Stephane says that arguing with a woman only trains her to lose respect for you. Along these lines, you don’t always need to “explain” your decisions and actions to her either. Sometimes women just pick fights BECAUSE they want to be “spanked”, or even yelled at, for a variety of reasons including the Pain-Body, Daddy Issues, Yin Testing, and just plain old wanting to feel horny for her man’s “Oak Tree” Yang energy.