephane
   Stephane

“Getting Ready For 10-Day Intensive Meditation”

(2 votes, average: 3 out of 5)
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That’s right, I will soon be meditating for 10 straight days.

* No TV, radio

* No Talking Whatsoever

* No Internet, no emails, no forum, no blog posts, no computer at all

* Ghita will cook, clean, and run ideaGasms.net for me, this includes sending out newsletters that I have pre-written, shipping squirt DVD’s, and replying to customers who don’t know how to download stuff ;)

* I am going to read Osho books, practice some of his sugggested meditations (from ‘The Orange book’), work on my Chakras, and keep a notepad handy for writing down new ideas

* I’m also going to play pool (I own a 4.5 X 9 pool table) because playing pool is a very meditative state for me

* I will be listening to some recordings I have (tuning forks and crystal bowls) to help open/balance my Chakras

* I will also be going for walks by myself in the woods, to meditate under trees (grounding)

* My diet will be very light, probably just one meal a day. This is to lose weight, cleanse my liver, kidneys, etc. and to keep my vibration as high as possible

The reason I’m doing this?

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ideaGasms author Stephane
   Stephane

“Sacral Chakra Teaches LET-GO”

(8 votes, average: 4.38 out of 5)
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*Question:

Stephane,

Here is a recurring issue in my inner game since forever. Early on, I
used to think “it’ll never work out” for me with women because “I am not
enough”. Fast forward 10 years, and I knew I was enough. But this “it’ll
never work out” remained under the guise of “my game is not enough.” So 5
years forward, my game is fairly developed. But now, I have accumulated so
many failures and have lost so many good girls during this learning process,
that I have simply lost faith: Facing a woman I REALLY like, a perfect
beauty, who truly touches my heart – I am just waiting for the disaster to
come. Not because I’m not a good enough man, not because I have no game, and
not because she does not love me, but fundamentally, I just don’t believe
anymore that it can actually happen!

>>My Comments:

You are stuck in the MIND.

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ideaGasms author Stephane
   Stephane

“Women Flooding My Inbox, But Not With Squirt Juice”

(6 votes, average: 4.83 out of 5)
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I’ve been getting more and more and more questions from WOMEN these days.. makes me wonder how many are on my list. I think eventually, I’ll start writing newsletters for both sexes.. or maybe I’ll start a new biz just for women. I even bought a domain name for this purpose - www.YourLoveLifeSucks.com. I’ll turn it into something eventually…

Just one page:

Your Love Life… SUCKS.

Here’s why:

(Sign up for the newsletter)

I think it’ll work! ;)

So anyway, this little post is an attempt to answer 5 or 6 women’s questions in one shot.

One in particular wrote to me about her breakup with some guy, and how she wanted more closure. As usual, she was dating a guy who wasn’t open to having a relationship with her (other than sex), which is very very very very very common ;)

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ideaGasms author Stephane
   Stephane

“Marriage: Until Physical Death Do Us Part”

(2 votes, average: 3 out of 5)
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*Question:

Hey Steph,

I’ve been thinking a lot about marriage lately and wanted to get your thoughts.

I see marriages failing all around me, and while I could be totally in
love with a woman for a period of time, I can’t imagine being sure
that would last forever no matter who she is.

How can someone realistically say that they are 100% sure they will be
in love in 5 years, or 10 years, or even tomorrow? I think they’re
deluding themselves.

Moreover, even if you are in love with one woman, this does not
prevent you from falling in love with other women and wanting to sleep
with them.

So I’ve been looking at alternatives:

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